Eric Cartman

What's the best way to fight jealousy?
I started feeling jealous about 4-5 days ago for no apparent reason.
I've been with my missus for 2.5 years and it's the first time i have felt any kind of jealousy. It feels like a sickness to be honest.
I started looking for her missed/outgoing/incoming calls in her mobile phone, emails etc.. I haven't found anything so far, and this felt really good but i still feel weird. We live together and we have a very happy life and this makes it even weirder.
Should i be worried about my actions? Is this something normal and will it just go away after a few days?

Eric

Jye

Get one of them ***** developers m8

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steve G MAN

mate i went through a little bit of this when i first started out with my wife she was a night club dancer used to drive me up the wall and i was doin the same kinda things your doin its no good and in the end it will lead to bad things you need to pack it in and have a bit of trust hope it helps a bit mate
steve

fatherpierre2

You don't explain what's triggered these feelings.

Has she changed towards you or started coming home late, being secretive, etc?

Eric Cartman

Thanks mate. I completely trust her, but i hear some sad stories occasionally about broken couples that everything was ok. It's just that it's by far the best relationship i have ever been involved in and i would be really hurt if something bad happened.
(i have to admit though, that i feel better about the jealousy thing as the days pass)

Eric

Eric Cartman

fatherpierre2 it's something that happened to a friend of mine. His g/f of 2 years dumped him for one of his best mates(a really geeky guy)
It's also that she is really busy with a project she's been working on and i feel left out.

fatherpierre2

So it's you and not her?

Why not tell her how you feel and i'm sure you'll find some reassurance from her.

She'll probably respect you more for openeing up to her and realise just how much you love her.

BOB.T

It doesn't sound that way to me and I think you'd have a hard time explaining it to her if she found out you'd been rooting round her phone! If you fully trusted her you wouldn't need to check up on her.

I think you'd do best to be completely open with her, tell her how you're feeling

Good luck

Eric Cartman

I just did and she told me i shouldn't worry and that every couple is different and once she finishes her project, she is going to make up for the lost time.

BOB.T

Cool