ENGAGEMENT RING
16 August 2010, 04:25 PM
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I recently ask my gf to marry me, why you might ask and on most days I ask the same question...... The question is does it matter where the ring is bought from in your eyes ??
Dont know if im just becoming a soft lad or what but I thought it was all about what it represented and that I bought it with care and all that **** (prob wrong site for this question having thoght about it)
I told my partner were going shopping for this in town (Leeds) and I was told it can olny be bought from this or that shop and its gota look like this and all types of demands, wish I bought it before I asked her now as it would have been alot easier and stress free otherwise.
Just really pissed me off about all the demands, I must be getting old or soft or both.
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Dont know if im just becoming a soft lad or what but I thought it was all about what it represented and that I bought it with care and all that **** (prob wrong site for this question having thoght about it)
I told my partner were going shopping for this in town (Leeds) and I was told it can olny be bought from this or that shop and its gota look like this and all types of demands, wish I bought it before I asked her now as it would have been alot easier and stress free otherwise.
Just really pissed me off about all the demands, I must be getting old or soft or both.
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Set yourself a budget, stick with it, no matter if she creates. If she is so insistant on wanting something showy and pricy to look flash, get rid.
It's a sign of love not a "look at me and what I got out of him" thing.
If she loves you she would be happy with a beefy hula hoop
Congratulations btw
16 August 2010, 04:26 PM
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Call me old fashioned, if you like, but I think the demands are so wrong.
Set yourself a budget, stick with it, no matter if she creates. If she is so insistant on wanting something showy and pricy to look flash, get rid.
It's a sign of love not a "look at me and what I got out of him" thing.
If she loves you she would be happy with a beefy hula hoop
Congratulations btw
Set yourself a budget, stick with it, no matter if she creates. If she is so insistant on wanting something showy and pricy to look flash, get rid.
It's a sign of love not a "look at me and what I got out of him" thing.
If she loves you she would be happy with a beefy hula hoop
Congratulations btw
16 August 2010, 05:00 PM
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Even though I agree with Lydia, and getting married ultimatly should be a decision made together.
I still like the olde world type of proposals, where you are wowed by it all. You get swept up in it all.
If you bring it all down to 'just' the ring, and you pick it together it's just not the same. It makes it more like a formality of the wedding process rather than a declaration of your undying love.
If your crazy in love, the ring should be just a token.
If your just there to foot the bill, there is something wrong.
16 August 2010, 05:31 PM
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17 August 2010, 03:38 PM
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Call me old fashioned, if you like, but I think the demands are so wrong.
Set yourself a budget, stick with it, no matter if she creates. If she is so insistant on wanting something showy and pricy to look flash, get rid.
It's a sign of love not a "look at me and what I got out of him" thing.
If she loves you she would be happy with a beefy hula hoop
Congratulations btw
Set yourself a budget, stick with it, no matter if she creates. If she is so insistant on wanting something showy and pricy to look flash, get rid.
It's a sign of love not a "look at me and what I got out of him" thing.
If she loves you she would be happy with a beefy hula hoop
Congratulations btw
Les
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