Annoyed with "friend" and his sex acts..
01 January 2011, 04:38 PM
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Annoyed with "friend" and his sex acts..
Went out for a birthday bash a couple of nights ago with some friends. I txt'd a girl from work on the off-chance she could be out in town. She wasn't but as she was at a loose end she and her friend decided to come to town and join us.
Now this girl is a good work-friend of mine and we often go out in a small gang on drinking sessions. Good times...
Anyway the other night, after lots of drinking, eventually we were down to myself, the two girls and - I'd call him a distant friend..
Now he is a bit of a perv and has history but in recent years has had no stories to tell. Eventually I called it a night and left him out with the girls (he had not met them prior to this night out). Girls had suggested earlier they didn't want to be left with him but before I left them I assured them they should be ok..
Turned out they got absolutely smashed and all went back to my friends.. He was said to be walking around the house naked, entered bedroom 1 and proceeded to start ******** her. She awoke and let him continue. He then made an excuse to fetch some water and you won't believe this but entered the other bedroom and shagged her friend too.
I'm not sure if they both know he did them but I'm pretty disgusted.
At first I laughed but having spoken to my work friend (who is in bedroom 1 - sorry I mention no names) her story is rather scary and she is quite shaken and spooked by it.
Now this could almost be classed as rape but I think it may have to blow over due to the fact he was allowed to go as far as he did, regardless that they were all steaming and half asleep when he took advantage.
I really regret asking her to come out and blame myself to some extent.
I'm expecting a mixed response here mainly due to the mentality of some peeps but when you know these girls it is very much out of character. And no I'm not jealous either before anyone suggests, just a bit bothered.
These are young girls in their early 20s whilst the guy is in his 40s and already a granddad.
Now this girl is a good work-friend of mine and we often go out in a small gang on drinking sessions. Good times...
Anyway the other night, after lots of drinking, eventually we were down to myself, the two girls and - I'd call him a distant friend..
Now he is a bit of a perv and has history but in recent years has had no stories to tell. Eventually I called it a night and left him out with the girls (he had not met them prior to this night out). Girls had suggested earlier they didn't want to be left with him but before I left them I assured them they should be ok..
Turned out they got absolutely smashed and all went back to my friends.. He was said to be walking around the house naked, entered bedroom 1 and proceeded to start ******** her. She awoke and let him continue. He then made an excuse to fetch some water and you won't believe this but entered the other bedroom and shagged her friend too.
I'm not sure if they both know he did them but I'm pretty disgusted.
At first I laughed but having spoken to my work friend (who is in bedroom 1 - sorry I mention no names) her story is rather scary and she is quite shaken and spooked by it.
Now this could almost be classed as rape but I think it may have to blow over due to the fact he was allowed to go as far as he did, regardless that they were all steaming and half asleep when he took advantage.
I really regret asking her to come out and blame myself to some extent.
I'm expecting a mixed response here mainly due to the mentality of some peeps but when you know these girls it is very much out of character. And no I'm not jealous either before anyone suggests, just a bit bothered.
These are young girls in their early 20s whilst the guy is in his 40s and already a granddad.
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01 January 2011, 04:44 PM
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well the girls said they didn't want to be left alone with him but then again they could have left when you did, they stayed behind and got smashed and went (presumably willingly) back to his place, it doesn't sound like they were too bothered really. If they didn't want that sort of thing they shouldn't have gone back to his place.
01 January 2011, 04:48 PM
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Ouch. Sounds like a really classy bloke and a bit of a sh1tbag tbh.
So much I could say, but it will be wasted on the immature mooks that frequent this site these days.
So much I could say, but it will be wasted on the immature mooks that frequent this site these days.
01 January 2011, 04:55 PM
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Most of this is in his words. I've not had chance to talk to the girls about it much yet.
They got in the same taxi and as he lives in the opposite direction, invited himself back to theirs.
It does read rather vague I know. And also suggests the girls were more than willing but the vibes I'm getting back is far from it. The guy is a predetor and has a history. He's also married but estranged from his wife - he has his own separate place to go to when they fall out - which is most nights from what I gather.
He went out with his wife last night.
They got in the same taxi and as he lives in the opposite direction, invited himself back to theirs.
It does read rather vague I know. And also suggests the girls were more than willing but the vibes I'm getting back is far from it. The guy is a predetor and has a history. He's also married but estranged from his wife - he has his own separate place to go to when they fall out - which is most nights from what I gather.
He went out with his wife last night.
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Did the alarm bells not start to ring when this "stranger" was walking about stark bollock ?
They all got pissed and had a bit of a romp from the sounds of it, then regretted it the next day.
They all got pissed and had a bit of a romp from the sounds of it, then regretted it the next day.
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Seems to me that you're bothered because you told the two girls that they would be ok.
Well they had the chance to leave when you did.
They also had the chance to call a taxi and leave when matey-boy started strutting his stuff.
They could also both have said the magic word - no - when he was on the job.
Sounds to me at first as if they weren't too bothered.
It does appear to an outsider that your friend (girl) would say she was scared and spooked by the experience. After all what would you think of her if she said something like 'well he climbed on top and shoved one up me and I loved it!'
Sounds a bit harsh perhaps but try to see the point.
I wouldn't get too distraught about it, after all you didn't actually take any part in the proceedings. If there is a case to be heard then get the girls to tell the old bill.
Well they had the chance to leave when you did.
They also had the chance to call a taxi and leave when matey-boy started strutting his stuff.
They could also both have said the magic word - no - when he was on the job.
Sounds to me at first as if they weren't too bothered.
It does appear to an outsider that your friend (girl) would say she was scared and spooked by the experience. After all what would you think of her if she said something like 'well he climbed on top and shoved one up me and I loved it!'
Sounds a bit harsh perhaps but try to see the point.
I wouldn't get too distraught about it, after all you didn't actually take any part in the proceedings. If there is a case to be heard then get the girls to tell the old bill.
01 January 2011, 05:43 PM
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Most of this is in his words. I've not had chance to talk to the girls about it much yet.
They got in the same taxi and as he lives in the opposite direction, invited himself back to theirs.
It does read rather vague I know. And also suggests the girls were more than willing but the vibes I'm getting back is far from it. The guy is a predetor and has a history. He's also married but estranged from his wife - he has his own separate place to go to when they fall out - which is most nights from what I gather.
He went out with his wife last night.
They got in the same taxi and as he lives in the opposite direction, invited himself back to theirs.
It does read rather vague I know. And also suggests the girls were more than willing but the vibes I'm getting back is far from it. The guy is a predetor and has a history. He's also married but estranged from his wife - he has his own separate place to go to when they fall out - which is most nights from what I gather.
He went out with his wife last night.
If he had done what he said he had, I imagine the girls would have contacted the Police by now
01 January 2011, 05:50 PM
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It does all sound a bit sad, and unfortunately alcohol is nobodys friend unless 'enjoyed responsibly'.
As for you feeling responsible, if you knew he was THAT bad then maybe you shouldn't have left them alone with him.
That said, they are adults, and even after drinking they left with him, went home with him and had sex with him.
They may seem like nice girls, but even after a shed load of booze I have never gone home with a stranger, and I am proud to say I haven't.
They were hardly taken advantage of, they just seem to feel a bit dirty, and used perhaps?
It wouldn't have been so bad if he had just slept with the one girl, but as he did them both, they probably feel even worse.
My suggestion to you, stay away from him. He sounds line a ****.
As for you feeling responsible, if you knew he was THAT bad then maybe you shouldn't have left them alone with him.
That said, they are adults, and even after drinking they left with him, went home with him and had sex with him.
They may seem like nice girls, but even after a shed load of booze I have never gone home with a stranger, and I am proud to say I haven't.
They were hardly taken advantage of, they just seem to feel a bit dirty, and used perhaps?
It wouldn't have been so bad if he had just slept with the one girl, but as he did them both, they probably feel even worse.
My suggestion to you, stay away from him. He sounds line a ****.
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why dident the two girls leave or stick together ? because there both up for it ?
your "mate" could probably spot it a mile off
they probably reret it because they both look easy...and are, IMO
your "mate" could probably spot it a mile off
they probably reret it because they both look easy...and are, IMO
01 January 2011, 06:03 PM
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From your post I got the impression that you would hopefully like to bang the co-worker yourself at some stage which is why you txt'd her on the off chance that she would come out.
On the other hand you may not want to bang her thus she must be fat and as such this thread loses any interest to me.
Either way, your mate knew what he was upto and so did the 2 girls as what did they expect going back to a fellas house u'd never met before.
On the other hand you may not want to bang her thus she must be fat and as such this thread loses any interest to me.
Either way, your mate knew what he was upto and so did the 2 girls as what did they expect going back to a fellas house u'd never met before.
cut all ties IMHO.
01 January 2011, 06:20 PM
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He actually penetrated the first one whilst she was asleep, that in my book is rape if its true but it does sound like a drunken romp with a bit of regret and a hangover.
01 January 2011, 06:44 PM
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Sometimes you can be sooo drunk you haven't a clue what is going on,specially being woken from sleep and still **** faced on booze,or maybe it was not just drink that was involved that night..But as been said they could of left but decided to stay,maybe thinking they would be safe two girl mates together..
01 January 2011, 06:56 PM
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It takes two to tango.
Sounds like two women need to get some clue what they want from men. Seems they don't mind dirty drunken sex with randoms but can't admit it sober.
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