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Old 18 May 2008, 10:29 AM
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Default Have you ever walked away from it all?

Have you ever thought about or actually packed a bag (I mean one bag only), for whatever reason, and taken that step to a new life without a clue of how it would turn out.
I did it many years ago and it was the most enlightening thing I ever did!
Closing the front door and walking away from everything that I'd known, not knowing where I was going to end up, was the most exciting and frightening thing I ever did. I was pooping myself but it was also the best high I'd ever had. And no, I wasn't running because I was in trouble, that's easy

Ever had the urge?
Old 18 May 2008, 10:38 AM
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and look where you ended up





















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Old 18 May 2008, 10:40 AM
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You're not Richey Edwards from the Manic Street Preachers by any chance ?

I suspect most people have at one point or another, but aren't prepared to take the chance. It may have worked out for you, but the grass isn't necessarily greener on the other side.

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Old 18 May 2008, 10:50 AM
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Originally Posted by GarethE
You're not Richey Edwards from the Manic Street Preachers by any chance ?

I suspect most people have at one point or another, but aren't prepared to take the chance. It may have worked out for you, but the grass isn't necessarily greener on the other side.

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No, but I do like some of the Manic's stuff

I never had a thought for 'greener grass'. It was an adventure without any guarantees. That's why it was exciting/scary.
Old 18 May 2008, 10:56 AM
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Originally Posted by coolangatta
Have you ever thought about or actually packed a bag (I mean one bag only), for whatever reason, and taken that step to a new life without a clue of how it would turn out.
I did it many years ago and it was the most enlightening thing I ever did!
Closing the front door and walking away from everything that I'd known, not knowing where I was going to end up, was the most exciting and frightening thing I ever did. I was pooping myself but it was also the best high I'd ever had. And no, I wasn't running because I was in trouble, that's easy

Ever had the urge?
Hope you told your mam ..!
Old 18 May 2008, 11:08 AM
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I did it about ten years ago, packed everything I wanted to keep in a big wheely bag, gave everything else away and went to work in London on a six week contract not knowing what I was getting into or what was coming after. It was a big change from North East Scotland I can tell you!
Ten years later I was still there and have never regretted it.
Opened doors I'd never otherwise have had opened and allowed me to see things and places I never thought (or even contemplated) I would.

But ten years was enough and if anyone knows the lyrics to Dougie MacLean's Caledonia, that just about tells the story.

If you have a chance - do it, it might not work out but surely having tried is better than a life of "what if..." ???
Old 18 May 2008, 11:15 AM
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Originally Posted by dpb
Hope you told your mam ..!
Yep, but only by email/phone after I'd done it. You always have to let your Mum know your safe She'd have talked me out of it if I'd discussed it first!

HankScorpio,
Totally agree, much better than a 'what if life'.

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Old 18 May 2008, 11:40 AM
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Coolangatta...... care to share a few details of what you did, why and how it turned out??
Old 18 May 2008, 12:40 PM
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Coolangatta...... care to share a few details of what you did, why and how it turned out??
I'll keep it brief, but basically I had it 'good' as I had a well paid job and good prospects, only a small amount of debt and I was slowly becoming 'comfortable'.
Although I was pretty well travelled, I'd never had the opportunity to live in another culture which became an obsession after having a taster.
Basically I had a brainstorm. Spent, literally, a few days planning my exodus and just did it with my heart in my mouth.
I'm happy I did. Things are much better than I could have expected
Old 18 May 2008, 05:20 PM
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Not yet, very tempted...
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Maxx out the credit cards first .!
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Did it when i was 15 ended up in a tent cold wet three mile from parents house went back the next day.
Old 18 May 2008, 09:28 PM
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Originally Posted by coolangatta
Have you ever thought about or actually packed a bag (I mean one bag only), for whatever reason, and taken that step to a new life without a clue of how it would turn out.
I did it many years ago and it was the most enlightening thing I ever did!
Closing the front door and walking away from everything that I'd known, not knowing where I was going to end up, was the most exciting and frightening thing I ever did. I was pooping myself but it was also the best high I'd ever had. And no, I wasn't running because I was in trouble, that's easy

Ever had the urge?
Felt like it i tell ya this last few years but too much tying me here now(mortgage, animals etc.) If it was another time without my ties then i reckon it would do me good.
Good on ya, glad it worked out for you!
Old 18 May 2008, 09:32 PM
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Did it when i got divorced.

walked out and never went back.

new life, new job.

hard at the time, but worked out for the best all round



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Old 18 May 2008, 09:38 PM
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Always fancied getting on a plane to a Greek island and just working in a bar for the summer. Sunbathe all day, mingle with the holiday makers by night. I know bar work is hard work but i would just like try it for a season. Probably wouldn't last a month but it's a nice idea!
Old 18 May 2008, 11:06 PM
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Did it Boxing Day 1999. Big step, made sure I'd considered my options beforehand. Now I've got 3 kids who run me ragged I sometimes wonder if I did the right thing....... Apparently I may be rewarded later in life
Old 18 May 2008, 11:19 PM
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Coolangatta, did the username come from the gold coast by any chance? I spend quite a lot of time over there; we have a place is Mudgereeba
Old 18 May 2008, 11:24 PM
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I went to Tenerife in 1999 and stayed there for four years. Had the time of my life.
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Originally Posted by RRH
Coolangatta, did the username come from the gold coast by any chance? I spend quite a lot of time over there; we have a place is Mudgereeba
Yes, it was the first step on my journey!
Great memories
I've been back several times since then.
Old 18 May 2008, 11:36 PM
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Originally Posted by *Jamie*
Did it when i was 15 ended up in a tent cold wet three mile from parents house went back the next day.
PMSL and you still live in a tent in the summer
Old 18 May 2008, 11:37 PM
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I've thought about it many times but never gone through with it, maybe one day I will
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Not exactly walking out of my life but Ive got some money together and Im packing my bags and flying to Panama 2 weeks today. I have no plan as to what Im going to do with myself once Im there, just me and a backpack for a few months before flying back. Thinking it will be a good character building exercise.
Old 19 May 2008, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by coolangatta
Have you ever thought about or actually packed a bag (I mean one bag only), for whatever reason, and taken that step to a new life without a clue of how it would turn out.
Ask John Darwin the only thing he packed was a canoe
Old 19 May 2008, 12:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Julz1983
Ask John Darwin the only thing he packed was a canoe
He packed a whole lot of lies too!
Old 19 May 2008, 01:48 PM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
Not exactly walking out of my life but Ive got some money together and Im packing my bags and flying to Panama 2 weeks today. I have no plan as to what Im going to do with myself once Im there, just me and a backpack for a few months before flying back. Thinking it will be a good character building exercise.
Wow, how exciting! Hope you have a great time
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