Just had a curious text....
16 August 2007, 03:42 PM
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Just had a curious text....
... from an "ex"
Short version of a long story. Split with her about 4 years ago, stayed in touch until some choice stories got about and ruined what was left of the friendship.
Annnnnnnyway..
About 6 months ago, realising I still had her number I dropped her a text to say hiya. After a few texts and apparently realising who it was.... she told me she was not happy talking to me, things have changed, she has moved on etc. Please delete her number... which I am fine about, so I did.
Just got a text off her now, regarding her wedding dress. Was apparently for her mum, but for some reason im still in her phone book so she sent it to me in error. lol bizarre.
Tbh im made up for her, great to see her happy and settling down. Just amuzed that im still in her phone book, while she is being so negative regarding talkin to me.
Im glad I am though, in a strange way.
I realise its an accidental on purpose thing, but not sure of the intention. Either way, it got my attention, but just made me smile, so no harm done lol.
Short version of a long story. Split with her about 4 years ago, stayed in touch until some choice stories got about and ruined what was left of the friendship.
Annnnnnnyway..
About 6 months ago, realising I still had her number I dropped her a text to say hiya. After a few texts and apparently realising who it was.... she told me she was not happy talking to me, things have changed, she has moved on etc. Please delete her number... which I am fine about, so I did.
Just got a text off her now, regarding her wedding dress. Was apparently for her mum, but for some reason im still in her phone book so she sent it to me in error. lol bizarre.
Tbh im made up for her, great to see her happy and settling down. Just amuzed that im still in her phone book, while she is being so negative regarding talkin to me.
Im glad I am though, in a strange way.
I realise its an accidental on purpose thing, but not sure of the intention. Either way, it got my attention, but just made me smile, so no harm done lol.
16 August 2007, 03:59 PM
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Women mate, try to make out you missed out.
You SHOULD feel GREAT!!..... let some other 'chump' get married 
16 August 2007, 04:06 PM
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lol I got the "oops sorry" one about 45 seconds later
Yeah I suppose it could be a ner ner nerner ner sorta text. But like I say, its just made me happy for her, not jealous.
Been with my missus for the past 4 1/2 years now, younger, less miles on her and a richer family
Just kiddin, thats not really my motive, we are just great together.
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When I broke up with my ex (of 10 years) in some bizarre deal, he kept my mobile phone and number. No worries, I told everyone my new number.
I then met & married my wonderful hubby (our anniversary today
). Didn't tell ex. He'd been getting tricky and it was none of his business anyway.
Got a text from him a month or so later sorely miffed. Sis in Law had sent a text to my old mobile number asking what the name of the wine was we'd had at the wedding......
I then met & married my wonderful hubby (our anniversary today
). Didn't tell ex. He'd been getting tricky and it was none of his business anyway.Got a text from him a month or so later sorely miffed. Sis in Law had sent a text to my old mobile number asking what the name of the wine was we'd had at the wedding......
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lol I like that thinking...
yeah, name being Michael. Or as someone else suggested could be Mother****a!
Have never met the guy, so no pics, which is a shame, I would like to be sure he is of suitable quality lol.
As the the "im gay" bit.... not bad, but she knows for sure that I would really have had to change my ways..... although towards the end of the relationship......Hmmmm, some do say that makes you as good as gay!! 
ReallyReallyGoodMeat .......Would your name be near her mums in the address book?
Reply "I'm gay...get over it".
Then ask her to post a pic of her hubby to be
Then ask her to post a pic of her hubby to be
As the the "im gay" bit.... not bad, but she knows for sure that I would really have had to change my ways..... although towards the end of the relationship......Hmmmm, some do say that makes you as good as gay!!
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When I broke up with my ex (of 10 years) in some bizarre deal, he kept my mobile phone and number. No worries, I told everyone my new number.
I then met & married my wonderful hubby (our anniversary today ). Didn't tell ex. He'd been getting tricky and it was none of his business anyway.
Got a text from him a month or so later sorely miffed. Sis in Law had sent a text to my old mobile number asking what the name of the wine was we'd had at the wedding......
I then met & married my wonderful hubby (our anniversary today
). Didn't tell ex. He'd been getting tricky and it was none of his business anyway.Got a text from him a month or so later sorely miffed. Sis in Law had sent a text to my old mobile number asking what the name of the wine was we'd had at the wedding......
lol now thats sour grapes if I ever heard it lol
Get it ??
Aaah well.
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16 August 2007, 05:19 PM
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lol nope not a typo, and not busted at all 
Its good to have options. Never jump, just take large steps, always keeping one foot on the ground lol
But thank you for taking the time to read the thread in such depth.
Its good to have options. Never jump, just take large steps, always keeping one foot on the ground lol
But thank you for taking the time to read the thread in such depth.
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About 6 months ago, realising I still had her number I dropped her a text to say hiya, because I was getting absolutely nowhere with the opposite sex. After a few stalking type texts and apparently realising who it was.... she told me she was not happy talking to me and that she thought I was sad to contact her the way I did, things have changed, her new man has a huge ****, she has moved on emotionally and no longer likes sitting in reading comics etc. Please delete her number otherwise she'll call the police... which I am furious about really, as I loved her so much I have to admit I suffered from premature ejaculation for 2 years, anyway so I did.
Just got a text off her now as I hadn't really deleted her number (how else did I know it was her), regarding her wedding dress that we had originally chosen together after seeing each other for 4 days. Was apparently for her mum, but for some 'safety' reason im still in her phone book so she sent it to me in error. lol bizarre as it's now stirred all my old feelings up and I feel like a tug in her memory.
Tbh im fuming, to see her happy and settling down just infuriates me. Just amuzed that im still in her phone book for safety reasons, like I'm some kind of freak, while she is rightly being so negative regarding talkin to me I don't pose too much of a threat, only when mocked for having a really tiny *****.
Im glad I have though, in a strange way.
I realise its an accidental thing, but now I'm not sure of my intentions. Either way, it got my attention, but just made me feel like empty, so a fair bit of harm done lol.
16 August 2007, 07:21 PM
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About 6 months ago, realising I still had her number I dropped her a text to say hiya, because I was getting absolutely nowhere with the opposite sex. After a few stalking type texts and apparently realising who it was.... she told me she was not happy talking to me and that she thought I was sad to contact her the way I did, things have changed, her new man has a huge ****, she has moved on emotionally and no longer likes sitting in reading comics etc. Please delete her number otherwise she'll call the police... which I am furious about really, as I loved her so much I have to admit I suffered from premature ejaculation for 2 years, anyway so I did.
Just got a text off her now as I hadn't really deleted her number (how else did I know it was her), regarding her wedding dress that we had originally chosen together after seeing each other for 4 days. Was apparently for her mum, but for some 'safety' reason im still in her phone book so she sent it to me in error. lol bizarre as it's now stirred all my old feelings up and I feel like a tug in her memory.
Tbh im fuming, to see her happy and settling down just infuriates me. Just amuzed that im still in her phone book for safety reasons, like I'm some kind of freak, while she is rightly being so negative regarding talkin to me I don't pose too much of a threat, only when mocked for having a really tiny *****.
Im glad I have though, in a strange way.
I realise its an accidental thing, but now I'm not sure of my intentions. Either way, it got my attention, but just made me feel like empty, so a fair bit of harm done lol.
Just got a text off her now as I hadn't really deleted her number (how else did I know it was her), regarding her wedding dress that we had originally chosen together after seeing each other for 4 days. Was apparently for her mum, but for some 'safety' reason im still in her phone book so she sent it to me in error. lol bizarre as it's now stirred all my old feelings up and I feel like a tug in her memory.
Tbh im fuming, to see her happy and settling down just infuriates me. Just amuzed that im still in her phone book for safety reasons, like I'm some kind of freak, while she is rightly being so negative regarding talkin to me I don't pose too much of a threat, only when mocked for having a really tiny *****.
Im glad I have though, in a strange way.
I realise its an accidental thing, but now I'm not sure of my intentions. Either way, it got my attention, but just made me feel like empty, so a fair bit of harm done lol.
Just to make sure its understood, she kept my number, hers was and still is deleted from my phone (as per the injunction lol JOKE !!)
I just recognised the last 3 digits.
Have I opened an old wound for you
Just playin.
One for the road, I dont think my missus would appreciate that these days, but the picture that paints is a good one I have to say
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lol very good and well written too, just how I should have put it if wasn't for the immense embarrassment of my work colleagues reading it.
Just to make sure its understood, she kept my number for security reasons, hers was and still is deleted from my phone (as per the injunction)
I just recognised the last 3 digits. (999)
Had I just opened her old wound one more time.
Just playing the skin piano excited me.
One for the road, I dont think my missus would appreciate that these days, but the picture that paints is a good one I have to say
Just to make sure its understood, she kept my number for security reasons, hers was and still is deleted from my phone (as per the injunction)
I just recognised the last 3 digits. (999)
Had I just opened her old wound one more time.
Just playing the skin piano excited me.
One for the road, I dont think my missus would appreciate that these days, but the picture that paints is a good one I have to say
