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Old 12 April 2006, 02:42 PM
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Default Going to pop the question. Which one of these?

I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years now, and it's about time I asked her to marry me.

We've seen all our friends get married, start families etc. and I know she's the one for me. Plus, she has been dropping massive hints that she's sick of waiting - particularly when drunk and at weddings

I've been looking at rings on ebay and have narrowed it down to 2. I'm not definitley going to buy from ebay but the two listed are the style I think she'll like.

Which one? Price isn't really an issue:

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.d...MEWA%3AIT&rd=1

http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.d...MEWA%3AIT&rd=1
Old 12 April 2006, 02:44 PM
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Dont do it Although the missus likes the bottom one if you must
Old 12 April 2006, 02:44 PM
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I like the 1st one!!
Old 12 April 2006, 02:45 PM
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Your buggered if they don't fit, or she says no
Old 12 April 2006, 02:46 PM
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What's wrong with Elizabeth Duke from Argos

First one but from a proper jeweller/specialist
Old 12 April 2006, 02:53 PM
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My advise is dont do

Its a waste of time, money. It add's grey hairs to your already balding nonce.

Though on the plus side you get to bang the maid of honour & the mother in law









Ps IMHO of course
Old 12 April 2006, 02:55 PM
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You don't see many threads titled "My marriage is going great and its the best thing i've ever done" do you ?
Old 12 April 2006, 02:57 PM
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Bottom one.
Old 12 April 2006, 03:02 PM
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FP, do you remember the horror stories about white gold? Rhodium plating wears off after a few years, you'll need to get it replated, repeatedly. apples24's wore off after some months ISTR.

..in case you didn't know

PS I prefer the top one, but I'm a bloke
Old 12 April 2006, 03:04 PM
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Love to see her face when she finds out you brought her ring off of fleabay
Old 12 April 2006, 03:05 PM
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You tight ******!

1 months wages minimum!
Old 12 April 2006, 03:07 PM
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How much do I earn per month, though .

They're only examples - didn't say I was going to buy either one. Just the styleee.......
Old 12 April 2006, 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by davyboy
You tight ******!

1 months wages minimum!
Says the man who knows his missis will read this later, talk about transparent
Old 12 April 2006, 03:10 PM
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Don't buy a ring without letting her try it on! I had an idea of what I wanted and when I tried it on, I didn't like it.

Also, those ones off Ebay will have loads of flaws in the diamonds and won't be worth the going rate for a good, clear diamond that you could get from a specialist jeweller.

Don't be tight. If you love her, then it'll be worth it
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Not me mate, no way I'd spend £5k on a ring
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Originally Posted by Karl 227
Says the man who knows his missis will read this later, talk about transparent
LOL, but I was there when he bought it so I know exctly how much it cost!
Old 12 April 2006, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by fatherpierre
How much do I earn per month, though .

They're only examples - didn't say I was going to buy either one. Just the styleee.......
Congratulations.

Only a few posts in and already people are misquoting the original post!!

As for styles, you really need to ask your g/f what she fancies.
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Originally Posted by Spoon
Congratulations.

Only a few posts in and already people are misquoting the original post!!

As for styles, you really need to ask your g/f what she fancies.
It's going to be a surprise, so I have to choose on my own.

I'm taking her to Claridges where I'll drop/pop the question.
Old 12 April 2006, 03:17 PM
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I got asked the question without a ring. I was glad of it, then I could choose my own.
Old 12 April 2006, 03:18 PM
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Not like Dave not to want to take you up the ring, Clare?
Old 12 April 2006, 03:20 PM
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I know Karl, but he asked me at the Ring!
Old 12 April 2006, 03:22 PM
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Brave man, good job you hadn't had a Vindaloo before hand, did he sound a bit muffled?
Old 12 April 2006, 03:25 PM
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I prefer the tapered shoulder of the second one, but prefer round diamonds, not square personally

1ct will be huge btw. Go for a smaller higher quality diamond - I got a F grade VVS 1/3 ct for my g/f (now wife) which suited her fingers perfectly (she has long slim fingers)

I know you only asked about the style but I'd like to repeat the comment about white gold, don' do it! Get platinum, looks WAY better than any gold ring (IMO).

Oh, if you are looking to get the most from your money - go to the Jewellery Qtr in Birmingham. I got all the rings from Ellens who won my vote 'cos they DIDN'T try and sell me the engagement ring.
Old 12 April 2006, 03:32 PM
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Buy a cheap ring from Argos to ask the question then take her shopping so "She" can pick one out.

Lets face it, it should with any luck be on her finger for the rest of her life so it definatley can't be something she doesn't actually like!
Old 12 April 2006, 03:39 PM
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text her - that's how i did it
Old 12 April 2006, 03:45 PM
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Top one.

But must be platinum and at least a minimum of .5 of a carat unless of course your a tight wad
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Originally Posted by gingerboy
Top one.

But must be platinum and at least a minimum of .5 of a carat unless of course your a tight wad
Size ain't everything I went for a very high quality diamond (proper certificate and everything) which was 'only' 1/3ct. Trust me - you can REALLY tell the difference.

Then my wife is quite small (5'1" and slim build) so a big ring and rock would just look stupid. Go for what suits and get the best you can.
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Really like the bottom one!
Old 12 April 2006, 04:00 PM
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def let her choose the ring...

good luck!
Old 12 April 2006, 04:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Kieran_Burns
Size ain't everything I went for a very high quality diamond (proper certificate and everything) which was 'only' 1/3ct. Trust me - you can REALLY tell the difference.

Then my wife is quite small (5'1" and slim build) so a big ring and rock would just look stupid. Go for what suits and get the best you can.
I didn'y say i hadn't gone for quality as well , but yes you are quite right - so when choosing must be platinum, certified and do your homework as any diamond can be certified.

You need to swat up on colour, clarity and cut - and then make sure your certified diamond isn't certified crap .

Why is it that women want a ring anyway - does that mean the bloke can have a nice watch when the happy couple get engaged . Can't coplain though my missus bought me an Omega speedmaster split second chronometer 2 years after we married - oh I love that watch.

Sorry - thread hi-jack.

http://gilletts.com.au/information.php?info_id=7

Bit of helpful info here - sorry it's the first link with useful info in my google search, but covers clarity, cut, carat weight and colour.

Regards

GB


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