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Old 26 March 2006, 05:26 PM
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would like to hear your views on this.

i am 21 currently living at home and single. I am in two minds weather to move out, one part of me is telling me to get on the housing market and the other side is telling me to live at home a bit longer till i either meet someone or are a bit older.

what do u think
Old 26 March 2006, 05:33 PM
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Stay until you've got a nice big deposit for your own place. Then go.
Old 26 March 2006, 05:36 PM
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get it done mate . save up a deposit and buy . even if you dont move in . you could rent it out till you want to live alone or find a bird . but prices aint going to get much cheaper even if there is a dip .
Old 26 March 2006, 05:56 PM
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Its a slippery slope. If you arent careful youll end up like one of those sad f*ckers who still live with their mother when theyre 36. Its time to move out and grow up...

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Old 26 March 2006, 06:20 PM
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You don't have to buy a house to move out. Just rent a room with some people of a similar age
Old 26 March 2006, 06:22 PM
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cant rent with other people i get wind up really easy.
Old 26 March 2006, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by vallumlj
cant rent with other people i get wind up really easy.
Just fart it out then!
Old 26 March 2006, 06:53 PM
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how about renting some where on my own see how i get on. when i meet someone buy somewhere

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Old 26 March 2006, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by vallumlj
cant rent with other people i get wind up really easy.
All the better reason to move out then. You gotta get used to it as its a part of life.
Old 26 March 2006, 07:32 PM
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if you stay there will be trouble
if you go it will be double
oh come on and let me know
Old 26 March 2006, 07:33 PM
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if you move out tho and are renting you are paying someone elses mortgage while wasting money you could be saving for a deposit save up for a year then buy ..imo....... you will have to one day anyway better sooner rather than later ...
Old 26 March 2006, 07:35 PM
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Naaa bugger that, stay at home, much cheaper and you can save big bucks until you meet someone. then you have the clout to buy somwthing decent.
I don't know what all the fuss is about buying a house, it's only a roof over your head. and a status symbol of todays society that says "look at me and how well off I am".
Who cares...
32 and still at home


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Old 26 March 2006, 07:41 PM
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the idea of renting somewhere in town is growing on me living life a bit more some where to take the girls back to. I can dream any way
Old 26 March 2006, 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by vallumlj
cant rent with other people i get wind up really easy.
Perhaps you should get the practice in then before you inflict yourself on a wife & kids
Old 26 March 2006, 08:33 PM
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if you can afford to move out then i would say go for it, get a decent deposit and buy somewhere, renting is, as said, just paying someone elses mortgage!

just make sure you can afford to pay all the bills mortgage insurances etc, and have money left over to be able to "play" a little!
Old 26 March 2006, 08:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Fuzz
Naaa bugger that, stay at home, much cheaper and you can save big bucks until you meet someone. then you have the clout to buy somwthing decent.
I don't know what all the fuss is about buying a house, it's only a roof over your head. and a status symbol of todays society that says "look at me and how well off I am".
Who cares...
32 and still at home


Andy
Well said Andy..... 37 and still lives with mother..... mind you, i do own half the house
Old 26 March 2006, 08:40 PM
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Wasn't there a study recently. Where 60% of over 30 year olds are still at home?
Old 26 March 2006, 08:46 PM
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Definately stay at home,dont move out cos you thinks its what you "have to do" I finished uni last year came back to the family home got a good job and now im just spending a year or two at home earning a nice salary saving a bit spending a bit

I dont think i wud even entertain a morgage in todays climate without getting a joint one so we can borrow our combined salaries and get a juicey house in the country somewhere or maybe a terraced house the way its going

answer: stay on home till the time is economically right

ps you havent just had an arguement with your mam about tidying your room have you?
Old 26 March 2006, 08:51 PM
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lol no mate just a idea
Old 26 March 2006, 08:52 PM
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one more thing

it wont just be the morgage /rent you will have as outgoings also remember

council tax
insurance
own food
repairs (if buying)
TV license
Gas bill
Electricity Bill
Water bill
phone line
internet bill
sky bill (if applicable)

then the standards like

car
car insurance
fuel / service / repairs
going out
tabs
beer
takeaways
expenditure for getting laid (taking birds out, not the losers way in 'dam)

put those into a spreadsheet.........
Old 26 March 2006, 08:56 PM
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dpnt fprget.. the time you have to spend doing your own washing, cleaning up after yourself, cooking for yourself, shopping, fixing things, decorating, gardening (if have on) etc etc etc......
Old 26 March 2006, 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobyangel
if you can afford to move out then i would say go for it, get a decent deposit and buy somewhere, renting is, as said, just paying someone elses mortgage!
If you don't mind me saying so, that's pretty stupid. You're actually paying for a roof over your head. When you take out a mortgage, you're mostly paying off the interest. Rent & save the equivalent remortgage portion if it makes you feel better
Old 26 March 2006, 09:03 PM
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Sharing with a group (preferably mates) is great for a few years. Learning to live and let live with each others bad habits is all part of growing up.
Old 26 March 2006, 09:06 PM
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Originally Posted by TopBanana
If you don't mind me saying so, that's pretty stupid. You're actually paying for a roof over your head. When you take out a mortgage, you're mostly paying off the interest. Rent & save the equivalent remortgage portion if it makes you feel better

i see where you coming from... you are paying for a roof over your head either way... difference being you will never own that roof if you are renting, and if you are renting the owner can have "his" roof back anytime they like, leaving you without one!

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Old 26 March 2006, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by TopBanana
When you take out a mortgage, you're mostly paying off the interest. Rent & save the equivalent remortgage portion if it makes you feel better
paying off the interest?? of course a morgage will cost you you something for the priviledge (interest) but after 25 years the house is yours renting is simply dead money after 25 years renting a place you'll have nothing to show for it.

rent is by and large the same amount or in some situations more expensive than paying off a morgage
Old 26 March 2006, 09:11 PM
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when we looked into buying or renting, rent worked out about £100 more than a mortgage per month on a smaller property than we eventually bought...


plus.. while you are renting a property and paying all the bills etc that going with living away from mum and dad, can you really afford to save enough to get a decent deposit on a mortgage eventually?? not that many can i wouldnt think!
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council tax = will this be any cheaper if i live on my own
insurance = will i only need contents as i am renting
own food= what 40 quid a week do u think
TV license = this is about 10 a month is it not
Gas bill
Electricity Bill
Water bill
phone line = use my works mobile
internet bill = can i get this with out a phone line
sky bill (if applicable) would think about this

so how much would the gas, water and electric cost me a month in a 2 bed apartment roughly.

i will sell the scooby and just use my company car for a bit. so i can save money there.

thanks for the help so far this is one of the nicest forums i have been on
Old 26 March 2006, 09:13 PM
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oohhh give over young man
Old 26 March 2006, 09:16 PM
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gas & lekky about a fiver a week, water couple of quid presuming you dont have a swiming pool

council tax will be your responsibility, if your old man has been paying it for the family home maybe 1k+ / pa for you
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Originally Posted by vallumlj
council tax = will this be any cheaper if i live on my own.... 25% single person allowance
insurance = will i only need contents as i am renting... yes if you rent
own food= what 40 quid a week do u think.. depends on what and how much you eat... dont forget cleaning products and washing stuff on this amount too!
TV license = this is about 10 a month is it not.. about that!
Gas bill.... mine is £120 a quarter on a 2 bed place
Electricity Bill... again, mine is about £70 a quarter
Water bill... about £120 a quarter, but varies!
phone line = use my works mobile
internet bill = can i get this with out a phone line... u can use a mobile i assume, dont think your work would appreciate the bills tho!
sky bill (if applicable) would think about this

so how much would the gas, water and electric cost me a month in a 2 bed apartment roughly.

i will sell the scooby and just use my company car for a bit. so i can save money there.

thanks for the help so far this is one of the nicest forums i have been on

have bunged answers to your questions... but this is how much i pay for a 2 bed place! and everyones bills vary considerably!


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