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Old 26 November 2005, 09:36 AM
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Default Is the acronym "RIP" disrespectful?

Personally I think it is lazy, and thus disrespectful to the dead.

It was also something that was taught to me from as far back as Primary School. The only reason why it was used on headstones was due to "Rest in Peace" (or "Requiescat In Pace" to be accurate ) either not fitting on, or costing too much for the bereaved to have chiseled on.

If somone can't be bothered to type a condelence, then why should they bother?




I suppose "each to their own" is the answer

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Old 26 November 2005, 09:39 AM
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I hadn't thought about it - but I can see the reasoning.........

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Old 26 November 2005, 10:38 AM
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I dont like the sound of RIP anyway. People dont say it in real life that I've heard. Its always "Well thats sad" So its just lazy people who arent thinking about what they are posting.
Old 26 November 2005, 11:59 AM
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No offence Ali, in reality I can understand where you are coming from but this is an internet bbs for christ sake!!


So, rr, I am lazy for using LOL, PMSL, LMAO, SIAL, BTW, etc? Well then so be it, IDGAFF Some people will have a whinge about anything on here, IMO.
Old 26 November 2005, 12:08 PM
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Internet txt sppek LOL, PMSL etc are rubbish. But when its in context with somebody dying I think they take on a whole new low.
Old 26 November 2005, 12:12 PM
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Originally Posted by ALi-B

If somone can't be bothered to type a condelence, then why should they bother?
Because it makes them feel good about themselves.
Old 26 November 2005, 12:53 PM
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R.I.P. is absolutely not disrespectful. It is a little unoriginal though, I suppose.

"He was a pisshead who wasted his chances and won't be missed" - now that's disrespectful!


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P.S. RIP Richard Burns.
Old 26 November 2005, 12:59 PM
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Is this still bugging you Ali? Maybe you should let it RIP ?
Old 26 November 2005, 01:04 PM
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Sorry, being dumb.
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Old 26 November 2005, 01:09 PM
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Absolutely not
Old 26 November 2005, 01:24 PM
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Not giving a **** is, typing RIP isnt.
Another waste of a post.
Old 26 November 2005, 01:43 PM
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I'll stick to RIP
Old 26 November 2005, 02:32 PM
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That is 'condolence' ali
Old 26 November 2005, 02:41 PM
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It's the sentiment that counts, not the wording.
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How about, I am really sorry that you are dead ?
Old 26 November 2005, 02:54 PM
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You don't HAVE to put RIP. You can put "a little flower, only lent" or something.
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Originally Posted by Chip Sengravy
Is this still bugging you Ali? Maybe you should let it RIP ?

I thought NSR would get more response


I'm seeing it posted alot on here with all the recent deaths. And it made me wonder if anyone was taught the same at school? Or actually understood it's true Latin wording

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Old 26 November 2005, 08:48 PM
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when i worked in the trade many years ago, rip on headstones was quite commonplace,
i dont think its disrespectfull at all.

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How strange I didn't realise I did this til now


When I see the letters RIP, I read them as "Rest In Peace" just as I read Xmas as "Christmas". I never actually say them as written





And when I read War and Peace I never "said " the names as I read them, I just "saw" them

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Old 27 November 2005, 01:20 AM
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It's on plenty of gravestones, so can't be that disrespectful.

I blame Tony Blair and his PC establishment, everyone's just looking for ways to get offended, which offends me no end!
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Originally Posted by ALi-B
Personally I think it is lazy, and thus disrespectful to the dead.

It was also something that was taught to me from as far back as Primary School. The only reason why it was used on headstones was due to "Rest in Peace" (or "Requiescat In Pace" to be accurate ) either not fitting on, or costing too much for the bereaved to have chiseled on.

If somone can't be bothered to type a condelence, then why should they bother?




I suppose "each to their own" is the answer
very good observation and analysis here,Ali.
Old 27 November 2005, 01:27 AM
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RIP is part of the language, due to " "Rest in Peace" (or "Requiescat In Pace" to be accurate ) either not fitting on, or costing too much for the bereaved to have chiseled on."

Just like old Bob down the club telling you about his VC, the lazy ****
Old 27 November 2005, 10:57 AM
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I've just rest in peaced my shirt!!
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