sti-04!!

Please bear with me on this !

My mate has been going with this girl for a year now & he seems the next step to take is to buy a house together, nowt wrong there i here you all saying

Now he's a great guy has never cheated on her, never even thought about it
She has a little girl about 2 & a half who he looks at as his own, is always watching her when shes out & also his parents do the same

She is a nice girl to get on with not a snooty cow like some of my mates birds & has been out drinking with the lads & can hold her own

But the thing is me & my other mate have always said theres just something not right about her ........................

For instance one a late night phone call between jaf & scott, jaf goes to the toilet & she comes on the phone & asks him if he would like a "piece" of her he declined

I am out drinking with them on a sunday sesh & they go home, i meet up with a few other mates & then she phones asking if am still out & then she appears asking me to go drinking with her, which tbh i did but nothing happened (i think ) this happened a few times, but i put this down to the two fo supporting the same footie team & the rest of the gang support another (it happened mostly when the footie was on)

Then her saying she's going to a friends house & then been seen at the local nightclub, this again has happened numerous times !!

Now i have to admit that really its not got much to do with me & it didnt really bother me but the thing that really pissed me off was ....................

My other mate scott was lying in bed thursday night with some bird when he hears his brother coming in with 2 birds & some strange guy, one of the birds was ......... you guessed it "Manky May" (as well call her )

She & this strange guy **** off together

So i was with Jaf last night & i asked him if his bird was out on thursday night ???

No she stayed at Joannes he told me

Basically shes taking the **** now & he has put an offer in on a house which turns out to be one of my parents propertys they had bought last year to do up & sell

So what should i do folks ??

I dont want to be the one to tell him as i dont want to be the bad one

Should i txt her & tell her to stop messing about or will that cause trouble ??

My G/f says just let them get one with it but she doesnt like her anyway

Its really starting to annoy me for a number of reasons

Please help S/n

Stephen

pslewis

Let him buy your parents house, houses are hard to sell at the moment!!

Give her a good seeing too

And then tell him all about where she has been and that she came on to you, but you fought her off valiantly!!

Pete

LG John

Not even read the thread yet but it'll like bloody Trisha in here this morning. Rice & Pees What about the children?

sti-04!!

FPMSL cheers pete

Great advise as usual

sti-04!!

I noticed

paul-s

If he's your good mate, i would say something. He's gonna want to know, imagine if you don't then in a few months or years time it goes **** up big time, your gonna wish you told him now, sooner rather than later.

pslewis

I tell it as it is

Pete

sti-04!!

He's just been on the phone

Today is there year anniversary

He's wanting to take her out tonight to somewere nice but i told him to come to my bit & get wrecked first (that means he wont take her coz he'll fall asleep )

FASTER MIKE!!

have a quiet word with but don't text her as she could use it against you

paulwrxboro

tell her if you find out again you will tell him.. and stick to it
or just **** her like you did your other mates bird

sti-04!!

Thats another story

http://bbs.scoobynet.co.uk/showthread.php?t=438737

2nd sentence

Work it out

paul-s

your still a playa

paulwrxboro

This ..I am looking to purchase one as i have to get a car for the family as if the C class wasnt enough

sti-04!!

I use the C Class for work

The M5 will be mines all mine

Allegedly its called comprimise (sp??)

Anyway back on topic please

sti-04!!

ssssshhhh

She's watching

Puff The Magic Wagon!

iTrader: (2)

Your mate - tell him

You want the best for your m8s, so some doris pocking him about is not the best. He'll find someone else & hopefully b4 he really gets hurt.

moses

mate your a hypocrite your the same bloke who wanted to cheat on your best mates girl and now u talking about this i bet u wanna chance it with this one too and this is just a silly excuse post

sti-04!!

I am now with her & she's carrying my kid

jods

Get stuck in lad - give her a reet good rattlin' and take some photos to show your mate - he'll thank you - in about 10 years time.

sti-04!!

He's fine about it .............. he wanted out it made it easy for him

anyway back on topic please

eClaire

LOL Kenny and Moses

Bubba po

If you have the minerals, tell him. Before they get into the house thing. Real grief can be had in that situation.

Turbohot

^ as above

+Doc+

Proper mates are for life.... make your own decision you wimp ;p

Aaron C. Reskew

How about you mind your own business and let your mate deal with it? He may already suspect something is wrong but be in denial.
Things like these shape who we are as a person, next time he may not be so trusting, let him make his own discoveries and develop emotionally.

pbee

just tel him what you know, she was out late with some fellow she went off with him, and supposedly when she was staying at joanna's house. tell him that he can decide to confront her or not.

then it is his decision not yours. you dont know she has done anything wrong, they may have a open relationship but it may not be public knowledge so tread carefully.

Jay m A

iTrader: (2)

Why don't you tell him on their anniversary for maximum impact

He'll find out anyway, if its a few years down the line he'll be stuck with her in the -ve equity house they bought too. Nice

fitzscoob

tell your mate he needs to elbow the tart - this could cost your mate a lot more than a girlfriend if they get a place together.

ADP

tell him now, itll be less painful in the long run