Need advice on female friend
02 July 2004, 05:08 PM
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Need advice on female friend
I met this girl around xmas time when she started at the place i work. She seemed ok, friendly, chatty etc. We exchanged mobile numbers and met for drinks and i went round her house once. She seemed to be quite a good friend and then she started saying all these strange things and just generally attention seeking. I'd get 5 text msgs in a row saying 'why can't i get a bf?' 'am i ugly', 'y am i the way i am' just weird text msgs. Then she met my other half and would not shut up about him!!! Admitted she fancied him and said things like, oh well when you've finished with him , i'll have him-this wasn't said jokingly!! She knew perfectly well i lived with him
I started to distance myself from her and only reply to some of her text msgs. Then i found out i was pregnant...she was like 'OMG how will you cope with a baby on your own blah blah' which seemed a really strange thing to say as i'm not on my own!!
It had been obvious for some time she was jealous of my situation. I wasn't nasty but i distanced myself as much as poss from her. Still getting these really weird msgs from her. Then she started being really nice again and saying 'oh i'll look after your baby, i'll help you do this, that, the other'
Anyway long story short, she's gone abroad for 6 months working and im getting emails, text msgs (even weirder than normal!)
and she wants my address (which B2Z said no fcukin way! ) I don't respond to her now but shes like a dog with a bone!! lol
I keep thinking if she could sort herself out and get the attention she wants (a boyfriend) then she'd be an ok mate, but at the moment HTF do i get her to leave me alone-i know what will happen if i tell her what a psycho she is, she'll give my number out and msg bomb it (or whatever its called) and if i don't respond ever , she'll probably do the same!
Any ideas?
Sooz
I started to distance myself from her and only reply to some of her text msgs. Then i found out i was pregnant...she was like 'OMG how will you cope with a baby on your own blah blah' which seemed a really strange thing to say as i'm not on my own!!
It had been obvious for some time she was jealous of my situation. I wasn't nasty but i distanced myself as much as poss from her. Still getting these really weird msgs from her. Then she started being really nice again and saying 'oh i'll look after your baby, i'll help you do this, that, the other' Anyway long story short, she's gone abroad for 6 months working and im getting emails, text msgs (even weirder than normal!)
and she wants my address (which B2Z said no fcukin way! ) I don't respond to her now but shes like a dog with a bone!! lol I keep thinking if she could sort herself out and get the attention she wants (a boyfriend) then she'd be an ok mate, but at the moment HTF do i get her to leave me alone-i know what will happen if i tell her what a psycho she is, she'll give my number out and msg bomb it (or whatever its called) and if i don't respond ever , she'll probably do the same!
Any ideas?
Sooz
02 July 2004, 05:13 PM
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can't you get your number changed by your network provider if you're getting looney calls? may be wrong so don't quote me on this.
sounds like a right fruitcake, hope she doesn't come back is all the advice i can give, sorry
sounds like a right fruitcake, hope she doesn't come back is all the advice i can give, sorry
02 July 2004, 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by imlach
Can we get B2Z's side of the story? 
lol thats his official line.I think Miss piggy lookalike is more appropriate...
02 July 2004, 05:25 PM
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Make sure she stays the **** away from the baby when its arrived/shes back
Sounds a right fookin loony
So did B2Z poke her or not?
Sounds a right fookin loony
So did B2Z poke her or not?
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02 July 2004, 05:37 PM
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I'd either, no reply and ignore her, eventually she may get bored and give up. OR say politely, that you are happy with your fella who you have just had a baby with and you'd appreciaet her not coming out with little remarks about him and you spitting up and her fancying him as your not comfortabel with it, and its not exactly a friend thing to do, and if she don't stop then you have no choice but to leave her alone and concentrate on your family. Let her bombard your phone, its only messages, she'll soon get bored 
you can always change your number
you can always change your number
02 July 2004, 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by mj
Hand that rocks the cradle - Rebbeca de mornay <sp>, mmmmmmmm, bonkers or not.BADOINNNG!
02 July 2004, 05:49 PM
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lmao at hand that rocks the cradle and B2Z can't stand her She is a nursery assistant and as soon as she found out i was pregnant, she started harping on about having a baby herself (shes 23).....
and B2Z can't stand her She is a nursery assistant and as soon as she found out i was pregnant, she started harping on about having a baby herself (shes 23).....
02 July 2004, 05:55 PM
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Originally Posted by weapon69
lmao at hand that rocks the cradle and B2Z can't stand her She is a nursery assistant and as soon as she found out i was pregnant, she started harping on about having a baby herself (shes 23).....
and B2Z can't stand her She is a nursery assistant and as soon as she found out i was pregnant, she started harping on about having a baby herself (shes 23).....
02 July 2004, 07:01 PM
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Not muppets - just ugly birds in general , I have found them to quite enthusiastic 2AM/last orders spermbanks, I work on the principle that it's not everyday they cop off with a Brad Pitt lookalike
, I have found them to quite enthusiastic 2AM/last orders spermbanks, I work on the principle that it's not everyday they cop off with a Brad Pitt lookalike
02 July 2004, 07:02 PM
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Not muppets - just ugly birds in general , I have found them to quite enthusiastic 2AM/last orders spermbanks, I work on the principle that it's not everyday they cop off with a Brad Pitt lookalike
, I have found them to quite enthusiastic 2AM/last orders spermbanks, I work on the principle that it's not everyday they cop off with a Brad Pitt lookalike ?
02 July 2004, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by *Cino*
I'd either, no reply and ignore her, eventually she may get bored and give up. OR say politely, that you are happy with your fella who you have just had a baby with and you'd appreciaet her not coming out with little remarks about him and you spitting up
03 July 2004, 12:52 AM
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Flippin 'eck, sounds like my last ex g/f (except for the miss piggy - her looks were the only good thing).
Fruitcake is an understatement. I suppose when it's a relationship it's alot easier to tell them to eff off than if they were a friend.
In the end of the day if fobbing her off isn't working then you have a) ignore or b) tell her the truth and to go and eff off. Latter is always the hardest, and either way you may end up with some bitter comeback
Fruitcake is an understatement. I suppose when it's a relationship it's alot easier to tell them to eff off than if they were a friend.
In the end of the day if fobbing her off isn't working then you have a) ignore or b) tell her the truth and to go and eff off. Latter is always the hardest, and either way you may end up with some bitter comeback
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