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30 July 2003, 07:07 PM
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and if there is, he's got a warped mind.
A very close friend of mine died yesterday, aged 29.
Exactly 7 years ago yesterday, my best mate also died aged 23. These two mates were also best mates to each other. We'd all been mates from early school days about 17 years ago.
My head is all over the place. Not sure why I'm putting this on SN but need some sort of outlet.
A very close friend of mine died yesterday, aged 29.
Exactly 7 years ago yesterday, my best mate also died aged 23. These two mates were also best mates to each other. We'd all been mates from early school days about 17 years ago.
My head is all over the place. Not sure why I'm putting this on SN but need some sort of outlet.
30 July 2003, 08:11 PM
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If i may be as bold.
Agreed,
A good friends little girl died aged nearly 1 and another friend at 29. There seems to be no logic or any fairness to it.
As for God - i believe religon was created as a means of control of the masses, maybe some truth in to but who knows.
Its not easy to loose loved ones and especially when they are young and haven't had much of a life, to me this seems most unfair.
Call your doctors and get some info on local berevement councilling or groups, this may help to talk to people who know.
IMHO don't bottle it up let it put, talk to family, friends or get some professional help.
Don't let it screw you up, remember that is the last thing they would want.
All the best
Paul
[Edited by Paul Habgood - 7/30/2003 8:14:33 PM]
Agreed,
A good friends little girl died aged nearly 1 and another friend at 29. There seems to be no logic or any fairness to it.
As for God - i believe religon was created as a means of control of the masses, maybe some truth in to but who knows.
Its not easy to loose loved ones and especially when they are young and haven't had much of a life, to me this seems most unfair.
Call your doctors and get some info on local berevement councilling or groups, this may help to talk to people who know.
IMHO don't bottle it up let it put, talk to family, friends or get some professional help.
Don't let it screw you up, remember that is the last thing they would want.
All the best
Paul
[Edited by Paul Habgood - 7/30/2003 8:14:33 PM]
30 July 2003, 10:24 PM
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Very sorry to hear that mate, I lost my dad a while back, and splashed it all over SN, people don't mind, and some of the replies helped a bit, sometimes, even just typing things helps, sounds like a few beers might be called for!!
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Makes me think of a friend of mine who died on a motorcycle in Tuscon, Arizona, when someone made a bad turn in front of him. With his sense of humor, I can perfectly imagine him as one of those grinning Mexican skeletons para el Dia de Los Muertos
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30 July 2003, 10:55 PM
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You are not the only one m8 who thinks like this.
4 years ago this Monday coming I lost my youngest son aged 1 day old through a hospital mistake
4 years on and its no easier to understand why he was taken from me. It wasn't because he was ill or natural circumstances, someone messed up big time and it was never brought out into the open for anyone to be held responsible. I later got divorced and now my oldest son lives with his mum. Do you think it has made me super over protective of him? Doesn't take many guesses to answer that one. I will never understand why I have to visit my son in the cemetary for the rest of my life instead of him being with me and my eldest.
Life sucks and there is no justice in this world, the guilty get away scott free and the innocent suffer.
Unfortunately its only when something really bad happens you realise how many other people have had similar experiences. The cemetary is constantly having new additions to the childrens area and its a senseless waste of life
I am sorry to hear your bad news and hope you have people to help you through these tough times.
All the best, Bob.
[Edited by ************** - 7/30/2003 11:01:32 PM]
4 years ago this Monday coming I lost my youngest son aged 1 day old through a hospital mistake
4 years on and its no easier to understand why he was taken from me. It wasn't because he was ill or natural circumstances, someone messed up big time and it was never brought out into the open for anyone to be held responsible. I later got divorced and now my oldest son lives with his mum. Do you think it has made me super over protective of him? Doesn't take many guesses to answer that one. I will never understand why I have to visit my son in the cemetary for the rest of my life instead of him being with me and my eldest.Life sucks and there is no justice in this world, the guilty get away scott free and the innocent suffer.
Unfortunately its only when something really bad happens you realise how many other people have had similar experiences. The cemetary is constantly having new additions to the childrens area
and its a senseless waste of life I am sorry to hear your bad news and hope you have people to help you through these tough times.
All the best, Bob.
[Edited by ************** - 7/30/2003 11:01:32 PM]
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