wiltshire_boy

Sorry to hear it, must be very tricky. Mates beer and new ladies must help a bit.

Watch out though, i don't think you are allowed to talk about mens emotional problems on this board.

Roy.

(staying silent, having nothing to say about this or IVF)

[Edited by wiltshire_boy - 6/2/2003 2:18:08 AM]

Fosters

... of 9 years. It was a mutual decision to part, we are both miserably unhappy and it was starting to affect our 2 boys (2.5 and 4.5 years).

This weekend was my first weekend with them. it was lovely, but as they walked away from my car with their mom this afternoon I was in a mess. thanks to the abismal m3 traffic for distracting me on my way back to surrey.

I know others must have been through this. It was an amicable split, but I'm a bit of a mess for having to come to the hard truth of not being able to live with my kids!

I intend to keep a strict and frequent visiting routine and logically I think they'll have a better relationship with me for it.

What I want to know is what others in this situation did to move on? I was thinking of getting my bike license, but I'm not that flush even before the CSA get to me. I need not to be feeling sorry for myself and wonder what others do/did to step into a new life?

Is joining a gym good for a bit of social contact? any ideas?

fatherpierre

It takes time mate.

Did the same thing about 5yrs ago and it took me abut a year to get back to 'normal'.

On reflection it's the best thing I ever did cos I was with someone that I would have ended up hating and vice verca.

Had lots of *fun* since then! It makes you weary of relationships.

Get yer tackle out and see what bites.

Good luck.

WISHING

Find a good reliable freind to bounce off now and again (and i dont mean ****) someone you can talk to.

That will really help.

All the very best

super_si

Sorry to hear this mike

Si

Funkii Munkii

Fosters

Sorry to hear your news

It happened to me 8 years ago i'd been married 7 years my missus and our 7 month old son went to see her parents in Brazil and never came back, now i get to see my son once a year if i can afford it and saying goodbye after a visit doesnt get any easier, so i can empathise with you there, still im on line now waiting for him on messenger so it aint all bad.
After three years of oblivion I got my **** together and met my Fiance who said at the start she didnt want kids but in 8 weeks time were expecting our first, so even after the bad bad times good times will always turn up, and thats coming from a pesimist (sp?) its gonna hurt like hell for the next few months but as the old saying goes time is a great healer as are plenty of other things. Chin up and hang on in there.

lordharding

iTrader: (1)

get your mates round once a week with a few cans and get totally legless !!
one night a week on the pull

and the next modle is always better than the ex
and polish the scoob to make you

south-star

every relationship can only be better than the last one

Really?

Sith

Fosters, a shame this has happened.

As it's an amicable split I see no reason why the CSA will get involved if you agree an amount with your EX.

The CSA get involved if you do a runner and don't pay any support or the women is very vindictive if you have agreed an amount.

Shropshire-Guy

Takes time mate and very good friends. My ex was having an affair with my best mate who was work colleage to. I gave him a good hiding ( spent night in cell for it )kicked her out. This was 13 years ago. Take one day at a time, for a while you will have 7 bad days then after a while you will have 6 bad and 1 good and so it goes on. Good mates and loads of time is a very good healer, trust me