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this is a very serious question and a request for help/advise from women scoobynetters who have had children.
i am a regular member of Scoobynet and have registered with a new name to save any embarresment to my partner (well me as well really)this is NOT a wind up or hoax even though it is close to april the 1st

As a couple who have just had their first child we are starting to reaquaint ourselves with our sex lives except there is a problem.

My partner at 9 plus weeks after a difficult birth( a 10 pound plus baby with a large head) is still having problems with the actual full on act and is getting very depressed and down hearted to the point of floods of tears this morning and no amount of reassurance on my part seems to be helping i have in NO way pressurised her and fully expected to have to wait as long as it takes for things to get back to normal.

I cant be graphic or explicit on a public forum but as far as i can "see" everything seems ok and healed and i have told her to get a doctors appointment and ask for a referment to a specialist if necessary.
As our first child we have no point of reference so any help or guidance would be much appreciated.

If mods find this an inappropriate subject i will understand as it is pushing it a bit for a public bbs

alcazar

iTrader: (2)

Katana!!!
Get her to go to her GP, and ask for a referral.
I know I'm not female, but my wife has had two, and the first was forceps
Alcazar

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thanks Katana.
Any grown ups around ??

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thanks alcazar forceps were used and as i have said i have already urged her to see a doctor

Puff The Magic Wagon!

iTrader: (2)

I'm sorry to lock this but I do not think this is the appropriate place to ask this question.