how do i make her speak to me again????
24 February 2003, 11:24 AM
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well i was kind of skint so got her roses box of chocolates and took her out for a meal and then the cinema and then got that the essential thing in the car infact at the end of the night and that was on the 12th not heard anything since and she never answers the phone and if i phone her house i get the usual she does not want to speak to u. so what can i do to impress her even if it involves spending money????
24 February 2003, 11:30 AM
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How long have you been in the relationship with her?
If not long, my advise to you would be, move on!
There are plenty of women out there just dying to be taken out for a meal.Blow her out!!
If not long, my advise to you would be, move on!
There are plenty of women out there just dying to be taken out for a meal.Blow her out!!
24 February 2003, 11:31 AM
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well only phoned the house twice ot the same both times from her mum. didnt give any abuse just said ok and hung up. only phoned her mobile about 5 or 6 timed and sent maybe about 10 messages. and no im not hounding her cos thats one sure way to get hated. so ideas please??? beem going out for about 3 years.
[Edited by CJB - 2/24/2003 11:32:25 AM]
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24 February 2003, 11:36 AM
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No, No, seriously CJB with that amouint of calls and texts with no replies you ARE hounding her. Quit now, move on, enjoy the memories and keep your self respect.
24 February 2003, 11:46 AM
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Mate I am not being funny and don't normally post in this forum....but you would do well to just walk away.
She knows you are still keen from the number of phone calls and texts...so she will keep ignoring you.
Leave her be and I gureentee she will come after you if she wants you. Then you can be in control and decide wheather or not you want her back !!
She knows you are still keen from the number of phone calls and texts...so she will keep ignoring you.
Leave her be and I gureentee she will come after you if she wants you. Then you can be in control and decide wheather or not you want her back !!
24 February 2003, 11:55 AM
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nightmare is right iv not phoned or txt her now for 4 days so il wait and see what happens. but gods knows what im going to do after that o and the car is at my house cos im sorting it for her.
24 February 2003, 11:57 AM
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CJB....If I was you then I would send her one last text telling her that you understand that it is probably over but you would have expected an explanation.
Also tell her that she has 1 week to contact you to arrange to collect her things of you are going to pile them into her car and scrap it.
She is playing you for a fool. Forget about her and move on. Find someone that deserves you and will treat you with respect.
Good luck.
Also tell her that she has 1 week to contact you to arrange to collect her things of you are going to pile them into her car and scrap it.
She is playing you for a fool. Forget about her and move on. Find someone that deserves you and will treat you with respect.
Good luck.
24 February 2003, 11:59 AM
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that was on the 12th not heard anything since
Seriously though, I agree with what the rest say. If she cant be bothered to even speak to you and tell you whats wrong then just walk away and be glad you found out now and not later what she is really like.
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24 February 2003, 12:02 PM
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come on lads 3 years cant just walk away that easily cos she is brilliant yes il admit it im all loved up. o **** valentines is the 14th was wondering why everybody was out with the wamen that night. DOH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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24 February 2003, 12:08 PM
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From a female point of view....
You said above you'd been going out for 3 years and now she won't even talk to you (for no reason it would appear).... she does owe you the curtesy of an explanation however, sounds like she's moved on and doesn't have the front to speak to you face to face so she's just hoping you'll go away, which is very very unfair.
Keep your pride and move on no matter how hard it is for you once you get to the point where you've lost respect for someone you can't turn that round.
If you have all her stuff then, given all the calls you've made, I would think it's now her call to come and get it. Box it up and put it somewhere, any attempt to return it would look like another attempt at getting in touch...
She's being a first class b*tch..
P
You said above you'd been going out for 3 years and now she won't even talk to you (for no reason it would appear).... she does owe you the curtesy of an explanation however, sounds like she's moved on and doesn't have the front to speak to you face to face so she's just hoping you'll go away, which is very very unfair.
Keep your pride and move on no matter how hard it is for you once you get to the point where you've lost respect for someone you can't turn that round.
If you have all her stuff then, given all the calls you've made, I would think it's now her call to come and get it. Box it up and put it somewhere, any attempt to return it would look like another attempt at getting in touch...
She's being a first class b*tch..
P
