Steve Fort

As everyone else are posting their personal probs, i'm gonnna post mine, as you lot seem quite helpful

I was seeing this girl on and off for three years, got it together and she treated me like **** (don't they all?!). I've ignored her for the last 8 months, but cant get her out of my head, and now shes back on the scene asking to meet up for a chat!

I'd love to see her again, but know i'd just get f**ked over again (unless she's changed).

What d'ya reckon?

[Edited by Steve Fort - 11/15/2002 1:20:32 AM]

marty_t3

If you do decide to meet up for the chat then treat her as an easy **** and nothing more (sounds like she deserves it). Don't get sucked in by her. People don't change ... learned from experience.

Just my opinion of course.

Ralf

Right, people don't change.

But to close this matter: see her and you she will involuntarily confirm this. She'll never be on your mind. Just make sure you don't fall for any cheap gil talk like ...you're a: good friend of mine, nice guy etc which means she does not take you seriously.

God luck

AnDy_PaNdY

Walk away, you WILL get hurt again if you don't.
Plenty of very nice girls out there.

dogmaul

in the last week i have had 3 ex's that i have not spoken to for atleast 6 months all of a sudden they crawl out of the wood work and ask to meet up. i hate it and i think i might hate my self if i just treatd it as an easy ****

Gordo

meet, **** her up the 4rse and dump her.

sorted.

G

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Pete Croney

I can just imagine the torment you would go through, 3 or 4 times a week, if not every night that wasn't a lads night out.

dogmaul

thats the thing i feel guilty far to easy, i know its something i should be able to do been a bloke but i just cant.

Gordo two of the ex's liked it up the 4rse so thats not really a big threat to them

Luke

ooooooooooooooooooooh I think i'm going to puke

Brun

LMFAO@Gordo

dogmaul

actually i have another problem over the last 2 weeks i have been seeing this lass well i got to see her 3 times and things were going very well i was going to take her for a meal on tuesday but i get a text from her friend saying leave her alone for abit she thinks your been a bit full on. Thing is i dont understand how i was been full on as it wasnt me who was inviting her over at 2 am on the sunday night i only asked her out for a meal !!!! then i get a text of an unknown number saying "what is the ducking problem with u stop texting sarah, she doesnt like it"

Like i said I hadnt been texting her alot but there isnt anything in any of her text messages that would indicate there been a problem.

Why are all women mad!!!!

STi wanna Subaru

iTrader: (1)

LOL @ Pete

iain atkins

I met a lovely woman, and was seeing her for 2 months. Then out of the blue she says that she needs some time on her own. We were getting on so well, and things were really good.

It's such a shame

red_dog104

Dogmaul. Maybe her mate is jealous?! Just a thought!! Not all women are mad by the way!...... Well, not all the time!!!

[Edited by red_dog104 - 11/15/2002 10:12:18 AM]

Nixs

I don't think we women are all nutters

sexy wrx69

from a girls perspective....DONT MEET HER!!

sounds like you really cared for her and still do have feelings. she is just after a safety net. shes probably on the rebound and trying to get over some other bloke and sees you as a way of doing it.

if you were seeing her on and off for 3 years...then one of you wasnt taking it seriously...so it was just a ****.

if you meet up with her again...i can guarentee you that you will **** her...all your feelings will flood back...and then she WILL **** on you all over again.

i know this cause i was in a similar situation with one of my exes (altho he was the one phoning to "meet" up).

and dont worry. There are plenty of decent girls out there who wont **** on you

dogmaul

i know your not all nutters but all the ones i seem to go out with are !!!! and its not fair, im only 22 tho so its not like i really need to find a life long partner to stay with just yet

merkin

still, at least he would get a **** though, so its not all downside

[Edited by merkin - 11/15/2002 10:06:57 AM]

Nixs

sex with an ex - never a good idea

In the words of Garth from Waynes World - get over it go out with somebosy else

A wise man indeed

dogmaul

sex aint everything i would preffer not to have a ducked up head rather than sex IMHO

sexy wrx69

Nixs...wise words indeed.

dogmaul...if youve just had nutters in the past..then youre bound to get a normal one next. all good things come to those who wait


trust me...i know.

STi wanna Subaru

iTrader: (1)

sexy wrx69,

That's the problem........all women agree that most are nutters......but it's never them. All of you can't be right

Nixs

dogmaul you could well be a nutter magnet I've had a similar problem in the past although I think I am more of a barsteward magnet!

I just kept picking the same type of bloke over and over again and not learning from my mistakes!!!

Maybe you should look out for a totally different type of girlie than you would normally go for

sexy wrx69

no...there are some total freaks out there...just ask Stealth

luckily im not one of them

sexy wrx69

agree with Nixs. Try someone totally different for a change.
how do you know you dont like them if you dont try them

dogmaul

thats the thing i dont have a type i go for (well maybe nutter) they are all really different to one another its all so hard for me to meet a nice woman (infact the nicest person i have been out with was a 38 yearold mother of 3) i was only 20 at the time

Nixs

dogmaul, if you're only 22 then it's fairly normal to be going out with loons who aren't right for you - we've all done it, it's part of what makes meeting the right person that much more special.

sometimes you have to experience the cr@p to appreciate the the amazing

dogmaul

i know but i start to wonder what is wrong with me to be allways getting mad ones after me

mike

iain atkins

Mike m8, your not alone.

I have just turned 30 and have had relationships with all kinds of women.

My last serious relationship came to an end in June, she said she didn't want to settle down. She is now engaged to someone that she has known for 4 months!!!!

My last girlfriend i started seeing in September, and she was perfect in everyway. However on my birthday (13th nov) she decided to tell me that she wants to be on her own at the moment, as things are a bit hectic for her.

Trouble with me is that I focus too much on relationships, and when they go wrong i'm devistated