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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:19 PM
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Wink Encouraging partners??

It seems that a lot of guys on here including myself don't have understanding partners where our beloved ~Scoobies~ are concerned, it would appear we prefer to keep them in the dark regarding how much is spent on the beloved & what mods are being thought of.

Comments of:
How much is this gonna cost!
What now, do you really need it?
How many more back boxes do you need?
What about our holidays & the kids!
When do I get a look in or half of what you paid for that?


Has anyone got an understanding partner/wife/girlfriend/boyfriend??
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:21 PM
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No.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:24 PM
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My wife refuses to go out in my car, she's only sat in it once.
I get the odd winge when a new parcel arrives but generally she's ok, she gets a couple of holidays a year so that keeps her sweet.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:29 PM
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I must be one of the lucky ones.She helps me wash and polish it never complains about how much i spend.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:29 PM
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My wife will get in the car but if I go 1mph over 30 she is grabbing the door & shouting slow down!!

I have tried everything in the book but she refuses to drive it, me thinking if she drives it she will understand more, but I just can't get her to appreciate the Scooby!

Not giving up yet though!
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:30 PM
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Luckily I met my wife through SMACS so it's not too bad. I can't spend any money on the scoob until the house is done but on the other hand, we have been recently been looking at cars for her and debating a 335i cab, she said that if she was going to have one then she would want it mapping straight away she went for a near 400 Bhp Merc CLK in the end
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:31 PM
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My Wife loves mine, she hated my first on though

I haven't started spending yet though,so that may change.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:33 PM
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Mrs Merv is very understanding! When my engine went in my old Blob she said, 'if you're gonna rebuild it you may as well make it worthwhile and build it to the spec you want!'
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:33 PM
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Mines very understanding. I do or buy what i like for mine. She even comes to sprint events to support me. Im a lucky one
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:34 PM
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i be fair to my wife, she really dont care what i spend on the cars, long as her *COUGH* scenic *COUGH* is kept running and legal.
Shes always said in fairness long as the bills are paid n theres food in the cupboard shes happy.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Dave Y
I must be one of the lucky ones.She helps me wash and polish it never complains about how much i spend.
Wow that is one hell of a girl. Hope you cherish her mate!
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted by mervil
Mrs Merv is very understanding! When my engine went in my old Blob she said, 'if you're gonna rebuild it you may as well make it worthwhile and build it to the spec you want!'
Fantastic & yes very very understanding
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 06:39 PM
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We have been married for 32 years.
We met at a car club meeting in a pub.
We spent part of our honeymoon drag racing at Blackbushe.
I have spent more time and money than is justifiable on cars of one sort or another over the years, including 12 years racing at the Pod.
I watch every bit of motorsport on TV that I can.
If I get time to play a game on the PS3 it's usually some kind of raing game.

So you'd think she'd 'get it' by now wouldn't you?

Naaaaaaaaah.

She doesn't moan and has given up asking 'How much' though
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 07:28 PM
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Thinking about it I'm probably being unfair on my Mrs. If it's a treat we can afford for the car, i.e. mapping earlier this year, she was happy enough. She knows my cars are my pride & joy even if they aren't lavished in the way others on here are. As long as our son doesn't go without (well duh!) and she gets her Primark fix...
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 07:52 PM
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don't have that problem, my wife has tourettes in her right foot as well
she had an is200 lexus for daily run around i had my van but the runaround was" too slow" so had to get a bmw 330 ci now she wants it decated and re-mapped, so she is as mad as me. she on here more than me too, we go to all the meets together i drive there have a drink(or 6) and she drives home

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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 07:53 PM
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I am very lucky, when I was looking to change my last car I really didn't know what I wanted other then either an hatchback or an estate, has we have two retired greyhounds..

One very wet June day back in 2010, by chance we drove past a Subaru dealership, Mrs said why don't we have a look.

We took a WRX hatch out for a test drive around the lanes of the Lincolnshire Wolds. I was impressed by the grip in very poor conditions, so did a bit of research, and a fair bit of browsing on here. Some suggested I should try the Sti hatch before committing which I did.

At the time very few new STi hatches remained unsold a few red & a few silver after the poor sales of the hatch I didn't think IM would import anymore hatches so I asked the Mrs, didn't think she would go for the STi over a WRX but she did.

She said I could call it an early 50th birthday present!

Not broached the subject of cost of getting the engine forged
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Blue by You
We have been married for 32 years.
We met at a car club meeting in a pub.
We spent part of our honeymoon drag racing at Blackbushe.
I have spent more time and money than is justifiable on cars of one sort or another over the years, including 12 years racing at the Pod.
I watch every bit of motorsport on TV that I can.
If I get time to play a game on the PS3 it's usually some kind of raing game.

So you'd think she'd 'get it' by now wouldn't you?

Naaaaaaaaah.

She doesn't moan and has given up asking 'How much' though
BRILLIANT!
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:01 PM
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My wife uses mine nearly as much as me but that's as I prefer to take the passat estate to the shop and gym as I don't care what happens to that
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:08 PM
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Lisa likes my car, she'll happily help when I'm fitting stuff, she washes it more often than me. She dug it out when it was under a foot of snow!

Lisa's a good un.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:20 PM
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This is a true conversation with my ex.....

Wife:'My boss has got a nice new car.'

Finally,I think,she has taken an interest in things automotive.

Me:'Oh really,what car is it?'

Wife: 'A green one.'
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:23 PM
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mines moans now and again when im workin on the car but smiles alot when i stick my spanner in her back box
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:43 PM
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at the last 2 posts.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:43 PM
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my mrs just smiles when i tell her i have bought something for the car
just the other week i pointed out at what a great bargain i got buying a md321t for just £60
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Dave-W-
my mrs just smiles when i tell her i have bought something for the car
just the other week i pointed out at what a great bargain i got buying a md321t for just £60
Sneaky.

Best poilcy.... (Their) ignorance is bliss.
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:49 PM
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Mine's too understanding!!!

I let her the borrow the car for 'a few days' 4-5 months ago, and she won't give it back!!!
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:53 PM
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Mine hates it so much that I'm considering a change.












..... of wife that it.
Anyone with a scooby loving wife want to swap her for a mad Brazilian wife with massive norks?
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:57 PM
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LMAO!
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 08:58 PM
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We don't talk about the 'scoob' in my house hold
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 09:00 PM
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Mines OK as she knows subarus are my life
Would not tell her how much I spend on them though
Quite happy to drive them and likes them as they look 'flash'
Wears her Subaru clothes with pride and likes to put the foot down

Never helps wash them though as she does the gardens and housework and I polish the cars and she is unsure of a BRZ or new Plasma blue STi
So she is a keeper
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Old Jun 29, 2012 | 09:09 PM
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Further to my previous post, we owned a bugeye WRX for a year and my Mrs loved driving that, although there was no mention or intention of me modding it.
As soon as I swapped it for my Sti she wanted nothing to do with it.
I even bought the same colour as the bug to make her feel at home
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