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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 03:50 PM
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I understand how someone could say that the "children" that committed this crime could have been "sick" or not been able to handle the reality of their actions.

I understand, I don't agree.

However to feel sorry for Venables, when on release he actually sort out to download pictures of children being abused, I'm sorry, regardless of if you think it's his fault or not, the man/boy needs to be removed from this planet.
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 03:58 PM
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Does that mean you've downloaded child **** and murdered and tortured young children? Forgiveness is only given to people who truly do something to repay their past actions.
A silly post not worthy of a serious response.
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Leslie
I wonder how happy most people would feel about trusting in the welfare of your child if it was left alone in his company.

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But how likely is that to happen? The police will know where he is and will be watching.
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by pimmo2000
I understand how someone could say that the "children" that committed this crime could have been "sick" or not been able to handle the reality of their actions.

I understand, I don't agree.

However to feel sorry for Venables, when on release he actually sort out to download pictures of children being abused, I'm sorry, regardless of if you think it's his fault or not, the man/boy needs to be removed from this planet.
Even if he is mentally ill? Where do you stop?
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 04:04 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
Even if he is mentally ill? Where do you stop?
If he is mentally ill and the results of being ill cause him to be a risk to children, then yes.

You take each case as it presents, you review everyone as an individual. I have two children not far from Jamies age and I can put my hand on my heart and say, if you gave me choice, he'd be dead.
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 04:09 PM
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Originally Posted by pimmo2000
If he is mentally ill and the results of being ill cause him to be a risk to children, then yes.

You take each case as it presents, you review everyone as an individual. I have two children not far from Jamies age and I can put my hand on my heart and say, if you gave me choice, he'd be dead.
And, at the time they did the crime, so would I.

But not now, not having SEEN what kids can get up to not knowing that what they are doing is wrong, or will result in this, that and the other.......

They were kids, just kids.

Read the article about their questioning by the police. It's heart-rending.

And to blame Venables now, now he's had, thanks to their crime and our response, probably the WORST upbringing he could have had...no, not for me.
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 04:09 PM
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Im a father of 3. My one and only reaction to this is drown the f#cking *****. End of !
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 04:15 PM
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I'm a father of two.

I can't agree with you.
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 04:16 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
And, at the time they did the crime, so would I.

But not now, not having SEEN what kids can get up to not knowing that what they are doing is wrong, or will result in this, that and the other.......

They were kids, just kids.

Read the article about their questioning by the police. It's heart-rending.

And to blame Venables now, now he's had, thanks to their crime and our response, probably the WORST upbringing he could have had...no, not for me.

So whats next then ? trust him to baby sit your kids ? give him a job driving a bus ? or pay him for doing nothing and protect him from the people he's hurt ?

Go back to the day he killed Jamie, how would you have handled it ?
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Old Jul 8, 2013 | 05:55 PM
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I honestly DO NOT know.

At the time, I, like you, felt they should have been put down.

My eldest was four when it happened and my youngest one. So yes, I was strongly in that camp.

Then, as my eldest grew up, it became obvious that he was ADHD. Life was difficult...for a LONG time. I saw him do stuff that "normal" kids wouldn't do, stuff that landed him in awful trouble, stuff that put him, and others into awful danger. Afterwards, on discussing it with him, it became obvious that he COULD NOT put two and two together and get four He COULD NOT see what the results of his actions were going to be.

And remember that both I, and his mother, were professional people who looked for help, and brought him up as best we could, but STILL we had problems. They have only just started to tail off after he got to about 25..........

Now think about those tow kids, Robert Thompson and Jon Venables. Upbringing? The norm for them was cruelty, punishment, abuse and neglect.

So......they did what they did...no-one will EVER really know what went through their minds at the time, but they were TEN year old, and pretty low-level ten year olds at that.
And society's response?

I don't, in all honesty know what else we could have done. The mood in the country was grim. They needed to be taught a lesson.

Unfortunately, our only recourse was to lock them uip...with others, older than them and who would teach them even more evil.

What's the alternative? I wish I knew, mate, but I STILL feel for those two, just as I do when I think of that little boy...it makes me feel like weeping. Somehow, a whole load of lives have been destroyed, and one lost forever.

Words fail me.........
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Old Jul 9, 2013 | 06:26 AM
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Old Jul 9, 2013 | 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
I honestly DO NOT know.

At the time, I, like you, felt they should have been put down.

My eldest was four when it happened and my youngest one. So yes, I was strongly in that camp.

Then, as my eldest grew up, it became obvious that he was ADHD. Life was difficult...for a LONG time. I saw him do stuff that "normal" kids wouldn't do, stuff that landed him in awful trouble, stuff that put him, and others into awful danger. Afterwards, on discussing it with him, it became obvious that he COULD NOT put two and two together and get four He COULD NOT see what the results of his actions were going to be.

And remember that both I, and his mother, were professional people who looked for help, and brought him up as best we could, but STILL we had problems. They have only just started to tail off after he got to about 25..........

Now think about those tow kids, Robert Thompson and Jon Venables. Upbringing? The norm for them was cruelty, punishment, abuse and neglect.

So......they did what they did...no-one will EVER really know what went through their minds at the time, but they were TEN year old, and pretty low-level ten year olds at that.
And society's response?

I don't, in all honesty know what else we could have done. The mood in the country was grim. They needed to be taught a lesson.

Unfortunately, our only recourse was to lock them uip...with others, older than them and who would teach them even more evil.

What's the alternative? I wish I knew, mate, but I STILL feel for those two, just as I do when I think of that little boy...it makes me feel like weeping. Somehow, a whole load of lives have been destroyed, and one lost forever.

Words fail me.........
Yes, very well put.
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Old Jul 9, 2013 | 12:26 PM
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Originally Posted by boxst
Yes, very well put.
It was, it made me stop and think.

Sadly though, the safety of a few our weighs the safety of two. They need to be removed from society.
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Old Jul 11, 2013 | 08:45 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
A silly post not worthy of a serious response.

Apologies Alcazar, having looked at it again it wasn't a very good post. But looking at your response about your son I can understand how you have some sympathy for the boys but it's something I still can't understand about the two boys. It has never been said to my knowledge that they had any genuine illness, it was just a sadistic side they both expressed for no reason. Having a son recently diagnosed with aspergers which leads him to be violent on occasions I still would not be able to forgive him if he ever stooped to something like those two did.
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Old Jul 12, 2013 | 05:17 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
But how likely is that to happen? The police will know where he is and will be watching.
Will that be for every minute of the day?

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