Faire D'Income

I'm looking for some help. About a year ago I had a set of Eibachs fitted to a MY02 Wagon whilst retaining the standard shocks but obviously with the geometry reset - all carried out at TSL.

I've never been that happy with the ride quality, it feels unnecessarily thrashy and on some roads I have to back off as it's absolutely hopeless. What I do like about the springs is the more or less absence of body roll and the ride height has been reduced by about 30mm - all good things.

What I would like to achieve is the ride height with the lack of body roll in conjunction with the softer ride associated with the standard springs.

My questions are:

What would I have to do to achieve this? What combination would have this effect?

Is there a set of springs that would give me the ride height with a softer ride that could be combined with harder ARBs?

Thanks in advance.