just caught a women beater in the street
16 August 2013, 06:45 AM
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just caught a women beater in the street
I am currently working at a landrig near poole and i am staying in the city centre of bournemouth
i was outside my hotel on the smoking balcony a hour or two ago " 5 am " having a smoke and all heard was screaming and then seen some women in her 20's running up the street and a guy chasing after her and when he caught her
he grabbed her hair and pulled it right back violently and punched her twice and bent her arm and twisted it very harshly and started to drag her away by the hair and twisted arm i could not believe what i had just seen it sounds bad but believe me seeing it was 100 times worse her top was ripped and it looked like she was getting dragged into the bushes
By the time i got out of the balcony the guy had dragged the women away and i ran up the road and round the corner to where he had dragged her and i caught the scumbag and held him until the police arrived
and all this women beater could say was its my girlfriend while i was shouting women beating b@stard and saying you can explain yourself to the police !
I am just so disgusted people like this are on the streets as these people think they can get away with anything
i was outside my hotel on the smoking balcony a hour or two ago " 5 am " having a smoke and all heard was screaming and then seen some women in her 20's running up the street and a guy chasing after her and when he caught her
he grabbed her hair and pulled it right back violently and punched her twice and bent her arm and twisted it very harshly and started to drag her away by the hair and twisted arm i could not believe what i had just seen it sounds bad but believe me seeing it was 100 times worse her top was ripped and it looked like she was getting dragged into the bushes
By the time i got out of the balcony the guy had dragged the women away and i ran up the road and round the corner to where he had dragged her and i caught the scumbag and held him until the police arrived
and all this women beater could say was its my girlfriend while i was shouting women beating b@stard and saying you can explain yourself to the police !
I am just so disgusted people like this are on the streets as these people think they can get away with anything
16 August 2013, 07:25 AM
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Cheers ant , DB and daddyscoob
i honestly though by the way he was dragging her that she was about to be sexually assaulted
also several cars drove by and not one of them stopped before and after i had caught him.
When the police arrived she said she was ok and that it was her boyfriend
she must of been crazy to say she is ok as she got one very ugly beating from this scumbag
but they both got put into the back of the police car and taken away
i honestly though by the way he was dragging her that she was about to be sexually assaulted
also several cars drove by and not one of them stopped before and after i had caught him.
When the police arrived she said she was ok and that it was her boyfriend
she must of been crazy to say she is ok as she got one very ugly beating from this scumbag
but they both got put into the back of the police car and taken away
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16 August 2013, 07:34 AM
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Nothing will come of it unfortunately, she has to press charges but probably won't do, it's sad but true 
she may well support him and say you assaulted her boyfriend/husband.
Where as your intentions were good, it's normally best to remain out of a domestic argument even though the scumbag deserves a kicking, only she can help herself by reporting it and getting out of the relationship.
she may well support him and say you assaulted her boyfriend/husband.Where as your intentions were good, it's normally best to remain out of a domestic argument even though the scumbag deserves a kicking, only she can help herself by reporting it and getting out of the relationship.
16 August 2013, 07:43 AM
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I agree nothing will come of it
but if it had not been a domestic and from what i had seen it looked like something really bad was about to happen
i just cant stand back and let something like this happen
i only found out it was her boyfriend right at the end before the police arrived
say she was in real danger as by from what i had witnessed it looked extremely nasty
and when you see a women with a ripped top getting beaten and dragged away by the hair
what can i think other than she is in danger. I really dont think the best option is to turn a blind eye to this
but if it had not been a domestic and from what i had seen it looked like something really bad was about to happen
i just cant stand back and let something like this happen
i only found out it was her boyfriend right at the end before the police arrived
say she was in real danger as by from what i had witnessed it looked extremely nasty
and when you see a women with a ripped top getting beaten and dragged away by the hair
what can i think other than she is in danger. I really dont think the best option is to turn a blind eye to this
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16 August 2013, 07:46 AM
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I agree nothing will come of it
but if it had not been a domestic and from what i had seen it looked like something really bad was about to happen
i just cant stand back and let something like this happen
i only found out it was her boyfriend right at the end before the police arrived
say she was in real danger as by from what i had witnessed it looked extremely nasty
and when you see a women with a ripped top getting beaten and dragged away by the hair
what can i think other than she is in danger. I really dont think the best option is to turn a blind eye to this
but if it had not been a domestic and from what i had seen it looked like something really bad was about to happen
i just cant stand back and let something like this happen
i only found out it was her boyfriend right at the end before the police arrived
say she was in real danger as by from what i had witnessed it looked extremely nasty
and when you see a women with a ripped top getting beaten and dragged away by the hair
what can i think other than she is in danger. I really dont think the best option is to turn a blind eye to this
16 August 2013, 07:51 AM
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But i am working down here with oil companys and i didnt want to chance being arrested for fighting
when j am away working just in case i could lose my job for fighting when working away from home
Which is a pity as if i was here not with work i would of been alot more hands on with the women beating scum bag
16 August 2013, 08:12 AM
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Have you given a statement to the police? Chances are that she won't support a prosecution, so she'll only give a negative statement.
Even if she doesn't want to make a complaint, the police can still go ahead if they have enough evidence to support it. That could be photos of her ripped clothes, bruises, black eyes etc.
Even if she doesn't want to make a complaint, the police can still go ahead if they have enough evidence to support it. That could be photos of her ripped clothes, bruises, black eyes etc.
16 August 2013, 08:21 AM
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When the police arrived she was saying its ok he is my boyfriend
and i turned around to the policeman and said to him that he had attacked her and the policeman
took my side straight away as he could see i was sober and put both of them in the back of the police car and said thank you and took them away
the policeman did not take a statement unfortunatly
and i turned around to the policeman and said to him that he had attacked her and the policeman
took my side straight away as he could see i was sober and put both of them in the back of the police car and said thank you and took them away
the policeman did not take a statement unfortunatly
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16 August 2013, 08:21 AM
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Well done matey, wish there was more like you around. As said the girlfriend will probably do sod all about prosecution but I can assure you there is some out there that would have been so grateful for you helping.
16 August 2013, 08:24 AM
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You did the right thing. How can people turn a blind eye to this sort of thing in a public place?
If you had done nothing, what might you be thinking now?
If you had done nothing, what might you be thinking now?
16 August 2013, 08:26 AM
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I'm guessing there are likely two things that are happening or have happened:
1. It was just before knocking off time, so the male has been taken to the station, booked in and the job is being handed over to a colleague, who will be in touch later.
2. He's dropped them both off at home and said there is no complaint. It's very rare that you would place a victim and offender in the same vehicle.
1. It was just before knocking off time, so the male has been taken to the station, booked in and the job is being handed over to a colleague, who will be in touch later.
2. He's dropped them both off at home and said there is no complaint. It's very rare that you would place a victim and offender in the same vehicle.
16 August 2013, 08:34 AM
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I'm guessing there are likely two things that are happening or have happened:
1. It was just before knocking off time, so the male has been taken to the station, booked in and the job is being handed over to a colleague, who will be in touch later.
2. He's dropped them both off at home and said there is no complaint. It's very rare that you would place a victim and offender in the same vehicle.
1. It was just before knocking off time, so the male has been taken to the station, booked in and the job is being handed over to a colleague, who will be in touch later.
2. He's dropped them both off at home and said there is no complaint. It's very rare that you would place a victim and offender in the same vehicle.
and everything was relitively calm exept for me shouting women beating scumbag at the fella
where as 10 mins before the police had arrived she was getting brutaly assaulted from this fella
16 August 2013, 08:39 AM
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Bravo to you, if only more people were as courageous as you rather than just turning a blind eye or even film it on their phones etc. Whether charges are brought or not, you stopped something that could have easily escalated into something more serious. You did the right thing. 
16 August 2013, 10:01 AM
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No, I think OP done a great job especially considering he didn't hurt the man otherwise things would have turned against him legally in a bad way. Assault charges, lies from the girlfriend and all sorts.
16 August 2013, 10:03 AM
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I am currently working at a landrig near poole and i am staying in the city centre of bournemouth
i was outside my hotel on the smoking balcony a hour or two ago " 5 am " having a smoke and all heard was screaming and then seen some women in her 20's running up the street and a guy chasing after her and when he caught her
he grabbed her hair and pulled it right back violently and punched her twice and bent her arm and twisted it very harshly and started to drag her away by the hair and twisted arm i could not believe what i had just seen it sounds bad but believe me seeing it was 100 times worse her top was ripped and it looked like she was getting dragged into the bushes
By the time i got out of the balcony the guy had dragged the women away and i ran up the road and round the corner to where he had dragged her and i caught the scumbag and held him until the police arrived
and all this women beater could say was its my girlfriend while i was shouting women beating b@stard and saying you can explain yourself to the police !
I am just so disgusted people like this are on the streets as these people think they can get away with anything
i was outside my hotel on the smoking balcony a hour or two ago " 5 am " having a smoke and all heard was screaming and then seen some women in her 20's running up the street and a guy chasing after her and when he caught her
he grabbed her hair and pulled it right back violently and punched her twice and bent her arm and twisted it very harshly and started to drag her away by the hair and twisted arm i could not believe what i had just seen it sounds bad but believe me seeing it was 100 times worse her top was ripped and it looked like she was getting dragged into the bushes
By the time i got out of the balcony the guy had dragged the women away and i ran up the road and round the corner to where he had dragged her and i caught the scumbag and held him until the police arrived
and all this women beater could say was its my girlfriend while i was shouting women beating b@stard and saying you can explain yourself to the police !
I am just so disgusted people like this are on the streets as these people think they can get away with anything
Top man.
16 August 2013, 10:30 AM
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Welldone that man.
My wife deals with this sort of thing all day long as she is a radio despatcher for the Kent Police.
99.9% of victims of such a crime will drop the charges and be back with their boyfriend/husband/beater by dinner time.
Sad but true.
My wife deals with this sort of thing all day long as she is a radio despatcher for the Kent Police.
99.9% of victims of such a crime will drop the charges and be back with their boyfriend/husband/beater by dinner time.
Sad but true.
16 August 2013, 10:42 AM
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Good deed, Nizmo. What a d!ckhead he was; treating his 'girlfriend' like that.
Good to see a thread about protecting a random woman than usual stuff that we read here from some men for random and non-random women e.g. "would give her a sh@g to shut her up", "the psycho biatch has taken all my money in split/divorce", "all women want is your big wallet" etc. type of shoite on SN.
It will be up to her whether she takes further action or not. She may; one day. You have responded to the threat for her, and saved her from further damage at that moment of time. That makes a huge difference. Well done.
I'd also intervene if I see a person (man or a woman) being beaten by his GF/BF/husband/wife anywhere.
Good to see a thread about protecting a random woman than usual stuff that we read here from some men for random and non-random women e.g. "would give her a sh@g to shut her up", "the psycho biatch has taken all my money in split/divorce", "all women want is your big wallet" etc. type of shoite on SN.
It will be up to her whether she takes further action or not. She may; one day. You have responded to the threat for her, and saved her from further damage at that moment of time. That makes a huge difference. Well done.
I'd also intervene if I see a person (man or a woman) being beaten by his GF/BF/husband/wife anywhere.
16 August 2013, 10:56 AM
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I pushed him off her, she was KO'd and in a very bad way so he started on me!!
I defended myself and ended up on top of him with him face down and his arm up his back. The police/ambulance came and I gave a statement, she had come round and they got taken away in there respective vehicles (ambulance for her and police car for him) and I continued home.
2 days later the police turn up at my doorstep wanting to arrest me for ABH!!!! They had pictures of the fellas face after the incident and a statement from both the man and woman saying I had randomly attacked him!!
Luckily there was CCTV and upon reviewing the footage the charges were dropped due to it being regarded as self defence on my part as he had thrown the first punch. But I could have turned out a lot worse!!
16 August 2013, 11:01 AM
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Cheers folks 
It would not of mattered to me which situation it was whether male hitting female or vice versa
If there was someone in distress i would still of done the same thing.
I fully agree gear head once the police arrived she was saying he is my boyfriend and everything is ok
so i highly doubt she would press any charges against him.
but i hope when she wakes up this morning and is of a clear mind and semi sober she relises what happened to her last night and ditches her creep of a boyfriend
but if i am being honest she probably wont and probably put up with more of this creatures abuse which is a shame
It would not of mattered to me which situation it was whether male hitting female or vice versa
If there was someone in distress i would still of done the same thing.
I fully agree gear head once the police arrived she was saying he is my boyfriend and everything is ok
so i highly doubt she would press any charges against him.
but i hope when she wakes up this morning and is of a clear mind and semi sober she relises what happened to her last night and ditches her creep of a boyfriend
but if i am being honest she probably wont and probably put up with more of this creatures abuse which is a shame
16 August 2013, 11:01 AM
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Well done nizmo you handled the situation perfectly from what I can tell and how many other people just would just have walked away and not got involved.
Regardless of whether she presses charges or not you saved her from a potentially worse assault and that in itself is a very good thing