Jamz3k

Well I knew it was only a matter of time but today I've hit rock bottom. Me and my missus of over 6years called it quits as we haven't been getting on well since I started my my new job and now I'm moving out of my home to move into a pokey house I don't even like but its the only semi-decent rental property that isn't in a complete dump of a council estate that I can afford.

This is ****.

CharlySkunkWeed

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chin up mate. Get laid , should help.

DYK

If its your home why are you moving out...

Jamz3k

Can't afford it on my own.

Bean1984

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As above if its your home give her the boot. You made your house what it is matey. Keep your chin up women aint everything in life. I learnt that from my dopey ex (physco bird i call her now lol)

The Dogs B******s

Chin up, go out and get smashed

markjmd

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In these days of so-called equality, I don't get why it's always the guy who's expected to move out, if there's no kids involved.

Edit:
Now re-read thread, and see above comment isn't massively relevant here. +1 for lodger though.

Bean1984

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Lodger??

urban

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EFA

PaulC72

Sad times matey but things will get better.

dirtybarry

been there and it's ****e feel for you

yabbadoo4

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been there a few times bud. its sh*t but just weather it and come out the other end. i came to look at it as my life just taking another turn in the road. as said already get laid,or drunk or stoned whatever and grab the bull by the horns and get on with it, because you have to.

Jamz3k

Cheers for the supportive words guys. I haven't been dealing with it at all well to be honest and have slid into a depressive state. All I've done for the past week is go to work, go to the gym, watch x-files and sleep. I can't even remember the last time I had a proper meal.

RobsyUK

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Did you split on mutal terms? could you not both live in the same house? If not, could you post some of your vids up or is it too soon to ask.

Serious note though, sometimes hitting bottom means second time round you can do things differently which may be better.

The first year will be the hardest as you will think back - this time of year we did x y z ...

Gear Head

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Sounds like a perfect week to me fella!

Chin up, get laid, move on. It may be the event that transforms your life.
You never know....

Leslie

Sorry about all the problems. Hope it all sorts out for you soon.

Les

DYK

Its a tough one breaking up,do it a few times and you do become a bit hardened to it.I'm having a dilemma about work at the moment,i said i don't want to work europe so much/being away most times anymore,but i will give up a few perks at work.The trade off is i will be at home more,torn between the two at the mo,need to give an answer by tomorrow,and i ain't got a clue.
So we're all having problems...

New_scooby_04

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Condolences mate, but life is too short to put up with a relationship that you're not happy in.

However, ****e you may feel now, you'd feel a lot worse if you were together under bad terms for another 6 year then looked back at even more wasted time that you could have used to create a better life for yourself.

This is an opportunity for you to find something that will bring happiness into your life rather than just foster boredom conflict and indifference.

All the best!

tony de wonderful

Try and eat properly at least mate and keep yourself and the flat clean and tidy. There's always people in worse life circusmances and maybe you are better off split from her?

CharlySkunkWeed

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yeah , at least you have a job , and as s4i77y as it seems , a roof over your head.

tarmac terror

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Three tips Jamz having been down this route before and lost everything.

Don't go off your food
Don't turn to drink and drugs
Don't become isolated

Get a normal routine established and get on with life, what's happened has happened, if it is beyond salvage or recovery, chalk it up to experience and move on.

I don't wish to sound unkind, but if you think things are ****e for you at the minute, this may put things into perspective. https://www.scoobynet.com/scoobynet-...ease-help.html

Dingdongler

The best thing to do is to get revenge. Post naked pics of her on here for us all to see, that'll learn her

Seriously though, chin up, things always get better

wrx300scooby

Keep yer chin up mate, been there, like others have said, eat properly, don't become a stranger to your mates and think of the positives

jods

That's the truth. Right there. A friend, 39, died from a heart attack a couple of weeks ago.

JAMZ. I know how you must be feeling right now but at least you have the chance to make a new start -perhaps your other half(ex) has a younger sister? Smash her back doors in? PC? No. Fun? Hell yah.

Hysteria1983

Sorry to hear that Jamz

My tip, get together with your mates regular and just start doing the social thing. Go and play some pool and just keep yourself busy with friends. DO NOT stay in on your own or it will just make you feel worse than you probably already do.

Keep your chin up and look to the future.

J4CKO

iTrader: (1)

Ok, Rock Bottom now but a few months down the line you will probably be better off, certainly than being in a relationship that isnt working, its amazing how life needs these situations to take a turn, its kind of like a Forest fire looks so bad and then things grow back bigger and better. Just stick with it and keep positive, keep away from excessive alcohol as it doesnt help, honest.

EddScott

Don't mean to make light of your situation but this was exactly my first thought. All you can do is give it time and just keep doing what your doing - eat though!

mart360

Is it really over?

do you both want it to work?

or are you both taking the easy way out....

have you actually tried sitting down and talking openly.....


you may not hear what ho want to hear, but at least you will know one way or the other.

been there and done that and gone each of the ways!


Mart

ScoobyWon't

http://www.eharmony.co.uk

Well, you never know...

Bubba po

It's Karma, for all the ****ty opinions you have espoused on here. Horrible personality, horrible life.