Asking a girl out to be girlfreind
19 April 2012, 11:43 PM
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Asking a girl out to be girlfreind
ok i have just met this girl like a few times and really like her just wondering what's the best way of asking her out sinc ei havven't had a long term relationship in a while , i see her every thursday though at a club . im tempted to just go for it and ask her if she wants to be my girlfreind as i will have nothing to loose , what u scoobynet people think ???
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19 April 2012, 11:46 PM
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Are you 15 years old?
Are you actually seeing her (slipping her the sausage) If so just say next time youve finished the job, "do you see this going somewhere?" and take it from there.
Does anyone actually ask a girl to be a girlfriend lol.
Are you actually seeing her (slipping her the sausage) If so just say next time youve finished the job, "do you see this going somewhere?" and take it from there.
Does anyone actually ask a girl to be a girlfriend lol.
19 April 2012, 11:49 PM
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im 22 bud , nah im not seeing her but want to see her , iv only met her like 3 weeks ago bud so duno if it's too soon to take her to the cinema or summin ..
19 April 2012, 11:51 PM
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Ask her out to McDonalds. 
(I'm going to put this in the Urban Dictionary as "Doing a Robsy" )
OK maybe not.
Don't say the GF word...but ask her out somewhere. See where she fancies going, if she hasn't any idea/preference then take her out to a place you like.
(I'm going to put this in the Urban Dictionary as "Doing a Robsy" )OK maybe not.
Don't say the GF word...but ask her out somewhere. See where she fancies going, if she hasn't any idea/preference then take her out to a place you like.
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Oh dear, its never too soon mate. I met a lass on Saturday night sat at my local bar, within 5 minutes I had her playing a game of pool and having a laugh, I agreed to meet her Sunday dinner time for a drink, we swapped numbers and I'm taking her out early next week.
And dont take her to the cinema (or McDonalds)
And dont take her to the cinema (or McDonalds)
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19 April 2012, 11:58 PM
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Lol. You can ask girls that you've just met to go to the cinema.
I take it there's some sort of mutual attraction there when you meet? Just pick something you'd want to do with her and ask her if she wants to do it. But have a concrete date and activity in mind when you ask... so it's more like you're just wanting to do something and have chosen her to come along.
That's probably totally unnecessary though mate. Just ask her and I'm sure she'll want to go.
I take it there's some sort of mutual attraction there when you meet? Just pick something you'd want to do with her and ask her if she wants to do it. But have a concrete date and activity in mind when you ask... so it's more like you're just wanting to do something and have chosen her to come along.
That's probably totally unnecessary though mate. Just ask her and I'm sure she'll want to go.
20 April 2012, 12:01 AM
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Just ask her out on a date, if you are unsure its the best way to go, start with a meal or a few drinks somewhere and work from that, get to know her and you may well have a better chance of it going further
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20 April 2012, 12:05 AM
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Women generally don't like to eat in front of a fellow that she doesn't know and is attracted to on a first date. Cinema is also somewhere you wont get to know her, pretty dull and uncharacteristic.
Stick with a few drinks or a fun activity like Bowling or Pool. If you live near the coast that could be a pretty good place to start for a laugh if the weather is looking alright, crazy golf etc and a giggle in the arcades (make sure she wins) all good places to keep you occupied so conversation doesn't dry up if you are not good at that sort of thing - and I'm not being funny but it certainly sounds like you wont be.
Stick with a few drinks or a fun activity like Bowling or Pool. If you live near the coast that could be a pretty good place to start for a laugh if the weather is looking alright, crazy golf etc and a giggle in the arcades (make sure she wins) all good places to keep you occupied so conversation doesn't dry up if you are not good at that sort of thing - and I'm not being funny but it certainly sounds like you wont be.
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20 April 2012, 12:30 AM
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As other's have said ...when you next see her on Thursday through the club, as her if she fancies going to some bars with you for a drink ...or a few drinks If there's a pool table, get her to give you a game on that, and on one of her goes, stand behind her and take her shot together. Just be yourself, play it cool and Im sure it'll all be fine
But the golden rule; do not ask her if you can stick it up her poop shoot. That doesn't go down too well (especialy on a first date).
If there's a pool table, get her to give you a game on that, and on one of her goes, stand behind her and take her shot together. Just be yourself, play it cool and Im sure it'll all be fine But the golden rule; do not ask her if you can stick it up her poop shoot. That doesn't go down too well (especialy on a first date).
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Be original and be confident. Make sure she knows that you want her to go with you, women love it when a man is interested in them, i.e. your not just asking her to make up the numbers. If she says yes you're onto a winner as she's also interested in you.
When I was chasing after my ex many years ago she knew I was interested and she was my first choice but also that I had options. Once when I asked her to go out but she was too busy, so I asked another girl, the next week my ex said 'yes' even though she was busy lol
When I was chasing after my ex many years ago she knew I was interested and she was my first choice but also that I had options. Once when I asked her to go out but she was too busy, so I asked another girl, the next week my ex said 'yes' even though she was busy lol
20 April 2012, 06:32 AM
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jesus whats wrong with you load of benders, man up!!!!!
if you ask her "will you be my girlfriend" after knowing her three weeks i hope she **** punts you for being a gayer!!!
have you ever had sex?? and i mean with a lady, your hand,sock or pet do not count!!
if you ask her "will you be my girlfriend" after knowing her three weeks i hope she **** punts you for being a gayer!!!
have you ever had sex?? and i mean with a lady, your hand,sock or pet do not count!!
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20 April 2012, 06:49 AM
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I love that..Serious though I would do the 20seconds of carrage thing where for 20 seconds nothing can get in you way, look at her, do the wow your fit look, stroll up and talk to her, then her mate then back to her.. Then offer to buy her another drink and then when she offers to buy you one back say she can buy you dinner.
She will laugh and boom your in, just chat and see how it goes.. Then ask if you can finger her... JOKE ask for her number
20 April 2012, 07:02 AM
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Hmmm what was my process at age 22....
Firstly never ever ask them to b your girlfriend, you should have stopped pulling that **** by the age of 14.
It's a simple checklist you initiate over 2 weeks.
Drink
Number
Receive pic of her **** via text or email.
Reply to such pic saying youd love to smash her back doors in.
Evening drive
Back road.
Hide car, smash back doors in (not on your car)
3rd meet at hers, ask if she has a mate that joins in.
Live fantasy providing its not mmf as that ****s not cool.
Wipe dick on curtain.
Tell whatever bird you dont like you've lost phone or it was stolen by other girl.
Look for next bird....
Vital rule below. This is something my mate does , always have a close friend (now changed to mum in your phone) ready to be a family member so if you happen across a daytime meet and without war paint they look rough a quick text becomes " you have to come home immediately , something's happended"
Firstly never ever ask them to b your girlfriend, you should have stopped pulling that **** by the age of 14.
It's a simple checklist you initiate over 2 weeks.
Drink
Number
Receive pic of her **** via text or email.
Reply to such pic saying youd love to smash her back doors in.
Evening drive
Back road.
Hide car, smash back doors in (not on your car)
3rd meet at hers, ask if she has a mate that joins in.
Live fantasy providing its not mmf as that ****s not cool.
Wipe dick on curtain.
Tell whatever bird you dont like you've lost phone or it was stolen by other girl.
Look for next bird....
Vital rule below. This is something my mate does , always have a close friend (now changed to mum in your phone) ready to be a family member so if you happen across a daytime meet and without war paint they look rough a quick text becomes " you have to come home immediately , something's happended"