Today, real naked women are just bad porn
23 November 2011, 12:24 PM
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Today, real naked women are just bad ****
An interesting article that I agree with: http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/trends/n_9437/
And for those of you that don't bother to read it, I will just make women feel a little more insecure:
And for those of you that don't bother to read it, I will just make women feel a little more insecure:
like she'd even give you a second look and you have your pick of beautiful women
23 November 2011, 01:30 PM
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Sigh. Shouldn't have put a picture of a plastic person 
The article is a serious one that men (young men, not me I'm old ) are somewhat desensitized to sex and women as the availablity of pornography increases. And that the expectations of sex are much higher and typically male oriented.
Certainly if you switch off safe search in Google it is hard to type in any subject without getting pictures of naked women ...
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The article is a serious one that men (young men, not me I'm old
) are somewhat desensitized to sex and women as the availablity of pornography increases. And that the expectations of sex are much higher and typically male oriented.Certainly if you switch off safe search in Google it is hard to type in any subject without getting pictures of naked women ...
Steve
23 November 2011, 01:34 PM
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who cares tbh
let people look like what they want to.
so she doent appeal to you, or me, or whoever else,
does that really matter?
if you dont like looking at it, then just dont. everyones happy lol
let people look like what they want to.
so she doent appeal to you, or me, or whoever else,
does that really matter?
if you dont like looking at it, then just dont. everyones happy lol
23 November 2011, 01:37 PM
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Had a quick breeze through, and it hits some points but misses alot. The main one being a male perspective of all this: Here's mine......
What I find a big turn off on women in terms of physical attrraction are ones whom have no care in making the best out of what they have. Generally speaking thats just taking care of themselves and keeping healthy, no need to be a super model, just be healthy. AND infact a bigger turn off for me is the ones that don't know when to stop messing with themselves - the ones that try to look like gamour girls.
I find fake breasts a big turn off. For example that Jessica James Clement in the Jungle...seiously? Hot bod, nice face....then a pair of bolt on ballons. Sorry, she's ruined herself by doing that. I've done some google perving and seen her pre-op breasts, and they were fine (her **** ain't that great though
). It concerns me that she may have done this to please an industry or the opposite sex. The scars from these operations are the biggest turn off. And lips, FFS stop injecting shyte into them....look what happened to Lesley Ash (and Pete Burns/Cher 
)
Other huge turn offs for me - make up. Seriously, if its badly applied it does no favours and to top it off it blocks pores and actually gives you a bad complextion (acne), meaning you need more (and so the vicious circle ensues).
Another: Eyebrow pluckers. FFS leave them alone! OK if you have a mono-brow do something about it. But don't over do it; there is nothing is more weird and unnatural looking that than non-existant eybrows.
I will draw a line at bush though....so keep those bikini lines in good order
Maybe I'm going against the grain here, but one thing I learnt from **** is - its fake. Everything about it is fake. I don't relate it to women in real life (well maybe some of the 'real' amature stuff....not to be confused with the fake 'las-vegas' amature stuff
). So I don't expect nor do I want a woman in real life to have fake tan, inch thick layers of makeup, balloon breasts, bleached hair, trimmed/altered labia, fish lips and 3mm wide eyebrows. Same with lad's mags - all faked and airbushed shyte....I much prefer to google up some candids of a celebrity the morning after a heavy night out.
And lets reverse the tables shall we? Because I think the article is a little too feministic for my liking. How about male **** stars and pin ups eh? With their tanned muscular bodies (Ron Jeramy excluded
), chiselled looks, 8inch ***** who can thrust away at near impossible positions for hours upon hours without blowing their load! Yeah, how is the average guy expected compete with that? It means that we could automatically assume that any attractive/fit women we see in real life expects to have a man like that (yeah yeah, I know plenty of women will deny that). We all can't make ourselves look like firemen (well, I could play dress-up :lol1; ), or prance around like prima-donna footballers.
Has that prevented me asking out a really attractive woman? Yes! I don't have much self confidence at the best of times, so the last thing I want is another blow to what little I have left by being brushed off by someone who's only interested in physical attributes.
So this goes both ways - its not easy to walk up to a complete stranger and ask them out - and its always the man who is expected to do that. Maybe women should try that more often, save us the mindf**k that goes with every rejection.
In fact maybe **** has given males a better chance? We've all learnt things from it ( ). And if it makes people (both sexes) a little more insecure, the maybe they'll lower the goalposts a little and give that short-arsed, slightly tubby bloke with the weird smile a fighting chance of getting a women that he personally finds attractive?
What I find a big turn off on women in terms of physical attrraction are ones whom have no care in making the best out of what they have. Generally speaking thats just taking care of themselves and keeping healthy, no need to be a super model, just be healthy. AND infact a bigger turn off for me is the ones that don't know when to stop messing with themselves - the ones that try to look like gamour girls.
I find fake breasts a big turn off. For example that Jessica James Clement in the Jungle...seiously? Hot bod, nice face....then a pair of bolt on ballons. Sorry, she's ruined herself by doing that. I've done some google perving and seen her pre-op breasts, and they were fine (her **** ain't that great though
). It concerns me that she may have done this to please an industry or the opposite sex. The scars from these operations are the biggest turn off. And lips, FFS stop injecting shyte into them....look what happened to Lesley Ash (and Pete Burns/Cher )Other huge turn offs for me - make up. Seriously, if its badly applied it does no favours and to top it off it blocks pores and actually gives you a bad complextion (acne), meaning you need more (and so the vicious circle ensues).
Another: Eyebrow pluckers. FFS leave them alone! OK if you have a mono-brow do something about it. But don't over do it; there is nothing is more weird and unnatural looking that than non-existant eybrows.
I will draw a line at bush though....so keep those bikini lines in good order
Maybe I'm going against the grain here, but one thing I learnt from **** is - its fake. Everything about it is fake. I don't relate it to women in real life (well maybe some of the 'real' amature stuff....not to be confused with the fake 'las-vegas' amature stuff
). So I don't expect nor do I want a woman in real life to have fake tan, inch thick layers of makeup, balloon breasts, bleached hair, trimmed/altered labia, fish lips and 3mm wide eyebrows. Same with lad's mags - all faked and airbushed shyte....I much prefer to google up some candids of a celebrity the morning after a heavy night out. And lets reverse the tables shall we? Because I think the article is a little too feministic for my liking. How about male **** stars and pin ups eh? With their tanned muscular bodies (Ron Jeramy excluded
), chiselled looks, 8inch ***** who can thrust away at near impossible positions for hours upon hours without blowing their load! Yeah, how is the average guy expected compete with that? It means that we could automatically assume that any attractive/fit women we see in real life expects to have a man like that (yeah yeah, I know plenty of women will deny that). We all can't make ourselves look like firemen (well, I could play dress-up :lol1; ), or prance around like prima-donna footballers. Has that prevented me asking out a really attractive woman? Yes! I don't have much self confidence at the best of times, so the last thing I want is another blow to what little I have left by being brushed off by someone who's only interested in physical attributes.
So this goes both ways - its not easy to walk up to a complete stranger and ask them out - and its always the man who is expected to do that. Maybe women should try that more often, save us the mindf**k that goes with every rejection.
In fact maybe **** has given males a better chance? We've all learnt things from it (
). And if it makes people (both sexes) a little more insecure, the maybe they'll lower the goalposts a little and give that short-arsed, slightly tubby bloke with the weird smile a fighting chance of getting a women that he personally finds attractive?
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23 November 2011, 01:54 PM
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Anyhow's, my girlfriend is a real stunner, way above what I would consider "my league" - a view re-inforced by friends and work-colleagues who have met her - but the thing is that we met on the internet (match.com). She was shy and didn't have a photo up and we became attracted to each other's personalities before she eventually got round to sending me a photo - it was like I'd won the jackpot! When we met, we already had a connection and were friends, so it was easier.
I also hadn't posted any photos other than my face, so she had no idea what my physique was like until we met but as I tend to wear baggy clothes it wasn't until later (
) that she found out. That was a conscious decision on my part as I was looking for something more than someone interested in superficiality. Now I have a fantastic partner who stimulates me both mentally and physically and she the same. We just both approached it a slightly different way.
23 November 2011, 02:21 PM
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you suspect right, Holmes.
didnt bother reading any of it
when it comes to any of this judging people by there bodies and looks
all the industries are fcked up - money grabbing, greedy fckers
tell you whats the most attractive in the opposite sex to me, being a nice person, having a nice personality, and just not being a physco or fcked up.
persoanality is first always!!!
**** is for ************ end of, its not a reflection of how to live/look imo.
so guys and women masterbate over pretty women/guys ect fcking. what do you do when finished? shut off the pc and go and wash the shame away lol, but you totally forget it.
you dont start thinking hey, i want to be like that ect, start digging into there lives ect - unless your mental imo.
biggest turn off ever ever ever is some jumped up glamour model/type with an attitude of superiority. and i really dont think thery are all like that but theres always some of the fri/sat night population that do.
just dont think its good to start posting pics of who you think looks fake/****/minging ect. there all negatives and what is the point?
think most people realise **** is fake, no?
if not then i must hve lived my life in the ugliest part of the world, having probably seen maybe 5-10 **** start style women walking around, in real life doing the shopping and stuff.
didnt bother reading any of it
when it comes to any of this judging people by there bodies and looks
all the industries are fcked up - money grabbing, greedy fckers
tell you whats the most attractive in the opposite sex to me, being a nice person, having a nice personality, and just not being a physco or fcked up.
persoanality is first always!!!
**** is for ************ end of, its not a reflection of how to live/look imo.
so guys and women masterbate over pretty women/guys ect fcking. what do you do when finished? shut off the pc and go and wash the shame away lol, but you totally forget it.
you dont start thinking hey, i want to be like that ect, start digging into there lives ect - unless your mental imo.
biggest turn off ever ever ever is some jumped up glamour model/type with an attitude of superiority. and i really dont think thery are all like that but theres always some of the fri/sat night population that do.
just dont think its good to start posting pics of who you think looks fake/****/minging ect. there all negatives and what is the point?
think most people realise **** is fake, no?
if not then i must hve lived my life in the ugliest part of the world, having probably seen maybe 5-10 **** start style women walking around, in real life doing the shopping and stuff.
23 November 2011, 02:37 PM
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Some good comments on here, lads 
Most wimmins would not be remotely insecure about not looking like Ms False in the OP.
As for the article, I doubt it's true that men are looking for perfection. How can they, when they aren't perfect themselves
Most wimmins would not be remotely insecure about not looking like Ms False in the OP.
As for the article, I doubt it's true that men are looking for perfection. How can they, when they aren't perfect themselves
23 November 2011, 02:48 PM
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Interesting article.
**** does have its uses but when you would rather look at some plastic bimbo on your computer than be in bed with a real, warm, person then you have issues IMO.
And I seriously doubt if any of the S'net wimmins would feel insecure from looking at that minger in the first post, does anyone really find that attractive?
**** does have its uses
but when you would rather look at some plastic bimbo on your computer than be in bed with a real, warm, person then you have issues IMO.And I seriously doubt if any of the S'net wimmins would feel insecure from looking at that minger in the first post, does anyone really find that attractive?
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Whilst a reasonably interestig article it is somewhat myopic in its view of **** and those that watch it. Many things can be addicitive and cause harm to some people, but many others suffer no problems with them ... witness tobacco and alcohol.
As for **** being fake, whoever said that does not have a clue. There is a lot of **** out there in various genres (not just amateur garbage either) that is very real.
Finally and as a slight aside I love how blokes posting on forums and the likes always claim not to like fake ***** yet there are many many girls out there who have them and not just **** stars either.... some blokes are not being entirely truthful I think.
Like the fact that many women have faked an orgasm yet you won't find one bloke who can accept that a girl they have slept with might have done so
As for **** being fake, whoever said that does not have a clue. There is a lot of **** out there in various genres (not just amateur garbage either) that is very real.
Finally and as a slight aside I love how blokes posting on forums and the likes always claim not to like fake ***** yet there are many many girls out there who have them and not just **** stars either.... some blokes are not being entirely truthful I think.
Like the fact that many women have faked an orgasm yet you won't find one bloke who can accept that a girl they have slept with might have done so
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but that would suggest that women are only having boob jobs because they think men like them. The women I know who have had them have never mentioned blokes in their reasons, they usually say it's for their own self-confidence or to feel more feminine or because breast-feeding has wrecked their *****. Unless they're not being entirely truthful either...
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23 November 2011, 05:19 PM
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but that would suggest that women are only having boob jobs because they think men like them. The women I know who have had them have never mentioned blokes in their reasons, they usually say it's for their own self-confidence or to feel more feminine or because breast-feeding has wrecked their *****. Unless they're not being entirely truthful either...