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Old 17 September 2011, 05:54 PM
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Default My best mate just passed away.

Many of you will remember that I posted during August that my oldest mate had been diagnosed with liver cancer.

I finally got to see him yesterday afternoon, it was one of the hardest things I've EVER had to do, he was in a state and looked awful.

He died this morning at 10 am. Sixty years old this August.

RIP Rick, remembered with love.
Old 17 September 2011, 05:57 PM
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Sad to hear but atleast he is at peace now, cancer isnt nice and seeing someone go through that is very hard

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Old 17 September 2011, 06:05 PM
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i lost my best mate to cancer aged only 21 so be grateful for all those added years of friendship but commiserations also, and don't drink too much if at all.
Old 17 September 2011, 06:08 PM
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Sorry to hear that, it's never easy losing a loved one or someone close. I have lost a younger sister and earlier this year my mum. RIP.
Old 17 September 2011, 06:13 PM
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Ah, sorry to hear that Alcazar. Be thankful for the years you had with him. I know it's hard. xx
Old 17 September 2011, 06:29 PM
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Very sorry to hear that.

RIP Rick.
Old 17 September 2011, 06:29 PM
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Sorry to hear that Jeff. Condolences to you and his family. RIP.

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Old 17 September 2011, 06:33 PM
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Sorry to hear. RIP
Old 17 September 2011, 06:49 PM
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Sorry to hear that mate. At least now he can rest in peace and any pain he was in is now over.
Old 17 September 2011, 07:01 PM
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Sorry to hear your news Alcazar

RIP
Old 17 September 2011, 07:05 PM
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Sorry to hear he has passed. RIP.
Old 17 September 2011, 07:29 PM
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That is so **** mate, glad you got to see him though, scary **** this life thing.
Old 17 September 2011, 07:48 PM
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My thought's go out to the family and you Jeff,sorry to hear this mate
Old 17 September 2011, 07:52 PM
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horrible thing to happen mate, feel for you .. been a year since my best mate died, people on here where really supportive.
Old 17 September 2011, 07:52 PM
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I have 3 good reasons to really hate that disease

RIP Rick
Old 17 September 2011, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
Many of you will remember that I posted during August that my oldest mate had been diagnosed with liver cancer.

I finally got to see him yesterday afternoon, it was one of the hardest things I've EVER had to do, he was in a state and looked awful.

He died this morning at 10 am. Sixty years old this August.

RIP Rick, remembered with love.


I'd say you did right to see him yesterday then Jeff. Sorry for your loss mate
Old 17 September 2011, 08:22 PM
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Old 17 September 2011, 08:36 PM
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Old 17 September 2011, 08:42 PM
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A great friend of mine has just been diagnosed with terminal cancer, it's heartbreaking.

Live life to the full, this ain't a practice run.

I for one don't intend to die wondering.

RIP

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Old 17 September 2011, 09:00 PM
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Sorry to hear of your loss. Try to remember the good times, not how he was last night.
Old 17 September 2011, 09:23 PM
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Sorry to hear that.
Old 17 September 2011, 09:39 PM
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RIP

Knew someone who had brian tumor a few years ago , i wasnt a close friend but went to see him at teh begining ( he lasted 9 months ) with a closer mate - dint go again , kind of cowardly im afraid
Old 17 September 2011, 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
Many of you will remember that I posted during August that my oldest mate had been diagnosed with liver cancer.

I finally got to see him yesterday afternoon, it was one of the hardest things I've EVER had to do, he was in a state and looked awful.

He died this morning at 10 am. Sixty years old this August.

RIP Rick, remembered with love.
My condolences.

My dad went the same way. Was very quick (relatively) in the end. Went in to hospital for a biopsy, was gone before the end of the day. Was a massive shock at the time, I'd never thought he was that ill.

J.
Old 18 September 2011, 12:09 AM
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One more...

R.I.P. Rick.

dunx

P.S. Glad you saw him before he passed away, and raise a glass to the good times...
Old 18 September 2011, 07:59 AM
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Thoughts and best wishes to you and your mates family :-(
Old 18 September 2011, 09:45 AM
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Sorry to hear that matey.

RIP.

Geoff.

I'm 65 years young and a very, very good friend and shooting pal of mine who I grew up with, died in his late 30's; I still miss him all these years later.
Old 18 September 2011, 11:01 AM
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Sorry to hear your bad news mate.That's far too young to go.

Remember the good times.

Rest in peace Rick.

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Old 18 September 2011, 11:47 AM
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Im sorry to hear this Jeff. My closest friend died of liver cancer when she was in her early thirties (having previously suffered from breast cancer)_ very sad.


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Old 18 September 2011, 04:03 PM
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echo all of the above

life is such a precious thing, and often taken for granted


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