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what would you do?
If you had chance to do your life over again what would you do different? but bear in mind what you do different then will change what your doing now. there are things i have done that i wish i had not done but then i wouldnt be doing what i am now be it good or bad i dont know if a change would be a good thing
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Not to sure if i'd change my life,but i do wonder what it would be like if i tried harder at school,and didn't become a dad at 17,as i said i wouldn't change it.
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Only thing id change is not being a ***** with the ladies and taking those sha9s when i had the chance instead of "respecting" the woman.yawn
oh yeah,firiends DONT last longer than a woman
but then id not be where i am now so yeah, wouldnt change much
oh yeah,firiends DONT last longer than a woman
but then id not be where i am now so yeah, wouldnt change much
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If you had chance to do your life over again what would you do different? but bear in mind what you do different then will change what your doing now. there are things i have done that i wish i had not done but then i wouldnt be doing what i am now be it good or bad i dont know if a change would be a good thing
is that better for the cheap seats? lol
is that better for the cheap seats? lol
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hey dogs you know if you didnt have your littleun things would have been different be it better or worse but i know i couldnt live without my kids even if durex wont take responciblity for em lol
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Ithink whatever you have done in your past good or bad makes you the person you are now. There is plenty of things I could say I would change but then i wouldnt be where I am with the people I am
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Is paying attention at school one of the things you would change for the better ?
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The way i look at it(only because a mate said it to me)if i wasn't a dad at 17,and had to grow up quick,i might be a total drop out like a few we know.Now i have a great wife,three great kids,our own house and best of all,,,,,,,,,,,,,a Scooby
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I don't regret the bad things in my life that I have done and had done to me, it's part of becoming who I am now but yeah looking back, if I had the maturity I have now earlier I am pretty sure I wouldn't have wasted so many chances.
But more recent past, I wish I had taken the offer to live and work in Australia!
But more recent past, I wish I had taken the offer to live and work in Australia!
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exactly my point pimmo we would all be somewhere else if we chose just 1 different route but would you be happy? maybe but would you really want to know
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my lifes not great but its not bad i cant complain cos if i started i wouldnt stop lol. but seriously one of my m8s did big things a few years ago bought loadsa properties hung on to them thinking hed make a killing but the market dropped out and hes left with trying to find the mortage on 10 propeties 50% are empty and hes lost everything hes built up. good for him having a go bad for him not getting out in time, again a life lesson in you never know what will happen
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Up to the point I was 16 I wouldn't have changed a thing.
After that, I would have liked to party a little harder and not get so obsessed with cars and cruising about like a *****. And probably not get so drawn into getting so pissed up that I couldn't go on the pull (as in beyond beer goggles).
Still would have gone to same college, probably do different subjects though.
Would not have gone to same Unis though, and most certainly not doing the mickey mouse BEng. degree I ended up with. Probably would have gone somewhere further down south, maybe take a gap year.
Would never have gone into air conditioning. For the sake of my sanity alone. A dark period of my life, stuck on the M1 in a transit running on 2 cylinders barely able to reach 50mph, working in mundane offices, pent up petty middle managers and having to trapse across every Specsavers and Express Dairies in the whole country. Never again.
Would definetly love the opertunity to have another crack at the stunning girl at college
I'm not saying things are bad for me at the mo, financially quite rosey as a matter of fact. But I'm left paranoid in thinking that I was destined for greater things. Maybe it was the bullsh*t I was fed at school that brainwashed me into thinking that we are more than just meer worker ants. I don't know, I just have alot of cynicism and "what ifs" floating through my mind, and I've accumulated alot of emotional, obligational and physical baggage thats increasingly weighed me down over the years, thwarting what hopes and dreams that I want to achive, so much so that I don't even know what I want anymore.
Bloody hell that sounds depressing. I still live in hope, but fear that I may end up doing a Reggie Perrin sooner or later....
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After that, I would have liked to party a little harder and not get so obsessed with cars and cruising about like a *****. And probably not get so drawn into getting so pissed up that I couldn't go on the pull (as in beyond beer goggles).
Still would have gone to same college, probably do different subjects though.
Would not have gone to same Unis though, and most certainly not doing the mickey mouse BEng. degree I ended up with. Probably would have gone somewhere further down south, maybe take a gap year.
Would never have gone into air conditioning. For the sake of my sanity alone. A dark period of my life, stuck on the M1 in a transit running on 2 cylinders barely able to reach 50mph, working in mundane offices, pent up petty middle managers and having to trapse across every Specsavers and Express Dairies in the whole country. Never again.
Would definetly love the opertunity to have another crack at the stunning girl at college
I'm not saying things are bad for me at the mo, financially quite rosey as a matter of fact. But I'm left paranoid in thinking that I was destined for greater things. Maybe it was the bullsh*t I was fed at school that brainwashed me into thinking that we are more than just meer worker ants. I don't know, I just have alot of cynicism and "what ifs" floating through my mind, and I've accumulated alot of emotional, obligational and physical baggage thats increasingly weighed me down over the years, thwarting what hopes and dreams that I want to achive, so much so that I don't even know what I want anymore.
Bloody hell that sounds depressing. I still live in hope, but fear that I may end up doing a Reggie Perrin sooner or later....
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Only thing I would maybe change is not buying my house at 20, as it has restricted my social life someone. I've never had the opportunity or means to do things like festivals, or a "booked it packed it fcuked off" holiday scenario.
I would also have liked to maybe meet my Mrs 5 years later (about now actually), so I could have "sampled more of the opposite seed" so to speak.
Besides that, I wouldn't say I'd change anything. Regrets, yes, mistakes... GOD yes, but you learn from them.
Right here right now, I'm the happiest I have been for a long long time, well before I lost my job last year. I'm doing an engineering apprenticeship I enjoy (and struggle with so it ain't easy), and I also do a hobby and get paid for it on a weekend. My fiancee is about to enroll back at college by taking advantage of a free course in childcare that would have been beyond our financial means otherwise, so that helps too.
Don't need loads a wonga to be happy, but I would say that as I have none
I would also have liked to maybe meet my Mrs 5 years later (about now actually), so I could have "sampled more of the opposite seed" so to speak.
Besides that, I wouldn't say I'd change anything. Regrets, yes, mistakes... GOD yes, but you learn from them.
Right here right now, I'm the happiest I have been for a long long time, well before I lost my job last year. I'm doing an engineering apprenticeship I enjoy (and struggle with so it ain't easy), and I also do a hobby and get paid for it on a weekend. My fiancee is about to enroll back at college by taking advantage of a free course in childcare that would have been beyond our financial means otherwise, so that helps too.
Don't need loads a wonga to be happy, but I would say that as I have none
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I should have never bought the STI and gone straight to the EVO, would have saved me a small fortune and load of hassle
COB "I would also have liked to maybe meet my Mrs 5 years later (about now actually), so I could have "sampled more of the opposite seed" so to speak." ...you dirty old dog, thats going in my best man speach at your wedding!!!
COB "I would also have liked to maybe meet my Mrs 5 years later (about now actually), so I could have "sampled more of the opposite seed" so to speak." ...you dirty old dog, thats going in my best man speach at your wedding!!!
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spent less money and time on cars, or gone for different car choices.
if I could just have the money back I've spent over the years.
kicked various ladies into touch a lot earlier than I did.
if I could just have the money back I've spent over the years.
kicked various ladies into touch a lot earlier than I did.