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Old 27 September 2006, 10:49 AM
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Unhappy What is it with ex's???

why do they tell u in one breath they love you and then in the next breath ur a slag!

i just dont get em!
Old 27 September 2006, 10:54 AM
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Never go back

That way they cant hurt you again
Old 27 September 2006, 10:56 AM
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Scorched earth, it's the only way to move on.
Old 27 September 2006, 10:56 AM
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Because no matter how bad things are between people you cant help who you love....FACT, Love and Hate go hand in hand.
Old 27 September 2006, 10:59 AM
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Old 27 September 2006, 11:00 AM
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Its a "coping" mechanism - if you left them, then its better that they feel themselves on the moral highground. One way of doing that is to make out that you are the cause of the split and therefore apply blame. In their mind, your being "a slag" fits that need.
Old 27 September 2006, 11:04 AM
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i left him coz he cheated on me and i saw him last night in a bar whilst out with mates, he was tellin me how much he loved me and that he wanted me back and when i said i didn't want to get back with him ive moved on he and his mates started callin me a slag and a scrubber and **** like that, he was like jekyl and hyde!
Old 27 September 2006, 11:06 AM
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Originally Posted by WR1Nikki
i left him coz he cheated on me and i saw him last night in a bar whilst out with mates, he was tellin me how much he loved me and that he wanted me back and when i said i didn't want to get back with him ive moved on he and his mates started callin me a slag and a scrubber and **** like that, he was like jekyl and hyde!

Sounds like a real prat anyways.
Good job you've moved on.
Old 27 September 2006, 11:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Jap Import
Sounds like a real prat anyways.
Good job you've moved on.
he is a prat, im now young free and single! i just gotta find mr right but has to have a scooby no matter what!
Old 27 September 2006, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
Because no matter how bad things are between people you cant help who you love....FACT, Love and Hate go hand in hand.
Wise words , still love my ex although the bitch cheated on me

Would never have her back tho
Old 27 September 2006, 11:09 AM
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Originally Posted by WR1Nikki
he is a prat, im now young free and single! i just gotta find mr right but has to have a scooby no matter what!
Just the one condition then? Counts me out unless you can wait till after Xmas
Old 27 September 2006, 11:14 AM
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Originally Posted by RMA26
Just the one condition then? Counts me out unless you can wait till after Xmas
is that when u get ur scooby? im gettin my after xmas too and i cant wait
Old 27 September 2006, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted by WR1Nikki
is that when u get ur scooby? im gettin my after xmas too and i cant wait
I have a holiday coming up so need to break into the scooby fund for that, will need replenishing when i get back for the car

Hopefully a nice black or silver STI like RLE's

(Without the Graphs as his is now)

Old 27 September 2006, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted by RMA26
I have a holiday coming up so need to break into the scooby fund for that, will need replenishing when i get back for the car

Hopefully a nice black or silver STI like RLE's

(Without the Graphs as his is now)


very cool, i wanna bugeye wrx wagon (speed and practicality for the stables)

where u goin on ur hols?
Old 27 September 2006, 11:22 AM
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Not too keen on Bug's prefer Blobs

Hopefully booking to sunny Tenerife this weekend for a week in November - Go the same time each year and cause havoc!
Old 27 September 2006, 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Nat21
Wow!!! wish i had a gf who wanted to be with me because of the car i drove, esp a chav Scooby
i wont have anythin to talk about if he doesn't have one, its not like i can talk to you lot about horses coz u wouldn't no wot im on about
Old 27 September 2006, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by WR1Nikki
i wont have anythin to talk about if he doesn't have one, its not like i can talk to you lot about horses coz u wouldn't no wot im on about
so your knowledge of the world is limited to Scoobys and Horses? You sound like a bag of laughs.
Old 27 September 2006, 11:24 AM
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Originally Posted by RMA26
Not too keen on Bug's prefer Blobs

Hopefully booking to sunny Tenerife this weekend for a week in November - Go the same time each year and cause havoc!
i only want a bugeye coz my bidget wont stretch to a blob otherwise i would have one.

hope u have fun on ur hols, dont do anythin i wouldn't do
Old 27 September 2006, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
so your knowledge of the world is limited to Scoobys and Horses? You sound like a bag of laughs.
i can talk about other things it just helps if u have things in common
Old 27 September 2006, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by WR1Nikki
i wont have anythin to talk about if he doesn't have one, its not like i can talk to you lot about horses coz u wouldn't no wot im on about
Horses - mostly tall (apart from Shetland Ponies), they come with 4 legs, eat sugar and if you don't ride them properly... bang goes ur groin
Old 27 September 2006, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Nat21
On the contrary, my dads always been into racing and i learnt a lot from an early age and Two of my best friends are accomplished riders/trainers and own a few race horses between them.....don't always assume!

Agree though, most blokes don't know much past writing a ticket in William Hill

i no wot u mean, the minute i mention i have a horse they ask about it to seem interested but i spend more time explainin wot things than actually tellin them the story it can get annoyin at times but ive got used to it now, 2 of my ex's hadn't even seen a horse in the flesh until they met me
Old 27 September 2006, 11:31 AM
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your ex is just atypical bloke, we`re all little boys inside our head, dont be personally offended by it, remember the good times and move on, and dont forget fukim you can do better, you know what your looking for and thats based upon material things, fantastic!!

"giddy up there!"
Old 27 September 2006, 11:32 AM
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Hunting horses don't eat sugar - they eat smaller animals.

HTH
Old 27 September 2006, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by SJ_Skyline
Hunting horses don't eat sugar - they eat smaller animals.

HTH
Like garden moles
Old 27 September 2006, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by WR1Nikki
hope u have fun on ur hols, dont do anythin i wouldn't do
I dont know what you mean
Old 27 September 2006, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by firesorter
your ex is just atypical bloke, we`re all little boys inside our head, dont be personally offended by it, remember the good times and move on, and dont forget fukim you can do better, you know what your looking for and thats based upon material things, fantastic!!

"giddy up there!"
theres more to me than material things u no, i no wot i want its gonna take me a while to find it
Old 27 September 2006, 11:36 AM
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Originally Posted by SJ_Skyline
Hunting horses don't eat sugar - they eat smaller animals.

HTH



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