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Old 13 July 2006, 01:21 PM
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http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article...267632,00.html

I'm sorry but the world is crackers.What a cracking life the children of the weird family of the future will have.

If an incredibly politically incorrect politician comes to light,they will get my vote.Guaranteed.
Old 13 July 2006, 01:31 PM
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I can just about see the argument for a gay couple but single Mum's?
Old 13 July 2006, 01:33 PM
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Originally Posted by lozgti
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article...267632,00.html

I'm sorry but the world is crackers.What a cracking life the children of the weird family of the future will have.

If an incredibly politically incorrect politician comes to light,they will get my vote.Guaranteed.
don't be sorry, you and the people who think like you are dying out.
Old 13 July 2006, 01:37 PM
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tbh, although i've not got anything against gays or lesbians, how can it promote natural reletionships in a child? to be living in a family where both parents are same sex?
Old 13 July 2006, 01:42 PM
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“What’s important is looking at the family environment. There’s less of a need for the reference to the father in that circumstance. That’s not to say that fathers are not important. What’s important is that the children are going to be, as far as we know, part of a loving home.”
Amen.

Loz, what IS the point of discussing this with you? We have a very similar recent thread and STILL you bang out the same old prejudices. Are you going to disregard every post that disagrees with your view on this thread in the same way? Can anyone ever say anything to widen your horizons on this sort of topic? I don't think so, personally.
Old 13 July 2006, 01:48 PM
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If you choose to enter a relationship where it is impossible to procreate then why should they ecpect to have children .What happens when a gay relationship ends? does the other mum pay mantinence?
Old 13 July 2006, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by lozgti
If an incredibly politically incorrect politician comes to light,they will get my vote.Guaranteed.
I second that . . . Political incorrectness seems to be the way forward these days . . . . Same sex parents are considered a family??? . . .

Oooooooooooooooooooooooooooookaaaaay!
Old 13 July 2006, 01:53 PM
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Originally Posted by kingofturds
If you choose to enter a relationship where it is impossible to procreate then why should they ecpect to have children .What happens when a gay relationship ends? does the other mum pay mantinence?
If a man knows that a woman is infertile than should that man not go ahead. Are you implying that the infertile woman and her choice of man should not expect to get ivf help to have a family?
Old 13 July 2006, 01:57 PM
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We had a kid at school who,s Mum had run off with another woman and he got ribbed to **** every day about it and he has turned out a right **** up.
At the end of the day kids can/will be cruel.
These fcoking pc ***** should put whats best for the children before the whim of these lesbians deciding that it is "their right" to have a baby
Old 13 July 2006, 01:57 PM
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Ted, I'd love to see the success rate of gay couples having IVF
Old 13 July 2006, 01:58 PM
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For the love of God. Dave, read this slowly. It has nothing to do with political correctness. It has to do with being able to recognise that parents of the same sex can bring up children successfully. Nobody is saying that ALL families should be like that, nobody is saying that the "normal" family unit isn't probably a better environment, but what we ARE saying is that it doesn't therefore mean that there cannot be ANY alternative to it.

I'm sure we'll get all the usual questions regarding bullying trotted out like we usually do, about why gays mustn't have the opportunity to have kids (I especially like that one), kids "forced" to be lesbians/gays yada yada, but as society begins to realise that kids CAN be brought up successfully in this way, hopefully we'll see a reduction in what I see as the irrational opposition to it. And that does NOT mean I would prefer to see kids brought up in same sex families, just that it is a workable option.
Old 13 July 2006, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Ted Maul
If a man knows that a woman is infertile than should that man not go ahead. Are you implying that the infertile woman and her choice of man should not expect to get ivf help to have a family?
Under normal circumstances the Male/female would be able to procreate, wheras a female/female could never without a sperm donor.
Old 13 July 2006, 02:02 PM
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So everybody is comfortable with single women having IVF?
Old 13 July 2006, 02:08 PM
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Judith: I do feel Reg, that any anti-imperialistic group like ours must reflect such a divergence of interest within its powerbase.

Reg: Agreed. Rogers?

Rogers: Yes, I think Judith's point of view is very valid, Reg, provided the movement never forgets that it is the unalienable right of every man...

Stan: Or woman.

Rogers: ...or woman to rid himself...

Stan: Or herself.

Rogers: ...or herself...

Reg: Agreed.

Rogers: Thank you, brother.

Stan: Or sister.

Rogers: Or sister...where was I?

Reg: I think you'd finished.

Rogers: Oh. Right.

Reg: Further more, it it the birthright of every man...

Stan: Or woman.

Reg: Why don't you shut up about women, Stan? You're putting us off.

Stan: Women have a perfect right to play a part in our movement, Reg.

Rogers: Why are you always on about women, Stan?

Stan: ....I want to be one.

Reg: What?

Stan: I want to be a woman. From now on, I want you all to call me Loretta.

Reg: What?

Loretta: It's my right as a man.

Judith: Well, why do you want to be Loretta, Stan?

Loretta: I want to have babies.

Reg: You want to have babies?!

Loretta: It's every man's right to have babies if he wants them.

Reg: But...you can't have babies!

Loretta: Don't you opress me!

Reg: I'm not opressing you, Stan. You haven't got a womb. Where is the foetus going to gestate? You're going to keep it in a box?

Loretta: (Sniff.)

Judith: Here, I've got an idea. Suppose you agree that he can't actually have babies, not having a womb, which is nobody's fault, not even the Romans', but that he can have the right to have babies.

Rogers: Good idea, Judith. We shall fight the oppressors for your right to have babies, brother. Sister! Sorry.

Reg: What's the point?

Rogers: What?

Reg: What's the point of fighting for his right to have babies, when he can't have babies?

Rogers: It is symbolic of our struggle against oppression.

Reg: Symbolic of his struggle against reality, more like.
Old 13 July 2006, 02:18 PM
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Personally I don't believe its right to allow gay couples to adopt, lesbians to have IVF/adopt and I personally take a dim view on single women having IVF - I note that theres no mention of single men being allowed to adopt.

Its PC nonsense! If someone decides to break from the norm of traditional society then that is their choice. Under no circumstances should others have to listen to their whining, put up with new laws in order to suit these people and generally forced into this PC world we find ourselves in today.
Old 13 July 2006, 02:53 PM
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on the basis that 1/3 people divorce are we against hetrosexual married couples getting IVF as they could well end up single?
Old 13 July 2006, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by The Snug Rhino
on the basis that 1/3 people divorce are we against hetrosexual married couples getting IVF as they could well end up single?
Obviously not. IVF should be based on what is fact as of the day the couple are consulted.
Old 13 July 2006, 03:05 PM
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As long as it's not on teh NHS and the DSS aren't obliged to pay for this child's upbringing. I'm ok in a "i'm alright, Jack" attitude.

Although it'll probably cost the taxpayer as teh child may grow up into a mental f**k up.

And, the morals still concern me.
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As there is no such thing as a 'normal' family I fail to see why one can't think of this on a case by case basis.
I'm sure a female family could do just as bad/good a job as a male+female traditional family unit.

It seems to me some people live in a past that never even existed.
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Originally Posted by EddScott
Obviously not. IVF should be based on what is fact as of the day the couple are consulted.

bit naive to be in charge of creating life but ignore the changability of life?

personaly i dont care about IVF.....there are a zillion kids born into **** lives everyday from slums in africa to abusive parents in slough.

giving a couple of lesbos their chance hardly seems like it will tip the scales.
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More of the same 'Human Rights' bollox.

Sadly, the life artificially created by IVF will of course have no 'rights' in the matter other than to become a trendy fashion accessory for deviants or cash cow for single parent benefit scroungers.

This country has gone to hell in a hand cart under New Labour.

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Originally Posted by The Snug Rhino
on the basis that 1/3 people divorce are we against hetrosexual married couples getting IVF as they could well end up single?
Indeed, plenty of kids starving in other parts of the world, import one of them if you're that desparate to have a sprog
Old 13 July 2006, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by The Snug Rhino
bit naive to be in charge of creating life but ignore the changability of life?
Not really no.

You can't anticipate what someone is going to do with thier lives. Like in the other post about the lads mum buggering off with another bird. He could have been produced via IVF.

You'd have to go on what is fact today not what will happen in X years.
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Originally Posted by EddScott
Not really no.

You can't anticipate what someone is going to do with thier lives. Like in the other post about the lads mum buggering off with another bird. He could have been produced via IVF.

You'd have to go on what is fact today not what will happen in X years.
then give them the IVF...at that time they are loving people wanting a kid - why worry about the future?
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maybe 50 years ago a lot of people would be disgusted with non married couples having children, but thankfully now we have moved on. Gays couples / single parents is just another step down what I believe is enlightenment and in 50 years time will be seen as the norm.

Ted
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Remarkably, it means that slowly children will have less and less a link to their biological parents, and more a link to people who actually want to put effort into bringing it up (assuming they don't just want it as some sort of fashion accessory).

There's a whole thesis on ethics and philosophy, right there...
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Originally Posted by Brendan Hughes
Judith: I do feel Reg, that any anti-imperialistic group like ours must reflect such a divergence of interest within its powerbase.

Reg: Agreed. Rogers?

Rogers: Yes, I think Judith's point of view is very valid, Reg, provided the movement never forgets that it is the unalienable right of every man...

Stan: Or woman.

Rogers: ...or woman to rid himself...

Stan: Or herself.

Rogers: ...or herself...

Reg: Agreed.

Rogers: Thank you, brother.

Stan: Or sister.

Rogers: Or sister...where was I?

Reg: I think you'd finished.

Rogers: Oh. Right.

Reg: Further more, it it the birthright of every man...

Stan: Or woman.

Reg: Why don't you shut up about women, Stan? You're putting us off.

Stan: Women have a perfect right to play a part in our movement, Reg.

Rogers: Why are you always on about women, Stan?

Stan: ....I want to be one.

Reg: What?

Stan: I want to be a woman. From now on, I want you all to call me Loretta.

Reg: What?

Loretta: It's my right as a man.

Judith: Well, why do you want to be Loretta, Stan?

Loretta: I want to have babies.

Reg: You want to have babies?!

Loretta: It's every man's right to have babies if he wants them.

Reg: But...you can't have babies!

Loretta: Don't you opress me!

Reg: I'm not opressing you, Stan. You haven't got a womb. Where is the foetus going to gestate? You're going to keep it in a box?

Loretta: (Sniff.)

Judith: Here, I've got an idea. Suppose you agree that he can't actually have babies, not having a womb, which is nobody's fault, not even the Romans', but that he can have the right to have babies.

Rogers: Good idea, Judith. We shall fight the oppressors for your right to have babies, brother. Sister! Sorry.

Reg: What's the point?

Rogers: What?

Reg: What's the point of fighting for his right to have babies, when he can't have babies?

Rogers: It is symbolic of our struggle against oppression.

Reg: Symbolic of his struggle against reality, more like.
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