Stueyb

Hi peeps,

Just realised something........ need to remove the incriminating evidence !!

Apparition

Stuey..... you seem to be jumping the gun a bit matey.
Meet her first. One step at a time. Take it very very slowly.

Stueyb

I know what you mean matey but we have been close for like 2.5 years It came as a shock to me, but I cant complain because we have no commitment at present, just a love for each other

fatherpierre

You haven't met her??

Brave man for posting that initial post on here as you'll get a lot of flack.

Best of luck mate.

I was brought up by a step-father from age 4 'til I did the usual getting older and leaving home. I'm 32 now and regard him as my Dad - always have, always will.

Apparition

A word of caution. I've been in a similar "relationship". Learnt the hard way. To be perfectly blunt. It isn't a true relationship until you meet. Hate to be a bringer of bad news. (But I'd be delighted if you came along in the future and told me differently. )
Yve

Brun

^^^^^^^^^^^^
Agreed - good luck though

Chip Sengravy

was it a grudge pregnancy?

wayne9t9

How close can you be if you never met?
You have a love for each other but she had sex with someone else?
And you are considering raising this child?
Hmmmm...as the "North Americans" would say, "it`s a no-brainer"

the moose

An "accidental" one-night stand? Maybe it's an awful lot more than that, and she's not telling you the entire truth. And has she asked you if you would act as father to her child, or are you just projecting what you'd like?

Ultimately, if you've never met her (after 2.5 years, for heaven's sake - the US isn't that far away), what on earth makes you think that now is the right time to change everything in your life and bring up her child?

I see trouble ahead.

Stueyb

Well thanks for the reply guys. Its just a case of I don't know the answer either TBH, hence thats why I asked. It would be a pity to see it all go without giving it a chance but at the same time, I do realise what it means, and I aint soft

Just have to see what happens !

Cheers all

Chip Sengravy

Its a shame you had to edit...this thread had the makings of a good read

tools2build

looks like i joined scoobynet 2 late - i like a good story

i met my wifey over the net and would chat online every night. After 2 weeks and as we were in same country i booked into a hotel near her the following weekend (a long drive and i wanted a drink for courage so a hotel was the solution) then got my ar$e over there.
we met in the hotel bar, clicked after 2 pints of stella, she drove me into town where i sank another 6 pints of stella, then got an invite to stay at her place
so the hotel never really got used!
was a bit worried the 8 pints of stella would hinder my performance in bed, but the stallion that i am put a huge smile on her face and we've been together ever since. that was 3 yrs ago and now were married and blissfully happy!

t2b

OllyK

Met a number of people of the internet over the years, both social and err sexual. Some were very different to how I expected them to be, others weren't. I have been with the g/f for almost 5 years now and I met her on the net. A previous woman I met via the net, we met in person, departed a few hours later and have not spoken again, her "portrayed online life" was very different from reality and I found I just didn't know here at all when we met.

Best advice I can give? Suck it and see.