Jamz3k

i recently (just over 2 months) moved in with a girl, I AM NOW AT MY WITTS END! she lived in the house before me but i pay half the rent thus half the house is technically mine to do with as a please, not the case! i pay rent so i can have a bedroom in a house ffs, i dont cook in the house because i dont feel comfortable at all downstairs when she's there and there is nothing around to even show that i live there as my "clutter" it always thrown out(like my PX100 )told to put away!

yesterday she decided to make a rota which i agree with because i can be a bit lazy at times but what i dont agree with is that she made it without even asking my opinion thus when i see her i shall be telling her to shove it up her hole.

last night i went out with a few friends i have no seen from school and invited them back for a few quiet drinks, and i mean we had a few quiet drinks but we were asked to leave as she had work to go too making me feel so small it was unbelieveable! although its alright at the weekends when im working for her boyfriend to come down and they spend the whole night talking and keeping me awake ffs i feel like im gonna crack

what do u's think am i doin anything wrong?

*mugen*power*

Maybe sitting down and talking about what you feel uncomfortable about...
but before you do that...start looking for a new place

MattW

Try getting in to her knickers, if that doesn't work at least you got your dick wet.

chaos.

gamma hydroxybutyrate?

RR

What i did was this. I hated my flat mate she hated me. She did not like the way i kept going back with diff girls and never seeing them again. She was a complete bitch about everything. So i noticed she used Oil of Ulay every morning. When she went out i cracked some adult material on the box and knocked one off into her Oil of Ulay. Every day i complimented here on how good her skin looked. No matter what she ever did afterwards bothered me. I just walked around with a happy big smile on my face.

Patt@firstime

easy..............





































**** her

Gav

I'm with matt on this one

MattW

PMSl, quality absolute quality.

sti-04!!

Take the Avid approach, go to bhs or primark (or any of those other manky stores) buy a few pairs of y fronts, cream preferably, purchase said neck brace, go to boots buy ginger hair dye (or a colour close to it), and when you get home, dye said hair, wear said y's & neck brace & just walk about staring at her, she will become uncomfortable & leave ..................

Job Done

or ask choas. to come over one night i am sure she'd pack her stuff soon after

ajm

LOL!

Patt@firstime

Brilliant

ajm

Basically the thing you are doing wrong is telling us instead of telling her!

If you are legally on equal ground then it's about time you get in there and make your views known! I assume you both have separate tenancy agreements and therefore equal legal rights? Or is she subletting to you?

chaos.

I dont want a stroppy cow moving in with me

Kosy

iTrader: (2)

hahaha quality

Jamz3k

basically she's subletting but not actually subletting, she couldnt afford to run the house so asked me to take on half the rent and help her as i needed a place closer to work and was looking for a house anyway. just shows u how people can forget that u actually where helping them out when they get on there high-horse

Wish

iTrader: (2)

Give her a bitch slap accross the face. lay down the law to her, then have your wicked way.

Deep down she is crying out for a portion

ajm

Do you have a written contract?

Jamz3k

unfortunitely as it was just a friendly agreement

Jap2Scrap

Bollox to her then mate. Pack your stuff and let her go **** up with the rent. The threat of it (actually let her catch you packing) might be enough to mellow her out. If it's not you're better off out anyway.

ProperCharlie

It seems to me that we are only getting half the story here. Ok, this woman sounds like she's a bit uptight, but reading between the lines it sounds like there may be a bit of a conflict in standards of house keeping. She wants to be neat and tidy, our boy is (perhaps ) a bit of a slob. Maybe a bit of reasonable discussion would sort this out. I have lived with people who believe that the bin empties itself, the bath and toilet get cleaned by magic elves in the night and mr. dyson comes around to test out his hoover on the carpets.


Oh hang on...


... I still do.

It can get a bit annoying after a while; hence the creation of rotas and the binning of junk that has been left around the place for months on end.

scoob_babe

Either leave as soon as you've found a new place or catch her at a good time and thrash out what the problem is. We've been married nearly 5 years and we still bicker about why the cleaning doesn't get done by the cleaning fairy etc.

alcazar

iTrader: (2)

There are cleaning fairies?

Where do I get one

Alcazar

Turbohot

You are doing one thing wrong mate, putting up with this sh!te! Move out and find somewhere else to live.Just simplify your life.Dont complicate it for yourself and get stressed.
Let her find some other lodger who can put with that.
Take it easy.

DrEvil

Yes it does!

BigJay - find somewhere else to rent, leave her to it - the underlying issues will never go away.

scoob_babe

Unfortunately the cleaning fairy has gone on strike as terms and conditions were rubbish (pardon the pun)

Jamz3k

to be honest i dunno what im gonna do cus i like her, i just dont like living with her and i'd feel like **** for leaving as i know she doesnt like being in the house on her own at night.. so i guess im gonna just have to talk to her lol **** i hate talking i cant argue for ****!

ajm

You could always email her this thread!

Scooby96

RR - you beat me to it!

RR

Oil of ulay. You wont ever feel like falling out with her again. You win the argument every morning when she moisturises.

Sorry scooby96. It worked for u as well then.