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Old 22 November 2004, 12:27 PM
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right, lets get some anonymous stats on this...

edited to say: "please be honest"

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Old 22 November 2004, 12:30 PM
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You'll get more "Scooby Newbies" than a haemorrhoid thread
Old 22 November 2004, 12:34 PM
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couldn't possibly comment.

(btw does a "private dance" count? )
Old 22 November 2004, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by ProperCharlie
couldn't possibly comment.

(btw does a "private dance" count? )
depends what you were "thinking".

i was thinking "have i got enough cash on me for this?????" !!!!!!!

LOL

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Old 22 November 2004, 12:37 PM
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declined her and her hubby
Old 22 November 2004, 12:45 PM
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yeah a whilst ago now, but it wasnt a pretty site when it came to a head!!

it wasnt with my current partner, and I wouldnt do it again!
Old 22 November 2004, 01:17 PM
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what constitutes cheating for the purposes of this poll?

sex with someone other than your partner?
kissing?
flirting?
or what?

incidently i am a "no" for all of those. pretty surprised at the stats tho.. a lot of *******s/***** on nsr
Old 22 November 2004, 01:29 PM
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I have, infact I did this weekend

Have a girlfriend problem is it is a convienience (sp?) relationship, I like her but and she is fun to be with but know we will never marry or take it any further.

Also I blame stella artois.

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Old 22 November 2004, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Ray_li
declined her and her hubby
PMSL
Old 22 November 2004, 01:34 PM
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Yes...

Two timed 2 girls for one whole year

Never got caught, came very close, neither were the right girl (obviously), binned both and learned a valuable lesson about being a ******** in the process

Never do it again ... sheer stupidity and not to be recommended if you want an easy life
Old 22 November 2004, 01:35 PM
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You cheating lot!
Comper100

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Old 22 November 2004, 02:03 PM
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Not proud of it, but I have done the dirty 8 times behind a partner's back.

All in the past now and would never do it again.
Old 22 November 2004, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted by milo
what constitutes cheating for the purposes of this poll?

sex with someone other than your partner?
kissing?
flirting?
or what?

incidently i am a "no" for all of those. pretty surprised at the stats tho.. a lot of *******s/***** on nsr

Milo, i reckon a full on bunk up or action with intimate parts, constitutes cheating.
wouldn't have thought a snog during the 1:50am nightclub slowies would count. (do they still play them??)

come on you lot, plenty of views but not enough voting.... make it count!!!!

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Old 22 November 2004, 02:32 PM
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No, but I've been involved with someone I knew was cheating on his partner. IME, it rarely works out well. I wouldn't do it again.

Oh, and if someone claims they are really unhappy and will leave their partner, tell them you're not interested until they have. However much they may mean it when they say it, generally when it comes to the crunch, they realise it's not as straightforward as they thought it would be. That's based on my experience and the experiences of friends, (of both genders).
Old 22 November 2004, 03:01 PM
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No.

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Old 22 November 2004, 03:07 PM
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Can you go into more detail chip.


What was she not wearing.

Did you not go to her place, or not take her back to yours.

What was her friend, that you didn't see, like ?
Old 22 November 2004, 03:11 PM
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Originally Posted by norbert
Not proud of it, but I have done the dirty 8 times behind a partner's back.

All in the past now and would never do it again.
Jeez - did you keep a diary
Old 22 November 2004, 03:21 PM
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I turned down a fit air stewardess when going out with my ex, my mates thought I was mad. When I split up with her, I realised my mates were correct
Old 22 November 2004, 03:59 PM
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Yeah I did, but at the time you think it's ok, could'nt do it now
Cheers
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Old 22 November 2004, 04:50 PM
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On the Continent everyone has a mistress, it is accepted operating procedure. Wives just shrug their shoulders and probably become a mistress themselves! It is human nature after all, men just aren't biologically set up for monogamy, we need to spread our genes about.
Old 22 November 2004, 05:07 PM
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I'm french.....
...I can't help it.
Old 22 November 2004, 05:43 PM
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Have I? nope. would I? well, I am capable of doing it, but I don't think I would.

If I'm with someone, I'm with them, simple as that. If I have to look elsewhere, something is wrong in the relationship and that either needs to be sorted out, or we need to go our separate ways.

Of course, there is the definition of "cheating" to be considered. any kind of physical intamacy, most certainly, think it goes without saying. So that's sex, kissing, foreplay, groping.

Flirting, hmm, depends if it's serious flirting. I've friends who are flirts, and it means nothing, however, some of the chaps they flirt with are not aware it means nothing, so clear signals need to be sent, personally I'd not flirt.

The bottom line here is, I know how I'd feel if I found out I'd been cheated on, and I'd not wish that kind of feeling on anyone.
Old 22 November 2004, 06:02 PM
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Interesting this.

More than half of those who have answered the poll at the current time have or would cheat on their partner which I think is probably a higher proportion than if this poll was conducted among the general populous.

Now the last time SN NSR did a 'Who would you vote for in a general election?' poll more than half said they would vote Tory. Now we *know* this is a higher proportion than if the poll was conducted among the general populous.

I will now leave you to draw your own conclusions over any correlation between voting Tory and a lack of moral fibre

tiggers.

P.S. Aren't statistics great?
Old 22 November 2004, 06:04 PM
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When you are having sex with these women - Does it feel like your cheating on your hand ?

Old 22 November 2004, 06:52 PM
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Cheated on my Girlfriend after a drunken argument. Felt like **** afterwards and confessed all to my Girl. It took a few weeks for her to get over it and then all was fine. I however have not got over it (3 years ago). It remains the single biggest mistake of my life. I think it's this fact that will keep me on the straight and narrow for the rest of my life. Not a prob at the moment as i'm a little bit single
Old 22 November 2004, 06:53 PM
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Originally Posted by lightning101
When you are having sex with these women - Does it feel like your cheating on your hand ?

Although that is, on the face of it, a facetious remark I think it does go to the very heart of why some men can cheat without remorse.

For most of us it has the same emotional implications as thinking of other women while w@nking (hence the 'posh w@nk' theory).

The only real difference is that you don't tend to smell of someone elses perfume after choking the chicken.
Old 22 November 2004, 09:50 PM
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never cheated on any of my girlfriends and don't think i would in the future. i have been with other peoples girlfriends/partners and wives which i know is stupid, but i just seem to attract them. does that make me the bad one, because i've never gone looking for opp they just come to me.

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Old 23 November 2004, 12:00 AM
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Where's the "never cheated, but been a bit on the side" option in the poll?

John.
Old 23 November 2004, 10:13 AM
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Not proud of it, but I have done the dirty 8 times behind a partner's back.

All in the past now and would never do it again.
i bet you've said that at least 7 times before!! lol

come on you lot, only 10% of viewers have voted.....

this should be bigger than Live Aid!!!

get voting....
Old 23 November 2004, 10:41 AM
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To paraphrase Groucho Marx......

"I wouldn't want to mess around with a woman that would sleep with me!"
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