Poor Guy

Ok so, theres this lass i really like who i'm becoming friends with. me and her get on like a house on fire and shes really funny and its great being with her.

But, I dont think she likes me the same way i like her. well, not sure. Im always out on a tuesday with her and always stay with each other through the night.

Does this mean anything?
Could she like me more than a friend?
Is there any advice you could give me?
Should i tell her?

argggggggggggggggg, this s driving me feckin nuts.


im moving on to the whiskey.

imlach

Does she let you insert anything into its rightful socket during these 'nights'?

If so, she may like you

fatherpierre

If you don't think she likes you in the same way, there must be a reason for that.
You must sense that.

You've nothing to lose by asking her out - other than a bit of pride if she knocks you back.

Poor Guy

she lets me insert vodka via a shot glass into her mouth

Dan J

Well there's the old adage of you don't ask you don't get! Then again personally speaking I don't like to jump in with both feet unless I'm pretty sure I'm not gonna get a no - nobody likes rejection! You can usually tell if it's there for you or not. My advice would be to turn your charm meter up a couple of notches (don't go above an 8 though!!) and get a bit more touchy feely, flirty and see how she responds. If she does then go for the kill. Try and do it when you've both had a few drinks too so if you do get a knockback you can always use that as an excuse!!

Good luck mate!!!

julian N/W wrx my93

go for the friendy hug method!

Poor Guy

good point mr Pierre.

Stupid brain, why didnt you figure that out!!!!!!

imlach

Try some milk next time....SaxoBoy can give you advice.

MattW

Ask her for a hand job, that's friendly

fatherpierre

If you've not got the bottle to ask her out directly do it by text.

Nicci

I think she likes you as a friend.

Guys tend to misread womens signals quite easily.
I used to confuse guys (by accident).

You are probably thought of as a great mate.

A girl will have a guy as a friend and no more.
A guy will be mates with a girl but thinks they will end up sleeping together.

Poor Guy

cheers Dan.

i shall try. she does enjoy a good drink. she can do 3 shots before me or my friends do 2.

I do seem to spend a lot of time buying her drinks. maybe im being used. or maybe theres another reason.

StickyMicky

sky kids get no sweets

Poor Guy

Nicci you maybe right.



Im not really into just sleeping with said lass though. I'd preffer to just be more friendly, sort of like now, but closer friendlierish.

ProperCharlie

poor guy - you need to stock up on rohypnol .

Dan J

I think the quicker you find out the better as it seems like it's something that's constantly on your mind at the moment. Try to look at asking her out/trying your luck with her as a win win situation. If it turns out she does like you too then great and off you both go. If it turns out she sees you as mates only or even worse is using you to get pissed up for free every Tuesday then at least you're free of the does she doesn't she that's rattling round in your head right now and could even save yourself a fair few quid into the bargain!

There's good to be found in every outcome!

Poor Guy

whats a sky kid micky?

imlach

Hmm....I'd cut down buying her drinks as an experiment just to check. You'd be better saving your pennies for a trip down the local sauna

ProperCharlie

look at it this way - ten vodkas gets you a load of boring chat and a kiss goodnight. one hit of jellies and the sky's the limit, man.

it's a simple matter of economics

Nicci

Gut feelings are usually right.

Do you want to risk losing the close friendship?

Poor Guy

mmmmmmmmmmmm good thoughts here. Hows about this. I just ask her when tipsy.
Shes a straight to the point kinda gal.

Charlie, im not a date raper.

Poor Guy

Its not a close friendship. Friendship, not that close, yet, thats why im asking now. Before that becomes the problem.

Audi-Boy

*Sit back, relaxes, and tries to take a sip of 2 saches of hawlix with 2 table spoons of sugar topped up with a pint of full fat milk served in a stella pint glass*

No, Its still too hot

*eats chocklate cake and munches on a cheese flavoured dorito*

Poor Guy

thats not helping

Dan J

Well that's good if the friendship isn't that close then as she won't be able to use the "I wouldn't want to risk our friendship" line. You know her better than us so do you think that if you asked and she said no that you could still carry on as mates without any awkwardness? If so then just go for it nothing to lose. Life's too short for ifs buts and regrets and remember there's plenty of other fish in the sea...

fatherpierre

Is she out of your league?

ProperCharlie

well there's a first time for everything.

sorry - that's bad taste.

seriously - forget about this "losing close friendship". that's a load of BS. ultimately, you will either get it together with her, in which case *great*, or you will not. if you do not you will eventually (i'm giving you the benefit of the doubt here) get it on with someone else, in which case the friendship you have with the other lass will soon fade away.

call me cynical, but 9 out of 10 cats prefer it.

Audi-Boy

seriously try the hawlix stuff, fookin well nice

Poor Guy

I reckon if i say "fancy going out sometime. just us 2" I'd get a straight reply. if yes then yay. If not I can live with that (very experienced in this) and just continue the friendship and hopefully this will fade away.



again.

Dan J

There you go see you knew the answer all along just wanted to hear a few others say it too! Job done!