Do you pay people for helping you out.
26 April 2003, 02:57 PM
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My neighbour is a retired mechanic and he's just spent two hours helping me change a water pump on the car.He also drove me to the garage to get some parts.
I never paid him,my mate says he'd have at least offered him something,but i disagree.I never ask for money for helping anyone out and never offer it if its the other way round.
The thing is he's done a lot more for me than i have for him.
I never paid him,my mate says he'd have at least offered him something,but i disagree.I never ask for money for helping anyone out and never offer it if its the other way round.
The thing is he's done a lot more for me than i have for him.
26 April 2003, 02:59 PM
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if someone does me a favour i return it next time they need one.
But if its a big job or awkward or something then ill slip them some £ or a pint or 2
if someone does me a favour i return it next time they need one.
But if its a big job or awkward or something then ill slip them some £ or a pint or 2
26 April 2003, 03:10 PM
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Personally, I would have gone out and got a couple of bottles of wine/crate of beer and dropped it off as a thank you. They can always share them with you, or turn it down(meaning you get some too)
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26 April 2003, 03:10 PM
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I'd say it would be better to offer him something like a case of beer (and let him turn it down if he wants to) than to have him thinking "miserable ****, all that help and he never even offered a thanks".
A case of beer costs little, and will help goodwill no end.
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A case of beer costs little, and will help goodwill no end.
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26 April 2003, 05:25 PM
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To be honest i would have gone down the beer road.
BUT he has had some expense in helping you out (driving his car to get the water pump)
I would take the beer round and have a £20 note in the other hand see which one if not both he takes ??
But i really think you need to take him something !
BUT he has had some expense in helping you out (driving his car to get the water pump)
I would take the beer round and have a £20 note in the other hand see which one if not both he takes ??
But i really think you need to take him something !
26 April 2003, 05:52 PM
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I'd always offer, whoever has done the good deed. Its only polite and most times they will say no thanks, but at least you don't look ungrateful. Then as said earlier, there's usually an occasion at some stage to repay in kind with a favour in return.
27 April 2003, 03:00 PM
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My best mates dad's a mechanic and often does smallish jobs for people at home on a weekend or evening for cash in hand. He got asked by a bloke from the parts department if he'd change the clutch on his sons car that he'd just bought. He agreed to do it this Saturday just gone.
When the son came to pick his car up he brought a bunch of flowers as payment and gave them to my mates mum! What makes this even funnier is that this blokes mother works in a petrol station and usually brings flowers home so we reckon he'd just picked a bunch of these up
Needless to say my mates dad is gonna tell the bloke in parts that he doesn't want to do any more work for them!
Even though you've already paid him i'd advise people to make sure there offer of payment won't offend.
Gareth
When the son came to pick his car up he brought a bunch of flowers as payment and gave them to my mates mum! What makes this even funnier is that this blokes mother works in a petrol station and usually brings flowers home so we reckon he'd just picked a bunch of these up
Needless to say my mates dad is gonna tell the bloke in parts that he doesn't want to do any more work for them!
Even though you've already paid him i'd advise people to make sure there offer of payment won't offend.
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27 April 2003, 03:22 PM
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If somone helps me out then I usually offer to pay, or reimburse them in some way. For example, a few years back, when I got the scooby, my Uncle got me a head unit and autochanger at a very very silly price, now it was no skin off his nose to do this, but I was grateful, he'd not take cash, so I got him a couple of bottles of Chanti (and fava beans ).
As said by others, if you offer, the person can always say no. Usually if I do someone a favor I don't expect payment, and if money is offered I usually turn it down, as well, most of the time I'm doing things for friends, so the odd pint is usually good enough a reward.
).As said by others, if you offer, the person can always say no. Usually if I do someone a favor I don't expect payment, and if money is offered I usually turn it down, as well, most of the time I'm doing things for friends, so the odd pint is usually good enough a reward.
28 April 2003, 12:04 PM
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Did you get his missus something?
Gotta keep her happy as it was her weekend aswell. Keep her happy and she won't mind as much the next time, p155 her off and there might not be a next time
Gotta keep her happy as it was her weekend aswell. Keep her happy and she won't mind as much the next time, p155 her off and there might not be a next time
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