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19 July 2002, 02:43 PM
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Just been completed ignored by mine as she drove past me with a work collegue in the car with her. I even waved, there is no way she could have missed me i was so obvious!!
I get back to the office she calls me (after i leave a message on her answer phone saying hello did you realise you ignored me) and basically turns it around getting all ****ty with me telling me she was with a client out to lunch, so get over it!
She hung up in a pissed off mood!
Now why the F*ck do i feel twice as bad, i mean she ignored me (which made me feel somewhat rejected)
right enuff ranting! Am i being too stupid????
M.
I get back to the office she calls me (after i leave a message on her answer phone saying hello did you realise you ignored me) and basically turns it around getting all ****ty with me telling me she was with a client out to lunch, so get over it!
She hung up in a pissed off mood!
Now why the F*ck do i feel twice as bad, i mean she ignored me (which made me feel somewhat rejected)
right enuff ranting! Am i being too stupid????
M.
19 July 2002, 02:54 PM
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No, thats what girls do. Turn everything round so that even when they do something that pisses you off, you end up being in the wrong.
Damn clever of em, I'll give em that.
I don't bother anymore, just ignore them...
Damn clever of em, I'll give em that.
I don't bother anymore, just ignore them...
19 July 2002, 03:03 PM
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yep! And if i get all crappy with her i then end up thinking "oh my god i could lose her" so i'll end up apologising for something she did!
clever!
arrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
clever!
arrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!
19 July 2002, 03:06 PM
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They live in their own little world m8, mine isn't even talking to me at the moment, think I might have even been dumped, am I bothered? Nope not at all, means I can spend all weekend with my mates enjoying myself. If she wants to appologise she knows where I am
Women! U can't live with em and u can't shoot em either!
Women! U can't live with em and u can't shoot em either!
19 July 2002, 03:07 PM
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I'd be honest and tell her "it hurt a bit when you ignored me, apart from being a bit rude why do it"
If thats still her answer then she doesn't take into account your feelings you either have to accept it or change
Mine does it sometimes to me , but now realises that when I do it to her she doesn't like it. Hey presto it stops
J
If thats still her answer then she doesn't take into account your feelings you either have to accept it or change
Mine does it sometimes to me , but now realises that when I do it to her she doesn't like it. Hey presto it stops
J
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19 July 2002, 03:31 PM
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Learn to live with it mate, and don't apply bloke "values" to their actions.
THe fact she ignored you means nothing. In fact it IS your fault for NOT knowing she had a client in the car and appreciating that it would be un-cool of her to wave back...
DUH........
The fact that you phoned her to complain makes it worse...
Where were you when they handed out the instruction manual
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THe fact she ignored you means nothing. In fact it IS your fault for NOT knowing she had a client in the car and appreciating that it would be un-cool of her to wave back...
DUH........
The fact that you phoned her to complain makes it worse...
Where were you when they handed out the instruction manual
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19 July 2002, 03:53 PM
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Try sending a really cutting text message like I just did! That will get you a response thats for sure! They can't resist an argument by text message and then you have her attention!
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19 July 2002, 04:12 PM
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IT sales mate!!
anyway, she told me that I have blown it all out of proportion and for this we really need to rethink the weekend!
great! This now poses the problem of having to cancel dinner with my folks tonight, so better start think of some excuses to why dinner is off!!!
I feel like shouting out BOLLOX at the top of my voice in the middle of the office!
anyway, she told me that I have blown it all out of proportion and for this we really need to rethink the weekend!
great! This now poses the problem of having to cancel dinner with my folks tonight, so better start think of some excuses to why dinner is off!!!
I feel like shouting out BOLLOX at the top of my voice in the middle of the office!
19 July 2002, 04:13 PM
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Had that once myself and then turned the car around to follow. Lost my head a bit, and eased her of the road somewhat...
There is something cave-man about seeing your girl in a car with another man that is not a mate of yours, or not known to you.
She said she was 'giving a mate of a mate a lift' - I told her to pack her bags since I did not believe her. Later she started seeing him...
Check it out mate - if girls decide to lie, they usually lie very well, so be careful.
There is something cave-man about seeing your girl in a car with another man that is not a mate of yours, or not known to you.
She said she was 'giving a mate of a mate a lift' - I told her to pack her bags since I did not believe her. Later she started seeing him...
Check it out mate - if girls decide to lie, they usually lie very well, so be careful.
19 July 2002, 04:26 PM
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Go and pick up a 'professional lady' and phone your missus, tell her that you're coming home to pick up the <insert your choice of frivolous item> for work, tell her you're pressed for time so could she please bring it out to the car.
Introduce the 'lady' as the bosses wife who needed a lift to the sauna.
She'll get the point, or you will when you get home
(Disclaimer : Dont hire a minger, the missus will laugh at you and tell your mates that your bosses wife is a minger and fancies you, the shame will drive you to drink and then you'll find that you really do wake up with a minger every day, plus one of them will most likely give you syphillis, this will rot your brain until you have the iq of RB170
, scary thought eh ?)
Introduce the 'lady' as the bosses wife who needed a lift to the sauna.
She'll get the point, or you will when you get home
(Disclaimer : Dont hire a minger, the missus will laugh at you and tell your mates that your bosses wife is a minger and fancies you, the shame will drive you to drink and then you'll find that you really do wake up with a minger every day, plus one of them will most likely give you syphillis, this will rot your brain until you have the iq of RB170
, scary thought eh ?)
19 July 2002, 04:29 PM
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Flibble, it's known as an Immature Defensive Mechanism (psychology speak). She's coming out all guns blazing to deflect your concerns.
Women, can't live with 'em, can't fit 'em in a blender.
Women, can't live with 'em, can't fit 'em in a blender.
19 July 2002, 04:32 PM
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Erm if I'd driven past my boyfriend and not noticed him then recieved a call from him giving me some grief over it I'd get the hump too
