Help needed please!!!!!
08 July 2002, 08:54 PM
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Does anybody know of a very good child custody solicitors practice in the South East as the ones I have used were absolute tosh? [img]images/smilies/mad.gif[/img] Its time something was done about the behaviour of my ex and the way my son is 'looked' after and the pathetic access rights I have when my son actually wants to see me and I want to see him and his mum prevents it!
So I am turning to my fellow scoobynetters for any advice they may be able to give on solicitors who actually give a toss (if any actually exist) and don't just take your money and say there is nothing they can do!
I don't expect to get custody realistically for another 3-4 years as my son is only just coming up for 5 years old. However I do believe I have good grounds to increase my access and I need a very good solicitors to act on my behalf.
Any serious and helpfull advice will be very much appreciated.
Cheers
Bob
So I am turning to my fellow scoobynetters for any advice they may be able to give on solicitors who actually give a toss (if any actually exist) and don't just take your money and say there is nothing they can do!
I don't expect to get custody realistically for another 3-4 years as my son is only just coming up for 5 years old. However I do believe I have good grounds to increase my access and I need a very good solicitors to act on my behalf.
Any serious and helpfull advice will be very much appreciated.
Cheers
Bob
08 July 2002, 10:23 PM
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I'll have a word with the-mother-in-law. She is a qualified Children’s Social Worker and has loads of contacts within that industry (if you can call it that)
I'll mail you off line if I manage to find anyone in the south.
Darren
I'll mail you off line if I manage to find anyone in the south.
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08 July 2002, 11:32 PM
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Forget the law. A hitman only cost a few grand. Works out cheaper in the long run. Women like that don't deserve to live..
Typical of the law to protect the wrong people....
Typical of the law to protect the wrong people....
09 July 2002, 08:38 AM
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Thank you for the replies folks.
Darlodge that would be very helpful, thanks.
wrxjoy yhm back m8
Katana I would love to be able to get away with your suggestion, and believe me if you knew just a tiny bit of the stuff she did to me you wouldn't believe it I can tell you, she is plain evil and nothing else. But at the end of the day my son still loves her and I wouldn't want him to go without his Mum no matter what she has done to me, and I don't want to do a 10 year stretch and miss my son growing up. I just wish she would be reasonable for my son's sake but it is totally beyond her.
Darlodge that would be very helpful, thanks.
wrxjoy yhm back m8
Katana I would love to be able to get away with your suggestion, and believe me if you knew just a tiny bit of the stuff she did to me you wouldn't believe it I can tell you, she is plain evil and nothing else. But at the end of the day my son still loves her and I wouldn't want him to go without his Mum no matter what she has done to me, and I don't want to do a 10 year stretch and miss my son growing up. I just wish she would be reasonable for my son's sake but it is totally beyond her.
09 July 2002, 11:51 AM
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I pay her £60 a week for my son as a mutually agreed amount as she blackmailed me with the Child Support Agency which are total w@nkers IMHO! I would have no issue with that amount if it was spent on my son but I reckon most of it goes towards her going down the pub on a Friday night with her boyfriend and new clothes such as totally unecessary official England football shirts for example, which cost a bomb and as she doesn't work then she is not getting the money from anywhere else! [img]images/smilies/mad.gif[/img]
What figures do other people pay if you don't mind saying?
What figures do other people pay if you don't mind saying?
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09 July 2002, 12:28 PM
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Just a quick note that the CSA is changing it's method of calculating how much we have to pay later this year. It will be a flat 15% of your net income per month. This is after tax, NI & pension contributions. An example is someone currently paying £450 will in future pay about £200. This 15% will be for new cases taken out when the new rate is introduced, it was meant to by in April but as usual has been delayed. People on the old system will have their payments re-calculated over a couple of years to bring them down to the 15%.
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07 September 2002, 12:30 PM
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Fantastic, I'll try and fight the bitch off till then! 15% will probably work out less than what I am paying voluntarily, I will just make sure what I save will be spent by me on my son instead of going in her pocket!!!! Nice one for that!
Edited to say:-
Si you are a top bloke for telling me that, just been to the CSA site and read up on it all. Now she has nothing left to blackmail me with and I can print all the info out and show her
Also it says that new applications will be entered under the new scheme anyway so I am finally free of that weight on my mind! Now just need to find a bloody good solicitors firm!
[Edited by ************** - 7/9/2002 12:51:03 PM]
Edited to say:-
Si you are a top bloke for telling me that, just been to the CSA site and read up on it all. Now she has nothing left to blackmail me with and I can print all the info out and show her
Also it says that new applications will be entered under the new scheme anyway so I am finally free of that weight on my mind! Now just need to find a bloody good solicitors firm![Edited by ************** - 7/9/2002 12:51:03 PM]
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