Turbohot

Yes, that's what is generally said about gay relationships. Domestic violence among gay male partners is supposed to be very prominent too; due to intense Jealousy (more intense in comparison with that in heterosexual relationships) and more promiscuity, apparently.

Stephb1986

I'm really against men hitting women. Saying that I did give my now ex a shove and the weekend told him I hate him and also slapped his below area!

I know it was very wrong of me to do that and I have apoliogiesed but I'm now single because of him lying and me acting the way I did

Steph xx

abbott

The way i see it is

Women wanted equal rights for many many years so dont complain when they are delivered !!



(above is meant in joke by the way)
(below is not)





Although personally i have never hit a bird on purpose ,

Well i did punch one square in the face one time years ago but i was attacked from behind and did not realise it was a girl , untill i turned round and thought funk me theres noone there and then looked on the floor and there was this bird i had been arguing with in school earlier in the day !



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Noooooo way dude and to think i was only hanging out the back end of your missus a few night ago !!

jasey

You wont be lonely for long - some guys would pay you to do that

Stephb1986

He doesn't want to be with someone who's violent he's said

I feel as sick as a pig today I've not eaten since saturday because of it all

sarasquares

iTrader: (1)

Sorry to hear about your problems Steph





I might try slapping mine below the belt. I could do with losing some weight

fatherpierre

You've admitted you would attack your partner. Simple.

What if you were wrong and suspected her cheating on you. Would you be able to hold back?

Let's hope the guy she leaves you for is handy and gives you a good battering

All theoretical, of course

urban

iTrader: (1)

What about this.

Take your wife/GF from behind, hit her a slap on the **** and lean over and whisper your sister likes it like this too.

Then see how long you can hold on for


Seriously though - voilence against a woman is wrong.
Certainly restrain if need be etc, but no punches etc.

Shaun

jacrobat

There is no evidence to support such assertions. Indeed, as Stonewall makes clear in the attached, getting evidence of the amount of domestic abuse in a same sex relationship is very difficult.

Stonewall - Welcome to Stonewall

fatherpierre

Apart from lots of battering around the ring

jacrobat

That would depend if you are a gay boxer

EddScott

My experience of gay friends of my mothers was that they were violent towards each other - one in particular.

As for what do I think of the subject I think its terribly wrong for either gender to be violent to a partner.

My GF and I had a couple of really bad years with terrible arguments which in some cases led to either one of us hurting each other. After one particularly bad incident we realised it couldn't go on. We still have arguments which can get quite bad but we no longer "go" for each other like we used to.

Luke

To me its bad enough when you see a GF or Wife cry.... to raise a hand to defend maybe, but to attack is wrong. But that applies to men as well. Attacking is too "legally Dangerous' for me !

New_scooby_04

iTrader: (4)

Ah yes, another advocate of the "Rodeo" position! If you can't hold on, transition to the "Donkey punch" and carry on without further interuption.

People hitting each other is usually just wrong full stop, very rarely does anything get solved/improved with violence - usually a sign of maladaption. Sure, there are occassions when you may be forced to defend yourself, but these are very rare: "he looked at me funny/spilt my pint/looked at my bird/she was nagging me/ they cheated on me are NOT examples of such scenarios. If someone wrongs you, best to not lower yourself to their level and just walk away a wiser person!

Steph: people make mistakes, this one may end up costing you, but at least you had the *****, sorry, ovaries to admit it. Whatever happens you'll learn from it and emege a better person with brighter prospects of a healthy relationship!

Stephb1986

Will he sulk with you for days? and say he doesn't want to be with you because your violent?

sarasquares

iTrader: (1)

I haven't tried it yet so i could be venturing into the unknown. I would rather he would just lock the food cupboards than sulk for days. He could always shut himself in the shed....i could live with that

Turbohot

There was no assertion put as such in 100% positive sense. If any, there was an assertion of what is generally believed. It is something that is supposed or believed to be; on the basis of many people's experiences and observations. Talking about evidence, there is a very little evidence of domestic violence against men in heterosexual relationship in the society, it doesn't mean it doesn't exist or it exists in "next to nothing" quantity in this very society.

Matteeboy

I used to work "on the door" on occasions at a pub I chef'd at.
Fights would sometimes break out between blokes and were almost always pretty easy to break up and sort out. Restrain arm(s), pull apart, sling out, carry on.

However, one nasty fight broke out between two women and it was SO hard to break them up. You have to be very careful where you grab them and they are much more unpredictable - I ended up being scratched to bits!

So if a woman attacked me I'd be a bit stuffed as I would NEVER hit one and would have to just defend myself without laying a single strike. One rather aggro bird I went out with did need firm arm restraining a couple of times. She was a nutter.

spireite

My wife, being unhappy with my mood swings, bought me one of these mood rings so she could monitor my mood.
We discovered that, when I am in a good mood, it turns green and, when I am in a bad mood, it leaves a big ****ing red mark on her forehead.