sorry mate, couldn't resist


'nother thing, whether she did the dirty or not is irrelevant, she buggered off and left you on your own. What a crappy thing to do to your so called "other half".

 

mj has spoken

 

lol, thanks for the replies chaps. serious and not so serious.
In the event I posted the letter. I will see what she says when she reads it. To be fair I have not told you lot the full situation and how she is under a lot of stress from ex boyfriends going strange on her, but that doesnt excuse her behaviour.
The letter contains all she needs to know about my feelings towards her, both good and bad. The rest is down to her and what she really feels about me. I will let her make her decision and respect it whatever it is.
I am the first to admit I am "too nice" towards the ladies in my life, but thats just my nature and I can do nothing about that.
Once again, thanks for the advice chaps, s'all appreciated
astraboy.

 

Good luck mate - do what's best for you above all else

 

Yea i agree,do whats best...all her past boyfriends bit dont sound to good tho!!!Is there no other good lookin women near you that you can lay the chat on??

 

Or, dump her without letting her know. She'll soon work it out.

I wouldn't even bother contacting her again.

That's a distinct lack of respect you've been shown. And, as you said, you already sensed something was wrong.................

Work it out, mate.

 

Simple m8
Arrange to meet in a pub. 5 mins in get up and leave without telling her. then phone the next day and let her know you went home with a female friend and sorry you did'nt have time to tell her.
Oh and make sure she got the first drink in
Alas

 

shes ******** behind your back mate

 

Once they start playing the field (of d1cks), if they know you aren't going to take a firm line then they'll continue or get worse.

(same goes for cheating blokes too, if their other halfs let them get away with it).

With respect, show the b1tch the door, and find one who isn't going to $hit on you.

Iwan (with some experience in this area, unfortunately. B1tch)

 

Ha ha! so true! Men and Women can't just be friends. There is or has been an attraction from one side or the other.

 

Mate,

She's at it, seen it all before, though i did retaliate with a few she's ripping the ****, end it now before it gets too much

Stephen

 

Have a civilised face to face discussion and lay the facts on the line. Then you can make an informed decision.

Les

 

Spot on, almost. Let me introduce you to Ladder theory (possibbly SIAL but WTF )

 

I'm aware of the 'cuddle bitch'