Scooby96

Oh christ where shall I begin! Started seeing a girl from work (nurse!!!) whose ex was a nutter; drive bys at all hours of the night, constant phone calls (20ish) / texts (25ish) / emails (10ish)EVERYDAY!! Cheating bitch was actually still seeing him then gets up the duff and expects me to pay for an abortion. In her own words, "well I never slept with him, we just went out for drinks" and, "I KNOW its yours". Also turns out this is exactly what she was telling the other guy so in the end we go halves!

To be honest I wouldnt have a problem if my new gf said she wanted to see her ex for a drink, chat even after my bad experience. You have to trust whoever you're with unless they've given good cause for you not to.

Sad thing is she's upto exactly the same thing again now with another bloke and her ex - and guess what she's up the duff again, glad to be rid of her!

Don't let previous bad experiences ruin future relationships, there not all the same!!!

Turbohot

Real bad experience you had,Scooby96! Can't understand why some people do that.May be just for the attention from all sides coz they feel so small!
I don't see of exes of my partner but I do respect them for being human.1 or two of them tried to act flirty (again,I don't know why)and of course,i couldn't stand it.My partner used to get extremely wound up about my ex coming to my doorstep to pick the kids.But,now he understands that he could trust me fully.I wouldn't wanna hurt him at all and wouldn't even wanna have a drink for any silly reason on my own with my ex.I know it will wind my present partner up.Why don't people understand that relationships are to make people feel secure,not jealous,threatened,bitter and insecure?

Evo1910

at scooby96.

One of my ex's was a total stalker to me for quite a while! Had to change phone numbers and moved house pretty soon afterwards too (only renting so it wasn't such a big deal). He turned up at my doorstop begging me to go back to him and said he forgave me cheating (i had another bf-we had broken up ffs!) All my neighbours were watching and listening, made a total exhibition of himself and then when i said go home, he made himself vomit on my doorstep

He then decided to go round and visit my grandparents house late at night and made a total nuisance of himself
In the end, my boyfriend at the time and his mate came round and 'removed' him. Gave him a good kicking too.

******* nutter. That is one ex i'd rather forget!!

Edited because i can't spell



[Edited by Evo1910 - 8/13/2003 1:48:36 PM]

Gidney&Knowlesy

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