is a 34 year old girl too old for a 25 year old man/boy? (me)
13 January 2003, 03:26 PM
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she hits 34 tomorrow, and everything is still pointing where it should do, quite impressive really.
Have to say she is stunning, from an unbiased point of view, regardless fo age.
kind girl you trun your head at in the street, but has the girl next door thing going on.
jennifer connoly, sandra bulock, natalie portman, nigella lawson type thing.
shes great!
as I said before, even if I can deal with it, need to get her to see things the same way, and from past conversations I get the impression that might be difficult.
Am not holding out a lot of hope, but am not bothered, at the moment am just glad to know her. Thanks for the opinions.
didnt expect them to be so resoundingly pro.
Have to say she is stunning, from an unbiased point of view, regardless fo age.
kind girl you trun your head at in the street, but has the girl next door thing going on.
jennifer connoly, sandra bulock, natalie portman, nigella lawson type thing.
shes great!
as I said before, even if I can deal with it, need to get her to see things the same way, and from past conversations I get the impression that might be difficult.
Am not holding out a lot of hope, but am not bothered, at the moment am just glad to know her. Thanks for the opinions.
didnt expect them to be so resoundingly pro.
13 January 2003, 03:56 PM
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Yes, but blokes hit their sexual peak at 19
LOLBest of luck Adam.. hope things work out..
13 January 2003, 04:01 PM
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I tend not to bother about age but I do feel that a 29 year old guy and a 19 year old girl might not work.
19 and wants to party, 29 and wanting to settle down!
Just my tuppence worth
AJ
19 and wants to party, 29 and wanting to settle down!
Just my tuppence worth
AJ
13 January 2003, 04:19 PM
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Well its worked for 3 years now
My opinion is that it comes down the type of person. We have a house together and the age difference never been aparent.
Some 19 year old don't want to party all of the time, but then some 29 year olds do
The fact is, it works, we're happy
Oh, and I've done the settling down and getting married thing. Didn't work
[Edited by DJ Dunk - 1/13/2003 4:22:43 PM]
My opinion is that it comes down the type of person. We have a house together and the age difference never been aparent.
Some 19 year old don't want to party all of the time, but then some 29 year olds do
The fact is, it works, we're happy
Oh, and I've done the settling down and getting married thing. Didn't work
[Edited by DJ Dunk - 1/13/2003 4:22:43 PM]
13 January 2003, 04:25 PM
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I'm 29 and my fella is 24. I was worried before we got together cause I was older but it's the best thing either of us have ever done! We don't even notice the age gap most of the time! I know it's not as big gap as you two but it's well worth it if it's gonna make you happy!
13 January 2003, 04:26 PM
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she hits 34 tomorrow, and everything is still pointing where it should do, quite impressive really.
Have to say she is stunning, from an unbiased point of view, regardless fo age.
Have to say she is stunning, from an unbiased point of view, regardless fo age.
13 January 2003, 05:12 PM
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I don't know you, or how many GFs you have had etc, and it all may all seem wonderful now, and I am sure you are very happy......BUT are you a little unlucky with the ladies and maybe a bit desperate?
Right now you are both still youthful, but what about when you are 35 she is 44!! She may start going though "womens problems" while you still have an eye for the ladies.
Take my advice (I talk from experience here) - Have fun, and get rid before she gets too old, get old with someone of a similair age or younger.
Right now you are both still youthful, but what about when you are 35 she is 44!! She may start going though "womens problems" while you still have an eye for the ladies.
Take my advice (I talk from experience here) - Have fun, and get rid before she gets too old, get old with someone of a similair age or younger.
13 January 2003, 05:31 PM
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Mrs Duk is 8 years older than me & we've just got married, on her 40th after five years together. Just go for it
One piece of advice though, keep her away from your mother, they're likely to get on much to well for comfort
One added benefit is the insurance for 'Old Dears' on scoobs is very reasonable, as they are considered low risk
after five years together. Just go for itOne piece of advice though, keep her away from your mother, they're likely to get on much to well for comfort
One added benefit is the insurance for 'Old Dears' on scoobs is very reasonable, as they are considered low risk
13 January 2003, 05:45 PM
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One added benefit is the insurance for 'Old Dears' on scoobs is very reasonable, as they are considered low risk
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13 January 2003, 06:17 PM
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I prefer older women myself!!! They are far better lovers and usually they are more understanding, when it comes to going out with the mates, etc.
I have lived with a 43 year old when I was 19, and she was great. But eventually wore me out I also had a fling with a 18 year old a few months ago, and felt a little uncomfortable with it, being 32 now.
Life is for living, so if it feel right, get on with it
Cheers Phill C
I have lived with a 43 year old when I was 19, and she was great. But eventually wore me out
I also had a fling with a 18 year old a few months ago, and felt a little uncomfortable with it, being 32 now.Life is for living, so if it feel right, get on with it
Cheers Phill C
13 January 2003, 06:20 PM
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Adam,
I find it quite disturbing that you feel you need to get advice from an on-line community, as whether or not to go for this relationship or not??!!
Not that I am casting aspertions, but if she is such a babe why do you need other peoples feedback?
Please don't take this the wrong way, as I would hate for you to get insecure. 
Regards,
Shaun.
I find it quite disturbing that you feel you need to get advice from an on-line community, as whether or not to go for this relationship or not??!!
Not that I am casting aspertions, but if she is such a babe why do you need other peoples feedback?
Please don't take this the wrong way, as I would hate for you to get insecure.
Regards,
Shaun.
13 January 2003, 06:35 PM
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shaun, you are a to55er, nothing you could say would ever upset me so dont worry .
I wasnt looking for go for its or not, just wondered what outsiders would think of a 25 and 34 year old together. I would not have made my decision based on what i have read.
As for past history, have had a few long termers (1 6 years and a few 6 months and another year) been playing around for the first time over the past year and am now realising it isnt for me.
I prefer regular stuff.
with regard to her getting on with my mum it isnt a problem since she has sadly passed away.
My step mum shouldnt be an issue as she is related to this girl and nothing but great things to say about her.
oh and once more for shauns benefit, go **** yourself!
.I wasnt looking for go for its or not, just wondered what outsiders would think of a 25 and 34 year old together. I would not have made my decision based on what i have read.
As for past history, have had a few long termers (1 6 years and a few 6 months and another year) been playing around for the first time over the past year and am now realising it isnt for me.
I prefer regular stuff.
with regard to her getting on with my mum it isnt a problem since she has sadly passed away.
My step mum shouldnt be an issue as she is related to this girl and nothing but great things to say about her.
oh and once more for shauns benefit, go **** yourself!
13 January 2003, 07:06 PM
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Whatever makes you happy. You're only here on earth for one life (unless you believe in reincarnation and even then you risk coming back as an ant ) so live your life instead of worrying about it. If it doesn't work, you gave it a try, and if it does then you'll have a happy life together. Seems worth the shot to me.
You're only here on earth for one life (unless you believe in reincarnation and even then you risk coming back as an ant ) so live your life instead of worrying about it. If it doesn't work, you gave it a try, and if it does then you'll have a happy life together. Seems worth the shot to me.
13 January 2003, 07:33 PM
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Adam,
I have asked Lorraine (Wife) as she is 34. She says she would have no problems going out with a 25 year old.
We are both 34 and don't do anything different now to what we did when we were 25 so I can't see a problem.
Age is all about what sort of things you enjoy doing. If you enjoy doing the same things then there isn't an issue and I can't see the problem.
Lee
I have asked Lorraine (Wife) as she is 34. She says she would have no problems going out with a 25 year old.
We are both 34 and don't do anything different now to what we did when we were 25 so I can't see a problem.
Age is all about what sort of things you enjoy doing. If you enjoy doing the same things then there isn't an issue and I can't see the problem.
Lee
13 January 2003, 08:00 PM
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When a woman reaches 30, her sex drive is off the charts, much more than say a teenage girl. She'll be wanting it all the time..
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13 January 2003, 09:04 PM
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Ha, ha They say guys peak at aged 18......I think someone left my engines running Either that or I'm a girl 