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Old 27 November 2011, 12:36 PM
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Default Gary Speed dead.

Appears to be a suicide. He wa on focus yesterday looking forwards to world cup qualies.

Shocking.
Old 27 November 2011, 12:39 PM
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He was ok on the tv the other day.
Old 27 November 2011, 12:40 PM
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Hung himself.

42yrs old, poor chap.

RIP
Old 27 November 2011, 12:44 PM
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On 27 November 2011, the Welsh Football Association announced that Speed had died.The Daily Telegraph reported that Speed had committed suicide by hanging at his home in Huntington, Cheshire.


Old 27 November 2011, 12:44 PM
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Just Googled it, shocking. God only knows what drives a person who appears so happy to have such a dark side.

RIP.
Old 27 November 2011, 12:47 PM
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Old 27 November 2011, 12:47 PM
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Selfish bugger.

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Old 27 November 2011, 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by davyboy
Selfish bugger.
You are so wrong. If you've ever been in that dark place where your mind simply isn't your own, then you'd understand. It's an absolutely horrible place to be in, for whatever reason some pull through, however, unfortunately, some do not.
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Obviously severe depression at something. Wife, kids, finances or death of someone close to him.
Old 27 November 2011, 12:53 PM
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Old 27 November 2011, 12:55 PM
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I'm not wrong. It is selfish as everyone else has to pick up the pieces.

Imagine what his family are going through.
Old 27 November 2011, 12:55 PM
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Speculation at the moment. Lets remember the man and his achievements in football.

RIP Gary.
Old 27 November 2011, 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by Myles
Speculation at the moment. Lets remember the man and his achievements in football.
Ok that's that done.

Can we get back to speculating now?
Old 27 November 2011, 01:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Alg
Ok that's that done.

Can we get back to speculating now?
Course you can, why don't you start a sweepstake?
Old 27 November 2011, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by davyboy
I'm not wrong. It is selfish as everyone else has to pick up the pieces.

Imagine what his family are going through.

You can't

And, unfortunately, if you are depressed enough to hang yourself, neither can you.

If you've not been there, you can't know, davy, so let it go mate.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:08 PM
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Sex game gone wrong?
Press going to release something damaging?
Wife was leaving him after affair?
Or just simply had enough of life, depression getting the better of him?

Who knows, we probably won't find out the reasons as to why, well not just now anyway.

RIP fella, the footballing world and especially Wales will be deeply saddened.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:09 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
You can't

And, unfortunately, if you are depressed enough to hang yourself, neither can you.

If you've not been there, you can't know, davy, so let it go mate.
Do you know what Alcazar, I am surrounded by family who have all suffered from depression at some time or another, in some cases for years on end. I dont get it, I just dont.
But I don't ever think that it is not a powerful thing, and it can can take you to the edge and beyond, and a lot of the time to your grave.

Strangely, I do think when is it my time to get my first bout, and how would I deal with it? Fingers crossed, never going to happen.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by LEO-RS
Sex game gone wrong?
Press going to release something damaging?
Wife was leaving him after affair?
Or just simply had enough of life, depression getting the better of him?

Who knows, we probably won't find out the reasons as to why, well not just now anyway.

RIP fella, the footballing world and especially Wales will be deeply saddened.
Did you know him personally thus making you feel that you are entitled to parade possible reasons for his depression and which are insulting of the man's character?

If not, what are you trying to prove?

Les
Old 27 November 2011, 01:17 PM
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Putting his reasons for taking his life aside, the guy had a great football career and I remember his time at the toon ..rip
Old 27 November 2011, 01:21 PM
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Originally Posted by SwissTony
Putting his reasons for taking his life aside, the guy had a great football career and I remember his time at the toon ..rip
People like Carlos Tevez could do well to take a leaf out of Speed's book. Never a crossed word with anyone, dedication to his profession, always giving 100% for whoever he played for. A few reasons why he is a legend at every club he has played for. As opposed to Tevez who is regarded as a liability.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Leslie
Did you know him personally thus making you feel that you are entitled to parade possible reasons for his depression and which are insulting of the man's character?

If not, what are you trying to prove?

Les
Les, this is an Internet discussion forum where speculation is rife.

I am not trying to prove anything, just think of something logical that would drive someone to suicide. The most obvious explanation would be severe depression however this was not apparent publically. Getting on great in the Wales manager position, wife, 2 kiddies and assumptions of being financially sound.

It's the Internet, these rumours are already rife on Facebook and the likes. I guess it's just how people react into making sense of things.

None of our business of course but then neither is 90% of the stuff we read in the media.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:28 PM
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RIP, I always feel sorry for people who have no other route in their life but to end it all with suicide, it is such a waste when really in this day and age help should be available for people to use to get them through whatever misery is causing them to feel that way.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:31 PM
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Originally Posted by PaulC72
RIP, I always feel sorry for people who have no other route in their life but to end it all with suicide, it is such a waste when really in this day and age help should be available for people to use to get them through whatever misery is causing them to feel that way.
I can only imagine that the feeling of desperation is so smothering that you feel no matter what you do, it'll never get better.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:32 PM
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Originally Posted by SwissTony
Putting his reasons for taking his life aside, the guy had a great football career and I remember his time at the toon ..rip
Me too mate. I was only 15 when he joined Newcastle! I have a load of my old Newcastle shirts still in my cupboard, they either have 9 and Shearer on the back or 11 and Speed! A true legend for both club and country.


R.I.P Gary Speed
Old 27 November 2011, 01:40 PM
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Originally Posted by PaulC72
RIP, I always feel sorry for people who have no other route in their life but to end it all with suicide, it is such a waste when really in this day and age help should be available for people to use to get them through whatever misery is causing them to feel that way.
There is help available, in my experience it is pretty useless, but you have to want to help yourself and that is the main thing
Old 27 November 2011, 01:49 PM
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the news has made me feel num,. lets all respect the man and leave speculation to the press, RIP GARY SPEED.
Old 27 November 2011, 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by alcazar
You can't

And, unfortunately, if you are depressed enough to hang yourself, neither can you.

If you've not been there, you can't know, davy, so let it go mate.
Seconded, it all seems so black and white to some people, but it isn't... not by a long chalk!

RIP
Old 27 November 2011, 01:52 PM
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I remember watching Gary Speed playing at Home Park (Plymouth Argyle Nil's ground) in the old Second Division; bright, sunny day, full-house, The Greens chasing a play-off place with Leeds 5 or 6 points clear at the top! From memory Gordon Strachan and Vinny Jones were in the side and wearing the coolest Top Man sponsored Umbro shirts. I clearly remember the superb Leeds fans, who'd packed the Barn Park terracing, chanting Gary Speed's name and him applauding them, his long bob flopping around as he ran out on to the pitch - he must have been in his late teens, maybe twenty. My mate and I (we were 13 or 14) looked on in admiration - he played a blinder in a cracking score draw...

What a tragic exit.

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Old 27 November 2011, 02:05 PM
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Very Sad......R.I.P.......
Old 27 November 2011, 02:06 PM
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Wonder if anyone tops themselves just as they find life a pain in the ****, not depressed or even unhappy, just been there, done it and now finds it a bit of a bind ?


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