Anyone ever said F*ck it, and left a job.
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Anyone ever said F*ck it, and left a job.
I've been made redundant, but have to work my 14 weeks notice. As i totally hate the job, half of me says s0d it, and just leave (with my redundancy of course).
I've suddenly lost my motivation. 13 of us are going, and "sickies" have increased ten fold.
Stay or go?
I've suddenly lost my motivation. 13 of us are going, and "sickies" have increased ten fold.
Stay or go?
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I've stupidly done it twice now. First time I was being pushed and walked out during a meeting and never spoke to the company again. Second time I came back from a week off and after a few hours on my first day back I was speaking to an ignorant pakistani person who was lying to me and I just couldn't do it anymore so I just put my headset down and left.
I recommend everyone try it someday it is one of the few times I've every felt totally in control within a work situation.
I recommend everyone try it someday it is one of the few times I've every felt totally in control within a work situation.
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My contract gives me one weeks notice for every year worked, hence 14 weeks.
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I'm not arguing with you I'm just trying to give you advice.
My other half is a HR bod, she is UK HR Director for a large PLC and has her CIPDso not just a run of the mill HR advisor .
May I suggest, you double check things before you screw yourself over At a bare minimum get something in writing before you walk!
My other half is a HR bod, she is UK HR Director for a large PLC and has her CIPDso not just a run of the mill HR advisor .
May I suggest, you double check things before you screw yourself over At a bare minimum get something in writing before you walk!
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I'm not arguing with you I'm just trying to give you advice.
My other half is a HR bod, she is UK HR Director for a large PLC and has her CIPDso not just a run of the mill HR advisor .
May I suggest, you double check things before you screw yourself over At a bare minimum get something in writing before you walk!
My other half is a HR bod, she is UK HR Director for a large PLC and has her CIPDso not just a run of the mill HR advisor .
May I suggest, you double check things before you screw yourself over At a bare minimum get something in writing before you walk!
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closest thing i have done to just saying **** it was when i was about 17, working at woolworths during college. I wanted to go off to the states to go travelling, but my boss wouldn't give me leave. so I kept my mouth shut about it, and on the day i was heading to the airport to go off to the states, i dropped a letter through the front door of the store, requesting a sabbatical....
no surprise, it wasn't granted!! however, because they couldn't fire me on the spot, they had to send me 3 written warnings, one a month, which resulted in 3 months pay before i finally got fired...
didnt bother me too much, my boss was a proper bitch, and i was glad to hear she lost her job when the company went bust (apologies to anyone else who may have lost their job too)
no surprise, it wasn't granted!! however, because they couldn't fire me on the spot, they had to send me 3 written warnings, one a month, which resulted in 3 months pay before i finally got fired...
didnt bother me too much, my boss was a proper bitch, and i was glad to hear she lost her job when the company went bust (apologies to anyone else who may have lost their job too)
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Years ago i was an apprentice HGV mechani with Volvo, my dad & my boss were friends & i had just turned 18 & was messing about with a few girls anyway i had been late a few times & my boss "sacked" me .... so i was offered a job in the local milk factory screwing on bottle tops ........ i lasted 90 mins & to this day ... traffic permitting i havent been late since.
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Not that this is of any help, but I think long notice periods take the ****, even more when somebody is being made redundant.
I mean the poor bloke is effectively being held back from potential new jobs, even though they are 'happy' to let him go. Maybe I am looking at this purely from an employee pov, but if someone is being let go, they'll most likely need to get into work asap. If a company demands 14 weeks, how many jobs could they miss out on?
Obviously I can only look at this personally, but unless the guy did very specialised work (in demand) or was brilliant at what he did, how many prospective employers are willing to wait over 3 months to fill a role?
Tbh, I can understand long notice periods when a person is choosing to leave a job, as a reasonable length of thime to fill the role is required. However, I don't think it is so fair to demand that same period when you-the company is putting someone out of work.
OP, I would find out for sure if you can give them a counter offer to still entitle you to the redundancy money, and if so, walk. If that isn't possible, then you'll have to either stick it out, or lose the payout (if you can afford to/have another job to walk into)
Good luck whatever you do.
I mean the poor bloke is effectively being held back from potential new jobs, even though they are 'happy' to let him go. Maybe I am looking at this purely from an employee pov, but if someone is being let go, they'll most likely need to get into work asap. If a company demands 14 weeks, how many jobs could they miss out on?
Obviously I can only look at this personally, but unless the guy did very specialised work (in demand) or was brilliant at what he did, how many prospective employers are willing to wait over 3 months to fill a role?
Tbh, I can understand long notice periods when a person is choosing to leave a job, as a reasonable length of thime to fill the role is required. However, I don't think it is so fair to demand that same period when you-the company is putting someone out of work.
OP, I would find out for sure if you can give them a counter offer to still entitle you to the redundancy money, and if so, walk. If that isn't possible, then you'll have to either stick it out, or lose the payout (if you can afford to/have another job to walk into)
Good luck whatever you do.
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In the real world with a house and kids to finance who can really do this, and what kind of man walks out on a job without one to goto?....surely in doing it your putting your family at risk.....
unless your a (not you personally, this is a generalisation) scum bag who is confident he wont lose his home coz the council house you live in will be covered by the rest of us "real peoples" taxes, or you confident in your ability to sponge of the state in another way how can you leave an income without another one to pay your bills?
Seems mental to me, and beyond belief. You took the job, ok you hate it but you stayed there happy to draw a wage then walk out before the jobs done?!..stick it out, surely you will feel better in the long run.
unless your a (not you personally, this is a generalisation) scum bag who is confident he wont lose his home coz the council house you live in will be covered by the rest of us "real peoples" taxes, or you confident in your ability to sponge of the state in another way how can you leave an income without another one to pay your bills?
Seems mental to me, and beyond belief. You took the job, ok you hate it but you stayed there happy to draw a wage then walk out before the jobs done?!..stick it out, surely you will feel better in the long run.
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Get your doctor to sign you off with stress. Obviously the stress of being made redundant, they will have to pay your sick pay for the last fourteen weeks and you can use the time to look for a new job.
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Not that this is of any help, but I think long notice periods take the ****, even more when somebody is being made redundant.
I mean the poor bloke is effectively being held back from potential new jobs, even though they are 'happy' to let him go. Maybe I am looking at this purely from an employee pov, but if someone is being let go, they'll most likely need to get into work asap. If a company demands 14 weeks, how many jobs could they miss out on?
Obviously I can only look at this personally, but unless the guy did very specialised work (in demand) or was brilliant at what he did, how many prospective employers are willing to wait over 3 months to fill a role?
Tbh, I can understand long notice periods when a person is choosing to leave a job, as a reasonable length of thime to fill the role is required. However, I don't think it is so fair to demand that same period when you-the company is putting someone out of work.
OP, I would find out for sure if you can give them a counter offer to still entitle you to the redundancy money, and if so, walk. If that isn't possible, then you'll have to either stick it out, or lose the payout (if you can afford to/have another job to walk into)
Good luck whatever you do.
I mean the poor bloke is effectively being held back from potential new jobs, even though they are 'happy' to let him go. Maybe I am looking at this purely from an employee pov, but if someone is being let go, they'll most likely need to get into work asap. If a company demands 14 weeks, how many jobs could they miss out on?
Obviously I can only look at this personally, but unless the guy did very specialised work (in demand) or was brilliant at what he did, how many prospective employers are willing to wait over 3 months to fill a role?
Tbh, I can understand long notice periods when a person is choosing to leave a job, as a reasonable length of thime to fill the role is required. However, I don't think it is so fair to demand that same period when you-the company is putting someone out of work.
OP, I would find out for sure if you can give them a counter offer to still entitle you to the redundancy money, and if so, walk. If that isn't possible, then you'll have to either stick it out, or lose the payout (if you can afford to/have another job to walk into)
Good luck whatever you do.
Companies tend to give good refs for redundancies .. and in a lot of cases they grant garden leave for the notice, well they do in places you can cause problems
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Doesn't matter how **** you think the job is - never burn your bridges, and always go out with your reputation intact.
Even if you never work for that firm again, you never know how your path might cross with people who've worked there, and they could be a position to affect your career in future.
Even if you never work for that firm again, you never know how your path might cross with people who've worked there, and they could be a position to affect your career in future.
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Doesn't matter how **** you think the job is - never burn your bridges, and always go out with your reputation intact.
Even if you never work for that firm again, you never know how your path might cross with people who've worked there, and they could be a position to affect your career in future.
Even if you never work for that firm again, you never know how your path might cross with people who've worked there, and they could be a position to affect your career in future.
Although for the last 6 months I really did not want to be there I just kept my head down , got on with my job and kepy my nose clean.
Now after 2 months away from work they have asked me to go back on a part time basis.
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I've stupidly done it twice now. First time I was being pushed and walked out during a meeting and never spoke to the company again. Second time I came back from a week off and after a few hours on my first day back I was speaking to an ignorant pakistani person who was lying to me and I just couldn't do it anymore so I just put my headset down and left.
I recommend everyone try it someday it is one of the few times I've every felt totally in control within a work situation.
I recommend everyone try it someday it is one of the few times I've every felt totally in control within a work situation.
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Whatever way you choose leave the job in an amicable way,don't just walk out and not go back...
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I've stupidly done it twice now. First time I was being pushed and walked out during a meeting and never spoke to the company again. Second time I came back from a week off and after a few hours on my first day back I was speaking to an ignorant pakistani person who was lying to me and I just couldn't do it anymore so I just put my headset down and left.
I recommend everyone try it someday it is one of the few times I've every felt totally in control within a work situation.
I recommend everyone try it someday it is one of the few times I've every felt totally in control within a work situation.
Or do you mean it gave you a Hardon and you felt in control..
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Yes, I have walked out of the job by saying to myself "**** it." I was on the job for about a month, and it p!ssed me off. So, there was no redundancy money for me to take home. No organisation is perfect out there, but I couldn't stand that employer's blatant disrespect to work ethics, sexist attitude, indecent proposals, gutter level innuendos, office bitching and slave-drivery of junior staff. I decided that they didn't deserve me Fortunately, I was in a position to take it or leave it. This experience has taught me to select and recruit my employers carefully. This experience doesn't make me into some non-adjusting, non-flexible employee either. I can put up with a lot of ****, but they were far too much to bear. A lot of time, people have to bite their tongue, and continue with the job. Tolerance is a good competency.
In OP's case, I suggest you stick around, if no one is treating you badly. It is very understandable that people's morale will be rock-bottom in such situation, where there livelihood is under a realistic threat. By performing as normal as possible, you would have good chance of getting a reasonable reference from them. All new empoyers want reference from your most recent employer these days. "Sickie" and other demotivational steps are a bit destructive for such chances. If you find it extremely difficult to perform there any longer, you may as well leave, if they are letting you take your redundancy money nevertheless.
Keep your chin up, and continue to apply for other jobs. There are jobs out there in this recession.
In OP's case, I suggest you stick around, if no one is treating you badly. It is very understandable that people's morale will be rock-bottom in such situation, where there livelihood is under a realistic threat. By performing as normal as possible, you would have good chance of getting a reasonable reference from them. All new empoyers want reference from your most recent employer these days. "Sickie" and other demotivational steps are a bit destructive for such chances. If you find it extremely difficult to perform there any longer, you may as well leave, if they are letting you take your redundancy money nevertheless.
Keep your chin up, and continue to apply for other jobs. There are jobs out there in this recession.
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I walked out of a lecturing job once, after being promised X, Y & Z, I was still on a term-by-term contract, so I never knew if I had a job (although this was pretty much an unspoken guaranteed job)..... no such thing as redundancy pay etc.
I got offered a Full-time position that involved a relocation (back with commuting distance from my parents).
So I waited to see if my contract would be renewed (it NEVER used to be until about 6 weeks into the next term, causing pay issues)...... slowly cleaned out my desk whilst on evening duties.
The last day, I did my last class, told them I was leaving (one kid actually asked if I was leaving due to his delinquent approach to college which of course, wasn't the case - felt really bad about that tbh) and walked over to my boss's office. Told him that as my contract hasn't been renewed in any way, shape or form, I wouldn't be in on Monday.
The look on his face was priceless, as he realised the consequences of his inaction. (I'd been asking for months - with several broken promises in the meantime)
The laugh was that by the time I'd walked back to my office (about 2 mins), loads of staff were outside asking if it was true (jungle drums eh? )
I left the place head held high, knowing that I'd done the right thing.....
So, to answer your question, kind of. Still very daunting when you've got commitments to meet each month.
I got offered a Full-time position that involved a relocation (back with commuting distance from my parents).
So I waited to see if my contract would be renewed (it NEVER used to be until about 6 weeks into the next term, causing pay issues)...... slowly cleaned out my desk whilst on evening duties.
The last day, I did my last class, told them I was leaving (one kid actually asked if I was leaving due to his delinquent approach to college which of course, wasn't the case - felt really bad about that tbh) and walked over to my boss's office. Told him that as my contract hasn't been renewed in any way, shape or form, I wouldn't be in on Monday.
The look on his face was priceless, as he realised the consequences of his inaction. (I'd been asking for months - with several broken promises in the meantime)
The laugh was that by the time I'd walked back to my office (about 2 mins), loads of staff were outside asking if it was true (jungle drums eh? )
I left the place head held high, knowing that I'd done the right thing.....
So, to answer your question, kind of. Still very daunting when you've got commitments to meet each month.
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I have walked out on various jobs, but I made sure I had nothing to lose by doing so.
Even though I may have walked out on the company I made sure I would have personal references. These days however, references just confirm your start and finish dates, plus job title. Not much more.
Do you HAVE to work the 14 weeks? Tell them to stuff it. Although there is good advice on here from people, don't worry about burning your bridges, move on. Why would you look back?
Reputation? make sure you were the one who told them to stuff it and that that everyone knows. That was my reputation - I wouldn't be ****** about with.
In 2003 was made redundant by Currys, well actually put on Garden Leave for 3 months, but had it confirmed to me that my job would be going. I was asked to stay on for a few weeks to help out. Told the Director to stuff it and that I was going straight away. There was no argument from him.
Hadn't even worked there two years, but left with 3 months fully paid GL, 2 months redundancy, plus one months notice. Worked out very nicely as the GL put me over the 2 year threshold for redundancy payments. Got my sharesave and pension contributions back also as lump sums, took the rest of the year off and did my house up. Sorted.
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Even though I may have walked out on the company I made sure I would have personal references. These days however, references just confirm your start and finish dates, plus job title. Not much more.
Do you HAVE to work the 14 weeks? Tell them to stuff it. Although there is good advice on here from people, don't worry about burning your bridges, move on. Why would you look back?
Reputation? make sure you were the one who told them to stuff it and that that everyone knows. That was my reputation - I wouldn't be ****** about with.
In 2003 was made redundant by Currys, well actually put on Garden Leave for 3 months, but had it confirmed to me that my job would be going. I was asked to stay on for a few weeks to help out. Told the Director to stuff it and that I was going straight away. There was no argument from him.
Hadn't even worked there two years, but left with 3 months fully paid GL, 2 months redundancy, plus one months notice. Worked out very nicely as the GL put me over the 2 year threshold for redundancy payments. Got my sharesave and pension contributions back also as lump sums, took the rest of the year off and did my house up. Sorted.
Asif
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Only did it once with a part time job when i was 17 so it had no real effect on me.
Echo what the others say about working till the end, i always have done since because you never know, look at me, i left a well paid job to go self employed and run my own gaff, after 6 years i decided that it was not worth doing anymore, so i contacted my own employers and asked for my old job back (which i got)
Now if you asked me 6 years ago if i thought i would be back at the same company i would have laughed in your face but i put in 100% right until the very last 5 mins of the final shift (then i cleared my locker)
Echo what the others say about working till the end, i always have done since because you never know, look at me, i left a well paid job to go self employed and run my own gaff, after 6 years i decided that it was not worth doing anymore, so i contacted my own employers and asked for my old job back (which i got)
Now if you asked me 6 years ago if i thought i would be back at the same company i would have laughed in your face but i put in 100% right until the very last 5 mins of the final shift (then i cleared my locker)
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I have walked out on various jobs, but I made sure I had nothing to lose by doing so.
Even though I may have walked out on the company I made sure I would have personal references. These days however, references just confirm your start and finish dates, plus job title. Not much more.
Do you HAVE to work the 14 weeks? Tell them to stuff it. Although there is good advice on here from people, don't worry about burning your bridges, move on. Why would you look back?
Reputation? make sure you were the one who told them to stuff it and that that everyone knows. That was my reputation - I wouldn't be ****** about with.
In 2003 was made redundant by Currys, well actually put on Garden Leave for 3 months, but had it confirmed to me that my job would be going. I was asked to stay on for a few weeks to help out. Told the Director to stuff it and that I was going straight away. There was no argument from him.
Hadn't even worked there two years, but left with 3 months fully paid GL, 2 months redundancy, plus one months notice. Worked out very nicely as the GL put me over the 2 year threshold for redundancy payments. Got my sharesave and pension contributions back also as lump sums, took the rest of the year off and did my house up. Sorted.
Asif
Even though I may have walked out on the company I made sure I would have personal references. These days however, references just confirm your start and finish dates, plus job title. Not much more.
Do you HAVE to work the 14 weeks? Tell them to stuff it. Although there is good advice on here from people, don't worry about burning your bridges, move on. Why would you look back?
Reputation? make sure you were the one who told them to stuff it and that that everyone knows. That was my reputation - I wouldn't be ****** about with.
In 2003 was made redundant by Currys, well actually put on Garden Leave for 3 months, but had it confirmed to me that my job would be going. I was asked to stay on for a few weeks to help out. Told the Director to stuff it and that I was going straight away. There was no argument from him.
Hadn't even worked there two years, but left with 3 months fully paid GL, 2 months redundancy, plus one months notice. Worked out very nicely as the GL put me over the 2 year threshold for redundancy payments. Got my sharesave and pension contributions back also as lump sums, took the rest of the year off and did my house up. Sorted.
Asif
If your working attitude was a little better than they may have found some work for you.