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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:16 PM
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after a long battle with cancer she has given up im gutted
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:19 PM
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Sorry to hear it Nick. At least though you're in your 40s so not lost her young before she became a grandma

Remember the good times and never dwell on the bad!

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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:21 PM
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Really sorry to hear that, there's no bond stronger.... some battles just aren't winnable against it, it's a wicked and cruel thief of life

Condolences DCI
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:22 PM
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Sorry to hear that mate
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:22 PM
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celebrate the good times and be strong she will always be watching over you

RIP your mum

chin up fella
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:27 PM
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sorry for you're loss mate.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:31 PM
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very sorry for your loss.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:34 PM
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Just realised who this is, you changed you're name. me too Gutted for you mate.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:40 PM
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thanx for the comments im struggling
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:44 PM
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Originally Posted by nick172sport
thanx for the comments im struggling
You will do fella, get yourself a beer... sit back and let the shock and tidal-wave of raw emotion sweep straight through you, no point fighting it. It'll keep hurting and you'll keep falling apart for a while, just make sure you talk to your family and friends while its all going on, regardless of how numb you feel.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:46 PM
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Sorry to hear of your loss. RIP your Mum.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 05:47 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss Nick. Losing a parent is one of the hardest things someone has to deal with in their life. At least your Mum longer in any pain and in time you will come to remember and cherish the good times you spent together.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:14 PM
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Sorry to hear this. May your mum rest in peace without any pain.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:15 PM
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Originally Posted by nick172sport
thanx for the comments im struggling
You're doing the right thing by looking for support matie.

My dad died three years ago and the support I received from family & friends helped me get through. And still helps now.

Thoughts are with you fella
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:22 PM
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Sorry to hear about your loss Nick. I lost my mum to cancer years ago. I was knocked off balance for a long long time but the pain will gradually get replaced with warm memories of a lovely mum.

Sorry again fella - Don't bottle it up - let yourself grieve.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by nick172sport
after a long battle with cancer she has given up im gutted
Sorry to hear that Nick
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:24 PM
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I'm so sorry, Nick.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:27 PM
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She has not 'given up' as you state she has lost the battle to a stronger force. Don't ever think of it as giving up.

Don't try and deal with it on your own, your friends may not know what to say but will be there for you. Use them.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:39 PM
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Sorry to hear that Nick, my condolences to you & your family.


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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:40 PM
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thanks for the comments im up and down one miute crying the next alright fookin crap life this had enough
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:49 PM
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So sad, chin up and remember the good times x
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:51 PM
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sorry to hear your news nick.. thoughts are with you.. keep strong for those around you and your self
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:54 PM
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Sorry to hear this Nick, my condolences
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:54 PM
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Condolence 's bud
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 06:58 PM
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I went through the exact same thing about 4 years ago but it`s true what they say......time is a great healer. Obviously you`ll never forget, but it`ll get easier pal. My condolences

Ps. probably best if you make yourself busy on Sunday and be with people.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 07:24 PM
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Oh i am qo sorry to hear this Nick, my thoughts and best wishes to you and yours.

PM me if you want to talk any time. FWIW I lost my dad to cancer.

ATB,
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 07:27 PM
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So sorry to hear Nick. My thoughts are with you and the family mate.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 07:34 PM
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Condolences to you and your family.
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Old Mar 30, 2011 | 07:34 PM
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So sorry to hear of your loss Nick. As someone said earlier, ride out the storm, you are strong enough to come out the other side. It is what your mum would have wanted.

RIP.
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