View Poll Results: Would you stay with a person if they said they loved you 50%
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4.92%
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33
54.10%
Run like hell
11
18.03%
no idea
14
22.95%
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28 July 2009, 06:41 PM
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Would you stay with a person who said they loved you 50%?
I have been with the same person for 16 years and she cheated on me that is the answer ...
I have been with the same person for 16 years and she cheated on me that is the answer ...
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28 July 2009, 06:43 PM
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It wouldn't bother me.
Love does not exist in any %. It's a made up emotion people say they feel or convince themselves that they really do feel.
Same as all emotions, we learn them by what we get brought upto believe/fit in with in our lives. They are all nonsense.
Love does not exist in any %. It's a made up emotion people say they feel or convince themselves that they really do feel.
Same as all emotions, we learn them by what we get brought upto believe/fit in with in our lives. They are all nonsense.
28 July 2009, 07:00 PM
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Hate to say it, but Nat is right on this one.
If she's cheated on you surely that gives you carte blanche to whatever the hell you like - make the most of it !
If she's cheated on you surely that gives you carte blanche to whatever the hell you like - make the most of it !
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28 July 2009, 07:58 PM
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Depends on:
a) how fit she is
b) how good in bed she is
c) whether she cheated with a bloke or a bird. If a bird, then can you join in depending on a) how fit she is, how good in bed she is etc etc.....
But f11ck something else anyway with the other half of your available love - and make sure she knows.
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a) how fit she is
b) how good in bed she is
c) whether she cheated with a bloke or a bird. If a bird, then can you join in depending on a) how fit she is, how good in bed she is etc etc.....
But f11ck something else anyway with the other half of your available love - and make sure she knows.
Gordo
28 July 2009, 09:01 PM
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Only you know the details and only you can decide I suppose. It's impossible for anyone to know what goes on between two people in a relationship, and it's even less likely for someone on the internet to know your situation and the ins and outs etc.
28 July 2009, 09:07 PM
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She's a cow. Simple as !
Been there, done that & worn the t-shirt. Fortunatly the t-shirt has been in the bin for a while.
With there being kids involved it always makes it harder, but you have decide whats best for you.
Been there, done that & worn the t-shirt. Fortunatly the t-shirt has been in the bin for a while.
With there being kids involved it always makes it harder, but you have decide whats best for you.
you know who you are scumbag!
28 July 2009, 09:11 PM
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You're misses cheated on you with someone from here?? that's ****ed up !
As for the OP .. no, I'm sorry kids or not, I wouldn't stay with a women who had cheated .. it would play on my mind over and over ... maybe I'm just not man enough to be treated like a bitch
28 July 2009, 09:36 PM
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Its often easy for people to say they would f*ck someone off for cheating on them however in practice they may not. 
I dunno. Hear her out, is she sorry e.t.c? If she only loves you 50% then that aint really good enough. You can't stay with someone for the kids sake, it's got to be something you both want or whats the bleddy point. Hope it pans out for you have a beer
or ten.
I dunno. Hear her out, is she sorry e.t.c? If she only loves you 50% then that aint really good enough. You can't stay with someone for the kids sake, it's got to be something you both want or whats the bleddy point. Hope it pans out for you have a beer
or ten.
28 July 2009, 09:44 PM
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I guess it depends on exactly what has been going on in your relationship, how it got to this point, and if you both think it's worth working through. Only you guys know that.
People often easily walk away from relationships nowadays when the going gets tough, or a bit of effort needs put in. Think carefully whether you can work past what she has done/any problems you may have been having. imo.
Whether she is genuinely sorry, and whether she also wants to save this relationship is important too. Unless she is a complete cow, there may have been underlying issues leading to this. Not in any way saying they're your fault, but at times affairs etc. can just be a symptom/consequence of a bigger problem.
People often easily walk away from relationships nowadays when the going gets tough, or a bit of effort needs put in. Think carefully whether you can work past what she has done/any problems you may have been having. imo.
Whether she is genuinely sorry, and whether she also wants to save this relationship is important too. Unless she is a complete cow, there may have been underlying issues leading to this. Not in any way saying they're your fault, but at times affairs etc. can just be a symptom/consequence of a bigger problem.
28 July 2009, 10:05 PM
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sorry. 50% is not love, that is fondness and comfort. 100% is butterflies in the stomach, but after a few years, theres no butterflies anymore anyway, unless you both put them back there, and that can be done...most people need the butterfly feeling.
28 July 2009, 10:31 PM
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I guess it depends on exactly what has been going on in your relationship, how it got to this point, and if you both think it's worth working through. Only you guys know that.
People often easily walk away from relationships nowadays when the going gets tough, or a bit of effort needs put in. Think carefully whether you can work past what she has done/any problems you may have been having. imo.
Whether she is genuinely sorry, and whether she also wants to save this relationship is important too. Unless she is a complete cow, there may have been underlying issues leading to this. Not in any way saying they're your fault, but at times affairs etc. can just be a symptom/consequence of a bigger problem.
People often easily walk away from relationships nowadays when the going gets tough, or a bit of effort needs put in. Think carefully whether you can work past what she has done/any problems you may have been having. imo.
Whether she is genuinely sorry, and whether she also wants to save this relationship is important too. Unless she is a complete cow, there may have been underlying issues leading to this. Not in any way saying they're your fault, but at times affairs etc. can just be a symptom/consequence of a bigger problem.
One thing i know the person who cares the least in the relationship,has more control over it..Aint got a clue why i have quoted you btw
