'Hef isn't all that. The (currently 7 I believe) blondes who live at the mansion are on a payroll ($1000/wk), plus they each get use of a company car, medical and dental insurance, make-up artists and personal stylists for the nights when he takes the girls out. In return, they live like virtual slaves. If he wants to have dinner at 7 pm, then they have to be back at the mansion and dressed for dinner by 7 pm or they are locked out for the night. He has to approve of their outfits before they go out as well. They watch what he wants to watch - even if it's **** that makes then feel uncomfortable, eat what he wants to eat, go to bed when he wants to go to bed. Competition between the girls is cut-throat. Shampoo being replaced by Nair, clothes be shredded, nasty rumors spread, etc. It's like the pin-up girl version of Survivor. Most don't last too long under that sort of pressure because it's like living in a war zone. Hef pretends to be sympathetic, but it doesn't take a shrink to figure out he gets off on these young women fighting over "him". None of the girls are allowed to have any sort of **** or S/M background. Posing for pics is OK, but he looks down on women who **** for money. He doesn't see the hypocrisy of his living situation. He only ****s 3 of "his" girls - the rest are expected to put on shows for him every night, whether they are attracted to each other or not. He pops Viagra like he owns stock in the company.'