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Old 09 February 2007, 06:23 PM
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Asking cos I lent a so called friend money totalling £740. Now this has happened last year. I gave her grace when she was made redundant, but I have just found out that she was living with a friend who has thrown her out for not paying rent. He is now got her in a situation where if she doesn't pay him she gets arrested.

Now unfortuantly it looks like none of the records I kept have survived the forum crash and system rebuild so can't prove that I leant her the cash.

So do I put the frighteners on her and threaten court action, or write it off as experiance albeit an expensive 1.
Old 09 February 2007, 08:10 PM
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write it off mate, not worth the hassle and not worth the friendship either if this is the way she repays her debt to you without consultation or sexual favours
Old 09 February 2007, 08:11 PM
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Don't worry, friendships dead, I just want the cash.

And shes a raving dyke.
Old 09 February 2007, 08:15 PM
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I lost 500 a couple of years ago after I lent my ex the cah for a holiday, I gave up and put it down to experience.














and she did let me kick her back doors in when we were together
Old 09 February 2007, 08:23 PM
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I lent a "mate" £3K over a year ago to get a new flat / Christmas / etc. I then moved and changed jobs, so we didn't see each other any more. All my texts & calls went ignored until I threatened small claims court, then surprisingly I got a call back. I've given him until the end of March, then proceedings will be issued.

It's easy to do, you can do it all on line.

Info here HM Courts or Make Claim, Claims for Debt, Debts in Small Claims Court
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i still say write it off, BUT try to CONVERT her though first, show her the power of a good solid, hard, rampant testosterone laden c@(k so she see's the error of her l*sbian ways, or at least get her to let you watch and join in with her lastest conquest, worth loads is that last one
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Threaten with court. Although, she is clearly having a hard time if she cant pay the rent she needs to.
Old 09 February 2007, 08:42 PM
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God no smiff!!!! 2 bags and a barrel of whiskey wouldn't be enough, shes a munter.
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Old 09 February 2007, 08:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Multijfj
Threaten with court. Although, she is clearly having a hard time if she cant pay the rent she needs to.
Whats annoying me is she took a loan out with "the intent" of consolidating debt, and frittered it.
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its your fault then, wtf are you doing by being mates with a fugly lesbo and then lending her cash
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You've acted like a real pork-chop and it's your own fault. Learn you lessons and move on.

Don't lend money to friends.
Especially don't lend money to ugly girls where there is not even the desire to sleep with her.
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