Proud of your daughter, but where is the parenting??
12 May 2006, 09:13 AM
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Proud of your daughter, but where is the parenting??
Reported on Radio 1, but here is a website reference: http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2-2006210699,00.html
Chain smoking 11 year old girl, gets drunk and has a one night stand with a 15 year old boy. At 12 years old she is about to give birth.
It's ok because she has lots of experience looking after her 8 month old brother!
Comment on radio, that the mother of the girl is proud of her as she has decided to keep the baby!
Chain smoking 11 year old girl, gets drunk and has a one night stand with a 15 year old boy. At 12 years old she is about to give birth.
It's ok because she has lots of experience looking after her 8 month old brother!
Comment on radio, that the mother of the girl is proud of her as she has decided to keep the baby!
12 May 2006, 09:16 AM
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The girl, who is in only her first year of secondary school, lives in a council flat and began smoking when she was nine.
She still puffs up to 20 ciggies a day, despite being eight months pregnant.
Yesterday she told how she took up drinking at just ten — sometimes downing a potent cocktail of Buckfast and vodka on nights out.
She still puffs up to 20 ciggies a day, despite being eight months pregnant.
Yesterday she told how she took up drinking at just ten — sometimes downing a potent cocktail of Buckfast and vodka on nights out.
12 May 2006, 09:20 AM
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She started smokinhg at nine, drinking at ten and ******* at 11.
What sort of parents does she have!went on a drunken night out in Edinborough at the age of 11 FFS!
It is disgusting, the father of her child should be arrested for child abuse for a start.
Apparently she smoked all the way through her pregnancy as well as she said it would not hurt the child - oh so worldy wise at 12 years.
The whole episode just saddens me, god help her new born child with parents and grand parents like these!
What sort of parents does she have!went on a drunken night out in Edinborough at the age of 11 FFS!
It is disgusting, the father of her child should be arrested for child abuse for a start.
Apparently she smoked all the way through her pregnancy as well as she said it would not hurt the child - oh so worldy wise at 12 years.
The whole episode just saddens me, god help her new born child with parents and grand parents like these!
12 May 2006, 09:21 AM
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It really is time to sort the welfare state out to discourage this kind of thing. IIRC the US tried it, something like a max of 2 years payout rather than it just carrying on for life, and all of a sudden teenage pregnancy rates dropped like a stone.
12 May 2006, 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Paul Habgood
She started smokinhg at nine, drinking at ten and ******* at 11.
What sort of parents does she have!went on a drunken night out in Edinborough at the age of 11 FFS!
It is disgusting, the father of her child should be arrested for child abuse for a start.
Apparently she smoked all the way through her pregnancy as well as she said it would not hurt the child - oh so worldy wise at 12 years.
The whole episode just saddens me, god help her new born child with parents and grand parents like these!
What sort of parents does she have!went on a drunken night out in Edinborough at the age of 11 FFS!
It is disgusting, the father of her child should be arrested for child abuse for a start.
Apparently she smoked all the way through her pregnancy as well as she said it would not hurt the child - oh so worldy wise at 12 years.
The whole episode just saddens me, god help her new born child with parents and grand parents like these!
12 May 2006, 09:24 AM
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Originally Posted by Paul Habgood
She started smokinhg at nine, drinking at ten and ******* at 11.
What is there to be proud of? That she's produced a daughter as dumb as she is?
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12 May 2006, 09:26 AM
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Originally Posted by OllyK
Where is she getting the money for **** at the best part of £5 for a pack of 20?
- seriosly though a good point. I would imagine the parents.What a sad stste of affairs
12 May 2006, 09:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Paul Habgood
Perhaps from the proceeds of her heroin sales to other kids - seriosly though a good point. I would imagine the parents.
What a sad stste of affairs
- seriosly though a good point. I would imagine the parents.What a sad stste of affairs
Time to get tough, if you can afford to drink and or smoke then you don't need benefits, they are both luxury items not necessities.
12 May 2006, 11:02 AM
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I'm proud to admit that when I was 11 I was out playing footie, eating candy cigarettes, and drinking Cola. It would have been a big deal if you'd even given a girl a peck on the lips at the school dance.
And you know what? That's how it fu*king should be.
These kind of cases border on child abuse as far as I'm concerned!
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And you know what? That's how it fu*king should be.
These kind of cases border on child abuse as far as I'm concerned!
Ns04
12 May 2006, 11:05 AM
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So I assume he is now classed as a paedophile and has been placed on the sex offenders registry ?
And the daughter has been taken away from the mother by social services as she isn't fit to bring up children by paying for her alcohol and cigarette habit and encouraging her to have the child of a paedophile then ?
Yeah right
And the daughter has been taken away from the mother by social services as she isn't fit to bring up children by paying for her alcohol and cigarette habit and encouraging her to have the child of a paedophile then ?
Yeah right
12 May 2006, 11:22 AM
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I said it before - I'll say it again.
Sterilisation is the only way forward.
**** human rights - if you aint fit to be a parent the State should sort it so you can't be a parent.
Sterilisation is the only way forward.
**** human rights - if you aint fit to be a parent the State should sort it so you can't be a parent.
12 May 2006, 12:00 PM
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Originally Posted by bigsinky
so your telling me this 15 year old fella dipped his wick in an 11 year old child 
this country just get worse and worse
this country just get worse and worse I'm telling you this 15 year old fella dipped his wick in a DRUNK 11 year old child
12 May 2006, 12:21 PM
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Originally Posted by New_scooby_04
I'm proud to admit that when I was 11 I was out playing footie, eating candy cigarettes, and drinking Cola. It would have been a big deal if you'd even given a girl a peck on the lips at the school dance.
And you know what? That's how it fu*king should be.
These kind of cases border on child abuse as far as I'm concerned!
Ns04
And you know what? That's how it fu*king should be.
These kind of cases border on child abuse as far as I'm concerned!
Ns04
12 May 2006, 12:30 PM
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The parents (s) could benefit from reading this
http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat
http://www.thebestpageintheuniverse.net/c.cgi?u=beat
12 May 2006, 01:18 PM
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"I can give up smoking at any time, but I don’t find it affects my pregnancy”
GGGGGGGRRRRRRRRR!!!!!
stuff like this really f*cks me off!
is she a qualified DR at 11years old aswell then?!?!? Smoking whilst your pregnant is probably one of the most selfish and irresponsible things you could possibly do IMO.
I think all those who have a child with no means of supporting it themselves should be given child benefits for the first year or so, then offered free child care so they can go out and actually earn some money for themselves! If they don’t find work then tough ****!
GGGGGGGRRRRRRRRR!!!!!
stuff like this really f*cks me off!is she a qualified DR at 11years old aswell then?!?!? Smoking whilst your pregnant is probably one of the most selfish and irresponsible things you could possibly do IMO.
I think all those who have a child with no means of supporting it themselves should be given child benefits for the first year or so, then offered free child care so they can go out and actually earn some money for themselves! If they don’t find work then tough ****!
12 May 2006, 01:34 PM
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Originally Posted by wez_sti
"I can give up smoking at any time, but I don’t find it affects my pregnancy”
GGGGGGGRRRRRRRRR!!!!! stuff like this really f*cks me off!
GGGGGGGRRRRRRRRR!!!!!
stuff like this really f*cks me off!The girl probably "won't find that it affects her pregnancy" -which is already complicated by her age- untill she's gone through the agony of childbirth to hear the Dr's say, "I'm sorry, but there is a problem with your child". Perhaps she is too young to understand the gravity of her situation, or she's in denail to a certain extent, either way she's going to need support that I doubt she's getting.
I'm not a paternal person at all; the idea of having kids is not attractive to me, but I've been in infant special care wards and the effect of having a baby suffer from an affliction or pass away through absolutely no fault of the parents is heartbreaking enough. If girls like the above were exposed to this, I'm pretty sure they would not take any chances on their baby's health.
Oh and another thing to think about, where's the dad going to be if it all goes **** up? In fact where's he going to be if things go smoothly?
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12 May 2006, 01:48 PM
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Oh and another thing to think about, where's the dad going to be if it all goes **** up? In fact where's he going to be if things go smoothly?
Ns04
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12 May 2006, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by Daft Lad
Well thats easy, detention probably. HTH
To think, I once got detention for talking out of turn!
I wonder what his lines will be
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12 May 2006, 01:55 PM
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Originally Posted by New_scooby_04
Oh and another thing to think about, where's the dad going to be if it all goes **** up? In fact where's he going to be if things go smoothly?
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12 May 2006, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by lightning101
Coke and speed most likely 
I was thinking more along the lines of having to write:
"I am a ****" untill he's too old to be capable of any sexual activity again!!
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12 May 2006, 02:34 PM
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He SHOULD be in jail on a statutory rape charge
It's unthinkable to me that an 11 year old girl was out drinking,smoking and having sex let alone actually HAVING A BABY!
She should have been made to have an abortion not praised for bloody keeping it!!!!
I'd bet my life savings that she's pregnant again within a year of giving birth................just disgusting!