Scooby.Newbie

Well as title, have a new gf, after splitting from my wife of 11 years about 6 months ago, been seeing her for three months now (yeah out the pan and into the fire I know) and the weekend after next is the birthday, says would be nice if I did something romantic !!! does she not realise I had that knocked out of me years ago.

She lives a way from me so we normally only see each other at the weekend and sometimes only every other weekend but she is coming to stay at my place for the week, could book a nice meal but what sort of pressie and how much to spend on the first b'day of a new relationship?

Suggestions of the non '**** is a girls best friend' variety welcomed.

SN

kingofturds

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well. if you have only recently met i would suggest a nice bunch of flowers/chocolates cannot go wrong there. If you know her a bit bey=tter maybe a cd that she likes. Or do some digging into what perfume she likes

stew911

bunch of flowers, chocolate, nice bottle of perfume and a lovely candlelit meal.

little-ginge

I was going to say perfume...!

What interests does she have??

kingofturds

iTrader: (1)

Oh ffs you two are making me look gay now

stew911

how about you cook her meal instead?

Scooby.Newbie

Me

Have found out her fav perfume from her mum, been doing a little research you see, was either going to take her out for a meal or cook for her here seeing as she is staying, and was thinking of some Tiffany jewlery of sorts, amazing what you can get on eBay these days

stew911

ooh jewellery you can't go wrong there, and i think that the meal at home would be more appropiate cause then you can then just flop straight into bed after and work the meal off!

Scooby.Newbie

Yeah, the problem is I cook for her whenever we see each other, took her to a South West Scoobies weekend at Pontins in Brixham a month or so ago, so I guess she has already been spoilt

stew911

ok opt for meal out!!!

kingofturds

iTrader: (1)

Give her some love vouchers with th sn love master

lightning101

What about a threesome with a well hung guy

Suresh

Indeed. A pearl necklace works everytime. Original, unique and personalised are the main selling points.

lightning101

I've run out

Scooby.Newbie

Yeah where is Sara when you need her

kingofturds

iTrader: (1)

I meant you eejit

Scooby.Newbie

You think im the SN love master, homo.

powerwrx

iTrader: (11)

what about one of them activity days you can get, -you know,rallying or even a spa day etc

AudiLover

jewellery or a guinea pig.

stew911

i want a guinea pig but bf won't let me, i fell in love with them the first time i saw them in that egg advert on the telly. if you won't get your gf one, will you get me one istead?

Scooby.Newbie

How about a guinea pig in earings?

Thought about the adventure day thing, shot it past the bows and she said 'would I have to do it on my own' yes if its a spa day, now you can my jacket if its a rally day.

Thougt about a hot air balloon ride, there is a air strip near me that does that and tiger moth flights and the stuff, may look into that, could be an idea I guess.

kingofturds

iTrader: (1)

Okay i have tried to be sensible,to no avail so how about an **** love token.an hour of **** love with yourself to be redeemed whenever she deems fit

Scooby.Newbie

Yeah, although feel a little funny being all friendly and nice to a woman called 'Stew', and if memory serves didnt that little hairy guy drive a scooby as well, maybe it was a subliminal thing going on there.

Scooby.Newbie

Did that last time we were together and she still has 54 minutes worth of credit left on it

AudiLover

Id just take her to a real nice restaurant. Candle light, wearin a tux or something along those lines. Too early in the relationship to be splashin out on jewellery.

kingofturds

iTrader: (1)

You could only take 6 min of pounding hey you lightweight

Miss Kinky

give her a bunch of red roses - very romantic

Scooby.Newbie

Was expecting a better answer with a name like that

She has said that she has a preference for white roses in past conversations, so I guess the grand gesture and the fact that I sometimes retain stuff that she says could be a winner, nice one.

davyboy

I know you said no **** stuff.....

But have you given any consideration to '**** love beads' ?

Scooby.Newbie

This is one activity that im more than glad to admit that you are more of a 'man' than me at, hate to know what you concider is the bench mark.