Visions of them

My ex dumped me just as I was about to board the plane to australia, to go see her, well she called my mobile while I was in the departure lounge at heathrow airport screaming down the phone at me, the reason for ditching me

1 I told people where we would be in case of emergency
2 The stress caused after I had been going through after watching my Dad die in front of me from cancer

o.k now here's the dilema, she has a AUD 30k job, but on 4 occasions they nearly fired her and I saved her ***

here are a sample of the emails she sent me,

If you are awake - what is a redirect code in flash and how do I get it into
an animation? I know I need it - just have no idea what I'm doing.


Thankyou so much for helping me with this - 15/5 hours work in total - I really hope someone out there appreciates it. Anyway, my offer still stands - servant for a month - coz without your help i'd never have sorted it out!


well it's taken 8.5 hours, and i just can't get the syntax right. I didn't use your file coz i was already a ffew hours into the animation and didn't want to start over. I was wondering if you could have a look at this and explain to me step by step what the problem is, what i'm sposed to do etc..

I copied exacty the action script yu had in your banner but for some reason it would not work in mine.



She also sent me artwork of projects in the R & D stage, which is a breach of her contract

Should I send these to her boss

I'm in a real mixed up mind as to what to do, any sugestions?

Cheers
Ru

Bubba po

Why have you given yourself an alias, then used your old sign-off?

Visions of them

Enigma think you have me confused with someone else

Bubba po

Ok.

Enigma

I'd walk away from it & not contact her boss, but you know my opinion already

GC8

AUD $30,000 is a crap job, I doubt that she will miss it.....

Fuzz

telling her boss is a little nasty fella, although a nice "got you back for dumping me" thing to do. Is it really necessary to do that.
A bit spiteful me thinks!

Let her get on with her life and she'll probably get herself fired because she cant do the job on her own and dont you go helping her out either
Being in the "friend zone" is a very bad place to be...

Her loss IMO and if she used those excuses on me then I would see them as just that EXcUSES!.... She's seeing someone else.

Andy

Visions of them

she's just starting out, we were at college together in Sydney

Fuzz

Better Idea... send the artwork to the closest Rival company instead.

Visions of them

I know it's spitefull thats why i need other opinions I'm not sure what to do I feel very used at the moment

and yes last weekend I found out she cheated on me twice

Visions of them

Great Idea

paulr

And what would you gain?.Put your time and energy into finding someone else.

Fuzz

There you go then, she had to come up with something to stop you getting on the plane.
let the ungrateful cow get on with it.

Brit_in_Japan

I don't understand what you are asking.

Are you just asking advice because she dumped you...

...or you don't understand the reasons why she dumped you

...or you are thinking of getting even with her by dumping her in it with her boss and asking us what we think

...or what?

Sounds like you are really mixed up and the first thing you need to do is work out what advice you're asking for 'cos buggered if I can tell.

Fuzz

No place for malice. Make the best of a bad situation and just remember it as a part of your history... Move on

Andy

Visions of them

JUst advice if I should send the stuff to her boss showing she really is quite incompetant o a lot of aspects of her job, and I kept saving her.
I know it seems bitter on my behalf I'm just very hurt, by her actions and she thinks, she is completly in the rite.

No one understands her reasons, I don't either

Fuzz

Yea but they wern't reasons, they were excuses plucked from the thin air that occupies a space between her eyes.

Can you not see that??

Andy

Visions of them

I suppose I can*sigh*

Brit_in_Japan

You're feeliing hurt, the temptation is to get even and it's natural. However you should try to be a man about it. If she really is that incompetant, she'll get found out sooner or later, and you will always know you acted honourably, even if she doesn't deserve it.

Dream Weaver

1. Dont send anything to her boss, it will backfire in the end.

2. Get over it and get on with your own life, forget this woman and concentrate on living, it doesnt last forever!

steffiraf

I would just walk away and put it down to experience. Its one of those live and learn moments i believe

sti-04!!

Can you not just **** her pal/sister/mother ?? Video it or take a good few photo's & send them to her boss ?

Would be a lot easier & wouldnt really damage her career.


Stephen (the ever soo sensitive type )

Visions of them

I knw what you mean especially on the flash banners, they will be asking why she can not do it again, like you say it's hurt

Visions of them

I've got pics of her in her bra and panties

sti-04!!

What her pal/sister/mother ??


Send them to me I will put them too good use

I used to work in quality & this kinda thing was my forte

pslewis

You're not the first person to be used, you won't be the last ....

Get over it and move on ....

You will feel GREAT that you did NOTHING spiteful in the future and hate yourself if you did!

Pete

ps. please send the photos to me for assessment ......

Visions of them

No her, the thought of her mother is scary

Visions of them

I know I'm not the first or last, but it is my turn to step upto the plate and I'm a little dazed and confused whats best, well in my heart I know I should do nothing, but having this ammo against her is so tempting

sti-04!!

Well send them. PM me with the details. Revenge is sweet even better when we can make a judgement on how fit she is

paul-s

Thought you'd be floating about in here