help... g/friend problems
07 October 2005, 10:36 PM
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help... g/friend problems
I feel that I am amongst friends who may be able to advise me with a personal issue.
My girlfriend Sarah and I have been together for a few months now.
We have always been very close.
I love her dearly and she is my best friend.
The thing is I have noticed her behaviour change recently.
She has started going out a lot at the last minute.
Also I notice she seems to be going to extra lengths over her appearance and buying a lot of new clothes.
Phonecalls have started coming in, and when I answer, the line goes dead.
Later the phone will ring again, she will answer and take the phone into the other room.
I once over heard her say, I can't talk now, tomorrow OK.
The other night she went out and I finally decided to confront her.
I asked where she was going and she said to a girl friends house and staying overnight.
Thing is, that girl friend phoned that evening to speak to Sarah so I know it was a lie.
The following night she went out again and I decided to follow in my car.
I pulled up some way behind her and hid behind my car while I watched her meet a Man, who she embraced passionately.
It was at about this time I noticed a large stone-chip in my nearside wing of the Smart.
Should I touch-it up, or should I get the whole thing replaced, being plastic i might pick up a new one and swap it?
My girlfriend Sarah and I have been together for a few months now.
We have always been very close.
I love her dearly and she is my best friend.
The thing is I have noticed her behaviour change recently.
She has started going out a lot at the last minute.
Also I notice she seems to be going to extra lengths over her appearance and buying a lot of new clothes.
Phonecalls have started coming in, and when I answer, the line goes dead.
Later the phone will ring again, she will answer and take the phone into the other room.
I once over heard her say, I can't talk now, tomorrow OK.
The other night she went out and I finally decided to confront her.
I asked where she was going and she said to a girl friends house and staying overnight.
Thing is, that girl friend phoned that evening to speak to Sarah so I know it was a lie.
The following night she went out again and I decided to follow in my car.
I pulled up some way behind her and hid behind my car while I watched her meet a Man, who she embraced passionately.
It was at about this time I noticed a large stone-chip in my nearside wing of the Smart.
Should I touch-it up, or should I get the whole thing replaced, being plastic i might pick up a new one and swap it?
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08 October 2005, 11:22 AM
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I know this is tough but I think you're going to have to face up to the fact that she might be seeing someone else, especially with a name like Sarah......
Are there any spank marks - always a sure sign?
I think you should follow her and if and when she meets up with someone then 1st gear in the Smart and straight at 'em but just using the front (damaged) wing. Just make sure it's "him" you get and not her mum or a traffic warden.
That way you'll have taught her who's boss and you can get that new wing you've always wanted.
Very best of luck but you know SN is here to help, especially if there any mucky pics
dl
Are there any spank marks - always a sure sign?
I think you should follow her and if and when she meets up with someone then 1st gear in the Smart and straight at 'em but just using the front (damaged) wing. Just make sure it's "him" you get and not her mum or a traffic warden.
That way you'll have taught her who's boss and you can get that new wing you've always wanted.
Very best of luck but you know SN is here to help, especially if there any mucky pics
dl
08 October 2005, 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted by David Lock
I think you should follow her and if and when she meets up with someone then 1st gear in the Smart and straight at 'em but just using the front (damaged) wing. Just make sure it's "him" you get and not her mum or a traffic warden.dl
You're going to need to be in 4th gear at least if you intend to do more than waft his bootleg jeans.
08 October 2005, 11:57 AM
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It's always hard when this sort of thing happens, try not to blame yourself. I know emotionally at the moment you'll be a mixed up mess of sorrow, disappointment, shock, dismay and downright anger.
I was exactly the same when I kerbed my front alloy for the first time, these things can be repaired and you'll soon forget it ever happened...
....oh, and ditch the bitch..
I was exactly the same when I kerbed my front alloy for the first time, these things can be repaired and you'll soon forget it ever happened...
....oh, and ditch the bitch..
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08 October 2005, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Spoon
Bad advice indeed!
You're going to need to be in 4th gear at least if you intend to do more than waft his bootleg jeans.
You're going to need to be in 4th gear at least if you intend to do more than waft his bootleg jeans.
You have a good point but I thought that it would be easier getting into reverse and finishing the job off when in 1st rather than 4th
08 October 2005, 12:15 PM
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Originally Posted by David Lock
You have a good point but I thought that it would be easier getting into reverse and finishing the job off when in 1st rather than 4th
boy I am sick of seeing this same rubbish joke appearing
08 October 2005, 05:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Spoon
Bad advice indeed!
You're going to need to be in 4th gear at least if you intend to do more than waft his bootleg jeans.
You're going to need to be in 4th gear at least if you intend to do more than waft his bootleg jeans.
Phil
08 October 2005, 06:23 PM
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I feel that I am amongst friends who may be able to advise me with a personal issue.
My girlfriend Sarah and I have been together for a few months now.
We have always been very close.
I love her dearly and she is my best friend.
The thing is I have noticed her behaviour change recently.
She has started going out a lot at the last minute.
Also I notice she seems to be going to extra lengths over her appearance and buying a lot of new clothes.
Phonecalls have started coming in, and when I answer, the line goes dead.
Later the phone will ring again, she will answer and take the phone into the other room.
I once over heard her say, I can't talk now, tomorrow OK.
The other night she went out and I finally decided to confront her.
I asked where she was going and she said to a girl friends house and staying overnight.
Thing is, that girl friend phoned that evening to speak to Sarah so I know it was a lie.
The following night she went out again and I decided to follow in my car.
I pulled up some way behind her and hid behind my car while I watched her meet a Man, who she embraced passionately.
It was at about this time I noticed a large stone-chip in my nearside wing of the Smart.
Should I touch-it up, or should I get the whole thing replaced, being plastic i might pick up a new one and swap it?
My girlfriend Sarah and I have been together for a few months now.
We have always been very close.
I love her dearly and she is my best friend.
The thing is I have noticed her behaviour change recently.
She has started going out a lot at the last minute.
Also I notice she seems to be going to extra lengths over her appearance and buying a lot of new clothes.
Phonecalls have started coming in, and when I answer, the line goes dead.
Later the phone will ring again, she will answer and take the phone into the other room.
I once over heard her say, I can't talk now, tomorrow OK.
The other night she went out and I finally decided to confront her.
I asked where she was going and she said to a girl friends house and staying overnight.
Thing is, that girl friend phoned that evening to speak to Sarah so I know it was a lie.
The following night she went out again and I decided to follow in my car.
I pulled up some way behind her and hid behind my car while I watched her meet a Man, who she embraced passionately.
It was at about this time I noticed a large stone-chip in my nearside wing of the Smart.
Should I touch-it up, or should I get the whole thing replaced, being plastic i might pick up a new one and swap it?
PMSL
i think the naff rope light round your bed might have something to do with it
08 October 2005, 09:49 PM
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Originally Posted by salsa-king
do u think a longer run up i'd get into 6th gear?
Phil
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09 October 2005, 09:36 AM
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miss squares would lov 2 try my bed out i'm sure.lites or no lites.. i'd hav to turn the beds heating off too!
09 October 2005, 04:46 PM
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i'll keep it on for you then x
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09 October 2005, 07:20 PM
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Can't bloody believe that!!!!!. I looked at the thread title and thought poor Phil's going through it again. 
I had my doubts when you said you followed her.......
...who in their right mind wouldn't notice a bright yellow Smart Roadster with Lambo doors in their rear view mirror.
Anyway I'd touch it up until you get the replacement wing.
Cheers
Lee
I had my doubts when you said you followed her.......
...who in their right mind wouldn't notice a bright yellow Smart Roadster with Lambo doors in their rear view mirror.
Anyway I'd touch it up until you get the replacement wing.
Cheers
Lee
10 October 2005, 12:35 AM
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you already know the answer to your question mate,she is cheating on you..
Get rid of her asap she is not worth getting upset about and she has no respect for you.
JIM
Get rid of her asap she is not worth getting upset about and she has no respect for you.
JIM
