Perving
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This time of year is bad news, all the ladies out in summery clothes and me perving at them.
Anyone else suffering this distraction (think I know the answer) as it is becoming difficult, as I get older I get worse, we had a diversity talk at work and I was to busy looking at the female attendees ***** to take much notice, I cant help it.
Is perving sexist or acceptable ?, I have to make a comparison here where perving is having a crafty look and having the decency to blush if spotted and leering is the more extreme version where there is no attempt to disguise your intentions and makes ladies feel uncomfortable, i.e. dirty old man. I think blokes are preprogrammed to do this but nowadays we have to be a bit crafty lest we incure the wrath of the feminist/pc lobby, which I feel is unfair as we just cannot break our programming and do view women as sex objects regardless of how we treat them otherwise, i.e. politeness, respect and equality, i.e. I may have the utmost respect for a lady but still want to bone her in many different positions, mind wanders..... Crashes car etc.
Also, I know women do it as well but dont think they are as commited as blokes, I am prepared to be put straight on this one.
Anyone else suffering this distraction (think I know the answer) as it is becoming difficult, as I get older I get worse, we had a diversity talk at work and I was to busy looking at the female attendees ***** to take much notice, I cant help it.
Is perving sexist or acceptable ?, I have to make a comparison here where perving is having a crafty look and having the decency to blush if spotted and leering is the more extreme version where there is no attempt to disguise your intentions and makes ladies feel uncomfortable, i.e. dirty old man. I think blokes are preprogrammed to do this but nowadays we have to be a bit crafty lest we incure the wrath of the feminist/pc lobby, which I feel is unfair as we just cannot break our programming and do view women as sex objects regardless of how we treat them otherwise, i.e. politeness, respect and equality, i.e. I may have the utmost respect for a lady but still want to bone her in many different positions, mind wanders..... Crashes car etc.
Also, I know women do it as well but dont think they are as commited as blokes, I am prepared to be put straight on this one.
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Girl at work today, normally rates a decent 6.5 out of 10 on our departmental spreadsheet, she's 6ft+, slim as you like and was wearing a very skimpy top with no bra today, got herself bumped up to an 8. I had a 5 minute conversation with her ***** as well
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I'm terrible at it, the only way for me to stop is to walk around with my eyes shut, obviously I'm not going do that I try to keep it discreet, but I'm sure they know - probably makes it worse that if they caught me red handed with a sly grin and a "alright darlin" wink of an eye.
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Having a quick glance at a good looking girl whos dressed to please is normal, I do it all the time, as do most blokes if their honest. Even my girlfriend has caught me having a quick look at other girls when we out, and she knows its just a bloke thing and doesnt mind.
Staring however is a different matter, I dont think a girl would get offended if you look away when caught, if you carried on looking when caught and the girl feels uncomfortable then that is wrong.
Staring however is a different matter, I dont think a girl would get offended if you look away when caught, if you carried on looking when caught and the girl feels uncomfortable then that is wrong.
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One of the great things about summer is there lots of pretty girls to look at, and you get to wear sunglasses to disguise where you're looking.
What I want to know is, are attractive girls allergic to the cold? Where do they hide when it isn't summer? It isn't just the skimpier outfits either, they just don't seem to venture out. Maybe it's because all the munters have plenty of blubber to keep them warm?
What I want to know is, are attractive girls allergic to the cold? Where do they hide when it isn't summer? It isn't just the skimpier outfits either, they just don't seem to venture out. Maybe it's because all the munters have plenty of blubber to keep them warm?
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"MrsREV often points out attractive women for me to look at. That's one of the reasons I married her " As I do to Mr Apparition...... t'would be a crime to have the poor guy miss out now wouldn't it? After all, looking isn't a crime.
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Have you noticed there are more women's T-shirts with slogans written across the chest. This obviously draws your attention to that part of the body as you try to read what it says.
Next thing you know you are getting glared at for staring at her *****!!!!!
Next thing you know you are getting glared at for staring at her *****!!!!!
#15
Originally Posted by RedFive
Never stops to amaze me how many of you guys don't actually "get any". Really.
Girls have ***** now do they. Blimey.
Girls have ***** now do they. Blimey.
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Yup, I do it too. I live in a uni town, so get to see all the young, nubile students off to the uni bars Damn near crashed a couple of times cos of it too.
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Originally Posted by RedFive
Never stops to amaze me how many of you guys don't actually "get any". Really.
Girls have ***** now do they. Blimey.
Girls have ***** now do they. Blimey.
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Originally Posted by NotoriousREV
Newsflash: even men who get plenty stare at womens *****, your bloke inluded
#21
I never perve. Ever. It's disgusting.
I never sneak a quick look. Well hardly ever. Especially not when the office girls wear low cut tops. I never notice that. Much.
Oh ok, I do it all the time. It's free, after all.
I never sneak a quick look. Well hardly ever. Especially not when the office girls wear low cut tops. I never notice that. Much.
Oh ok, I do it all the time. It's free, after all.
#27
Perving is a natural thing for a heterosexual male to do whether attached or not. It only comes a bit OTT when you actually go out of your way to make a "viewing" possible. Basically, nowt wrong in taking advantage of certain situations.
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Originally Posted by TheBigMan
Perving is a natural thing for a heterosexual male to do whether attached or not. It only comes a bit OTT when you actually go out of your way to make a "viewing" possible.