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Old 27 March 2005, 04:20 PM
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Need some opinions please folks! Ive been seeing this girl for about a month - have spent quite a lot of time with her(she lives about 5 mins away) however Im wondering:

She told me last night shes falling in love with me?? this sounds too soon to me Im worried. I like her and we have fun together but Ive never told anyone I love them and dont think this is the right time to start.....I think shes looking for a similar response and I cant give it to her......I dont want to fek it up, but Im no liar and she would be able to see though it anyway......she wants to see me like almost every day too......erm help!
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she can't be that keen if it's taken her a month
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dont tell her, allways best not to, works for me,

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I think shes rather keen to make this into something more serious than maybe I want, Im not looking to **** around or anything I just want to have a good time with her and not be too serious about the whole thing
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How old are you?
Old 27 March 2005, 04:32 PM
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dont tell her , keep her keen and get your wicked way
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well don't say anything then. problem solved

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Originally Posted by ADP
Hi all

Need some opinions please folks! Ive been seeing this girl for about a month - have spent quite a lot of time with her(she lives about 5 mins away) however Im wondering:

She told me last night shes falling in love with me?? this sounds too soon to me Im worried. I like her and we have fun together but Ive never told anyone I love them and dont think this is the right time to start.....I think shes looking for a similar response and I cant give it to her......I dont want to fek it up, but Im no liar and she would be able to see though it anyway......she wants to see me like almost every day too......erm help!

mate my good old friend, she only knows u for a month and she loves u


woman nowadays dont know the meaning of luv, they will leave u and screw u for your wealth, if she is unselfish and loves u alot and thinks good of u and your well being and your cash then she is a good woman, if she is all get me this and that and very demanding and controlling, leave her bros
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^ what he said

Old 27 March 2005, 05:08 PM
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i waited nearly 2 years before i said it to my current G/F

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2 years sounds more realistic! She says she just wants to know how I feel even if its bad? So what If I say I dont love you but like spending time with you (which is probably bad to her) then Im in trouble........her sister is in a "serious" relationship as are her best mates and Im concerned shes just trying to play catch up
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Someone asked what it is and I told them that "it can be hard with a soft middle but sometimes the middle gets very sweet and the outside gets crusty". They replied that they thought this was a good decription of love. I said "what?, I thought you said what's a mellon like".

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^ that makes absoluteley no sense whatsoever
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Originally Posted by ADP
2 years sounds more realistic! She says she just wants to know how I feel even if its bad? So what If I say I dont love you but like spending time with you (which is probably bad to her) then Im in trouble.

u have to tell her bud she only knows u for a month and she says she luvs u, will she go through the hard times with u, if u ever hit a low and out of job or business didnt work out, will she leave u in the lurch, or would she support u

God bless my wife, thats what i call luv, she has been their through hell and back with me, through loosing business and property when i was younger and nearly loosing the house and supporting me and we have had our fair share of arguements but she is a part of my soul, most loyal angel, luv is when u are married and then realise what that woman is like, not by just knowing her for a month


no way bros
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you are right moses...........infact shes just texted me to say that shes sorry if its all going too fast for me ! and if I need more space etc then thats cool. Sounds better.
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Originally Posted by ADP
you are right moses...........infact shes just texted me to say that shes sorry if its all going too fast for me ! and if I need more space etc then thats cool. Sounds better.
You sure she hasn't read this thread?
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Originally Posted by ADP
you are right moses...........infact shes just texted me to say that shes sorry if its all going too fast for me ! and if I need more space etc then thats cool. Sounds better.

nice one bud and if u do marry a woman nowadays pls get a pre nump or u are screwed , look whats happening to my hero rod stewart and look what happened to ray parlour, luv goes out the window bud
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Originally Posted by ADP
Hi all

Need some opinions please folks! Ive been seeing this girl for about a month - have spent quite a lot of time with her(she lives about 5 mins away) however Im wondering:

She told me last night shes falling in love with me?? this sounds too soon to me Im worried. I like her and we have fun together but Ive never told anyone I love them and dont think this is the right time to start.....I think shes looking for a similar response and I cant give it to her......I dont want to fek it up, but Im no liar and she would be able to see though it anyway......she wants to see me like almost every day too......erm help!
Tell her its too soon and that you are having fun.Gotta be honest or it would become a prob later. After 9 yrs or relationship that turned into marriage later,i realised i was not loved!Love is of all kinds.To settle for which type you want, take your time.
Amen!
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but Ive never told anyone I love them
you are either:

15 yrs old
have not had many birds
a hard faced ****


Old 27 March 2005, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by Chip Sengravy
you are either:

15 yrs old
have not had many birds
a hard faced ****


Lol respect to your username + sore finger - pmsl

Simon.
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From one who is older and "wiser". You will know the one you truly love.
You won't necessarily end up with that one though.
Don't ask.
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tell her you Luv her


Take her from behind


and pull faces behind her back


and dont forget to wipe it on the curtain


then tell her your not sure what luv is
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tell her love is taking it up the wrong un
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It does take time..........




I can remember being at a party.....

When I saw this gorgeous gal in the corner....

I went over and said "I think I love you, hic"

She told me to get lost (or words to that effect).
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As long as you are knocking the bottom end out of her what does it matter
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Originally Posted by R.B
As long as you are knocking the bottom end out of her what does it matter
i dont think sn is the best place for advice for advice on woman unless you want a restraining order that is


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