T4molie

......relationship orientated question!!

Not looking for this thread to get all heavy and stuff but have been wondering what peoples thoughts were of.....

"How do you know when you're with the right one?"

Come one and all and share what made you think, yip he/she is the one I wanna $hag for a very long time

OllyK

If you are still with them on the day you die, they were the right one

lightning101

Unless they murdered you

Diablo

In which case you'd be the last one to worry about it

Vette_76

If she doesn't press charges she's a keeper!!

Drunken Bungle Whore

If anyone could really answer that question then they'd be a very rich person!

Plus, if you could somehow 'prove' that someone was the right one, then where would be the mystery and the adventure?

I absolutely, 100%, believe I'm with the right one - there's not that many wierdy nutters in the world who could cope with me!

Sometime's it helps if you've seen what 'wrong' looks like though - it really gives you something to compare it too.

T4molie

PMSL I think you might have a point there

T4molie

I think most people see what wrong looks like everyday of the week

Diablo

If your happy, then thats the right one.

If your not, then either deal with your insecurities, or move on

pslewis

You need 3 'right' ones through life, is my opinion.

#1. Romance, life, passion, youth, madness .....

#2. Partner for parenting children, solid, stable ......

#3. Partner to die with, grow old together, talk, talk, talk, visit places, contentment ....

If you can get all 3 in 1 then you are probably the luckiest person alive, the divorce rate shows that we need different people at different times in life ...

Well, thats my take on it anyway!

Pete

TelBoy

Bloody hell, i agree with that. Christ, Tel.

lightning101

And you've mapped the rest of your life out in accordance with that advice


PMSL, ROFL, slapping desk and generally punching myself in disbelief

T4molie

Well put And not a single mention of the word L****R

Nice one Pete

pslewis

Well, yes, voting Labour would help you!!

Pete

mr & mrs carlos uk300

[QUOTE=T4molie]......relationship orientated question!!


"How do you know when you're with the right one?"


When mine is mine and what his is mine! Tee Hee


mrs carlos.

T4molie

Mods: Please delete that last post

eClaire

Got to agree with DBW on this one

I too believe I am with the right one, I too have seen enough 'wrong' to know this is the right person for me. I didn't look for it, he came to me. He asked me out and I originally thought 'no, I can't be arsed with it', as my previous 'boyfriends' caused a lot of problems for me, especially the last one. I am glad I eventually did now as it is totally different from anything else I have experienced (so much so we have just bought a house, we are getting married on 24 June and baby is due on 1 October )

I don't think you actually know the one you are with is actually the one until you take the time to step back and look at how they have affected your life, whether it be positive or negative.
Take my situation for example; I am a LOT closer to my parents now, I never used to be. Now, I am on my last day after staying at their house for a week helping my mum spring clean for all the renovation work thats going on while the other half is away for work in Slough! I used to be a good time girl, I liked the booze and certain class A narcotics - even before I fell pregnant I lost interest in them. The biggie for me was that I managed to come off the anti-depressants; this person makes me at one with myself. They have brought out the real me, the person I like being. They may not necessarily affect you to this extent, but if someone can make things better for you effortlessly, as you do for them, then surely this person is for you?

Chip Sengravy

Every woman I've met has told me that I am "the One."

T4molie

I take it in each case you were the one that finished it then?

Chip Sengravy

Yes, I am still in search of "the one" for me. It's good fun looking though